Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I've bumped into a few old team chicks since I been out in the field again. Smashed one from the club, been on one date with another chick and tentatively might be able to swing three dates with three other chicks. I think post-covid, chicks that weren't in these streets regularly are out turning up and looking to have fun. Nothing like someone new though. I think my post-covid summer official starts when I smash someone new that isn't through online dating.


Any tips for getting back in the field brehs? I been out for a while since my cold approach fuxk up. But i hit up the mall again and I know it’s a shotty place for this but it was baddies out, even the bytch that rang me up at pacsun:russ: I can’t even lie I only went with family today so I wouldn’t look like a sex fiend:mjcry:.
@Rozay Oro @Ezekiel 25:17 @Hennessypapi @10bandz i know y’all the vets in the field and keep pushing no matter what, I needa learn how to move like that:jbhmm:
If you did it pre-pandemic, give yourself a little breathing room and remember you won't be back where you started after being off for a year. I just started to find my groove again last wknd after being out of sync w/ new chicks since I restarted socializing in early May... Like I was getting #s, but because I was too lit, the #s were worthless smh. And then I realized I wasn't really talking about shyt, and then I realized that I was low energy.

If you are new to hollering/cold approaching, give yourself small goals that you can work on each time, like solid eye contact or smiling or changing convo topics or bringing up sex in a non-creepy way. If you try to do all of those things at once, it can be overwhelming, but if you work on one thing at a time, get good at it, and then move to the next thing, your progress becomes more tangible and you can feel yourself getting better. That method is called 'Deliberate Practice'. Sports psychologist use it for athletes a lot, but it applies to anything you want to get better at.
 
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Any of you guys experience your dikk going limp when you put a condom on? Like it'll be on and after a some strokes it'll go soft and take it out. Anyone have this problem and solved it?

I know you guys gon say raw dogg it (which it stays hard) but I aint bout that life lol
 

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I be falling in love again and losing :laff:
Help me be a Savage again. I done with tinder I just want to fukk bytches irl. I’m just not smooth with it. I come in good but fumble :laff:. I’m just happy to be sober frfr:jawalrus:
 

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Any of you guys experience your dikk going limp when you put a condom on? Like it'll be on and after a some strokes it'll go soft and take it out. Anyone have this problem and solved it?

I know you guys gon say raw dogg it (which it stays hard) but I aint bout that life lol
One of the reasons why i hate wearing condoms
 

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Any of you guys experience your dikk going limp when you put a condom on? Like it'll be on and after a some strokes it'll go soft and take it out. Anyone have this problem and solved it?

I know you guys gon say raw dogg it (which it stays hard) but I aint bout that life lol

What condoms are you using?

I've found if I've been seeing someone for a while and we are having unprotected sex and I start seeing someone new and I'm protected, it takes a while for me to get used to condoms again.
 

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You doing it or the chick sending you a message?

Nah I'm doing it. But the shyt is so unseasoned I kinda don't wanna meet her in person for the shyt. It's gon' be the whole fireworks when I go to break it off, of that I'm sure.

But I'm stuck between being man enough to do it (it's been my M.O. so far, certain shyt you just do in person) and dodging whatever emotional manipulation bullshyt she comes up with.
 

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So i basically called out this bytch that ghosted me last year before corona started...

Latina,average, weed head,horoscope types(red flag)...anyways i said u know u never gave me a reason why...n she said she didnt feel any chemisty...mind u we went to the movies..got some $2 tacos after and made out for hours in public...n a week later she basically sent a paragraph filled with excuses...

Fast forward now...she sees me with a cute mixed chick for 9 months...n she commented on my story bcuz i was watchn a movie...long story short she was actn kinda flirty n i told her like you had a chance and ghosted...u come off like u dont know what u want..cry about men all the time...ur like 35 this year....she was sayn how she single bcuz she wants to fukk alot n guys cant keep up lmaoo

She dated some fat Mexican guy for a month n they broke up :flabbynsick:
 
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