VertigoKnight
Veteran
whats yall results been on bumble?
Pretty good. The Jap chick I smashed on the weekend was from Bumble.
whats yall results been on bumble?
Pretty good. The Jap chick I smashed on the weekend was from Bumble.
how long before you started getting traction? On the app, you see a good volume of likes?
I said “so... it’s not a std of some sort? You can be honest with me”
Her: “No it’s just for spiritual reasons”
CAP
10 years without sex? 25-35
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Vampires.....women love vampires, now its animated....pretty sure she'll ask you to watch it with her, either way, the creatures of the night won't be the only ones sucking
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touché my friend, touché.Usually fairly quickly.
I recently went back on the app two Sundays ago and created a new profile.
Had a lot of likes within a few hrs. But by now I know what attracts the sort of women that I want to talk to.
What you got going on in your profile?
How much punani y’all gon let a nikka turn down before you think he gay? And these are good looking women
The best tip I have is to enjoy your own company and run lifestyle game. Date yourself first and invite these women to come along second. So any activity you would do with a date you should be doing for yourself or comfortable doing it alone. This removes the desperation factor and takes the sting out if you do get rejected.
Keep in mind that I’m old, not married and not really looking for LOVE. This advice probably doesn’t apply if you are looking for “the one.”
I see women i know in real life and just think ugh you just here lying for the gram living a lie.
Very important.
Always been somebody whos done things and gone places by myself, my friends over the years looked at like im crazy.
But I have enjoyed going to restaurants and eating alone etc.
Sure company is nice but its not going to be a factor in whether I go out to eat or not.
If I wanna go Ima go whether you coming or not.
Few times I've done it and had chicks pop up like "Cant believe you went without me" or "I thought we were going?"
Well we were...until you flaked or just give me an unsatisfactory response when I tried to make plans.
At the same time I feel me enjoying my own company is downside lmao.
I just have a very meh attitude to initial dating and friendships/relationships generally, to the point im like how I even do this ish lmao.
Some of it is definitely anxiety too.
However when I fukk with someone I fukk with them all the way, so when they switch up its disappointing.
Whether thats a friend moving funny or a girl Im seeing/speaking too I notice all the small stuff.
Dont even want a relationship currently I just want a pretty chick I can enjoy and chill with regularly.
Female companys cool when they're actually good to be around outside of sex.
I see women i know in real life and just think ugh you just here lying for the gram living a lie.
Very important.
Always been somebody whos done things and gone places by myself, my friends over the years looked at like im crazy.
But I have enjoyed going to restaurants and eating alone etc.
Sure company is nice but its not going to be a factor in whether I go out to eat or not.
If I wanna go Ima go whether you coming or not.
Few times I've done it and had chicks pop up like "Cant believe you went without me" or "I thought we were going?"
Well we were...until you flaked or just give me an unsatisfactory response when I tried to make plans.
At the same time I feel me enjoying my own company is downside lmao.
I just have a very meh attitude to initial dating and friendships/relationships generally, to the point im like how I even do this ish lmao.
Some of it is definitely anxiety too.
However when I fukk with someone I fukk with them all the way, so when they switch up its disappointing.
Whether thats a friend moving funny or a girl Im seeing/speaking too I notice all the small stuff.
Dont even want a relationship currently I just want a pretty chick I can enjoy and chill with regularly.
Female companys cool when they're actually good to be around outside of sex.
That's how it should be anyway.
Once you don't give a fukk, nothing can faze you.
They say no man is an island, which is true to a certain degree, but in life your best friend and biggest motivator has to be the person looking in the mirror. People are flaky, switch on you and are unpredictable, but you're with yourself 24/7. That self conscious bullshyt being scared to be seen doing anything by yourself is for the birds.
I did a few hours study and went for a long walk earlier and feel exhilarated right now. I meeting a couple of friends later, but even if I wasn't, I'd still be good.
I've learned in life to never rely on people cos most of them either ain't shyt or got their own problems.
Nothing wrong with being fussy about the type of people you deal with. Quality over quantity.