Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Nah I'm doing it. But the shyt is so unseasoned I kinda don't wanna meet her in person for the shyt. It's gon' be the whole fireworks when I go to break it off, of that I'm sure.

But I'm stuck between being man enough to do it (it's been my M.O. so far, certain shyt you just do in person) and dodging whatever emotional manipulation bullshyt she comes up with.
I've done it and to be 100 they take it as a big slap in the face if you break up via text. If you care about her on any level the least you can do is call her and speak with her. There is really no easy way to do it so it all comes down to how much you care. If it's a woman you still wanna have some kind of relationship with or they mean a lot then in person is best, followed by via phone but doing it via text is for woman you don't care about at all IMO.


When I did it via text it was girls I didn't care about or I found them to be boring so I just cut it off and told them it's not working out anymore on or that I got back with an ex. Shut it down and that was that. I didn't have to hear them complain or anything but I know they were upset and some tried to convince me otherwise but I put my foot down.
 

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So i basically called out this bytch that ghosted me last year before corona started...

Latina,average, weed head,horoscope types(red flag)...anyways i said u know u never gave me a reason why...n she said she didnt feel any chemisty...mind u we went to the movies..got some $2 tacos after and made out for hours in public...n a week later she basically sent a paragraph filled with excuses...

Fast forward now...she sees me with a cute mixed chick for 9 months...n she commented on my story bcuz i was watchn a movie...long story short she was actn kinda flirty n i told her like you had a chance and ghosted...u come off like u dont know what u want..cry about men all the time...ur like 35 this year....she was sayn how she single bcuz she wants to fukk alot n guys cant keep up lmaoo

She dated some fat Mexican guy for a month n they broke up :flabbynsick:
Souldnt even responded. Leave on read
 

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It's why i'm so happy that i'm not some young simp like I used to. Went over to that chicks place yesterday the one I couldn't on Saturday. Was there for like 5 hours :shaq:, anyways I left go home and she texts me sent me photos bla bla

today I message her and absolutely nothing :picard:
 

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What condoms are you using?

I've found if I've been seeing someone for a while and we are having unprotected sex and I start seeing someone new and I'm protected, it takes a while for me to get used to condoms again.

Magnums. I couldn't use durex at all it was small. I find it happens with most condoms.

The crazy part is with one specific girl I never have an issue condom or not
 

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I've done it and to be 100 they take it as a big slap in the face if you break up via text. If you care about her on any level the least you can do is call her and speak with her. There is really no easy way to do it so it all comes down to how much you care. If it's a woman you still wanna have some kind of relationship with or they mean a lot then in person is best, followed by via phone but doing it via text is for woman you don't care about at all IMO.


When I did it via text it was girls I didn't care about or I found them to be boring so I just cut it off and told them it's not working out anymore on or that I got back with an ex. Shut it down and that was that. I didn't have to hear them complain or anything but I know they were upset and some tried to convince me otherwise but I put my foot down.

Nah bruh, I think this is the first woman I've come across that I don't want to have any kind of relationship with afterwards.

But I guess I do care about her 'cause I don't really want to just side-step her like that. Homegirl is sensitive and rich as fukk, kinda want a break with no fukkery and no stalkers or whatever.
Guess I'ma have to just do the thing and put my foot down when the other shoe drops. :wow:
As soon as I came to the coli to post my question she sent me a text tal'm'bout her best friend just died in a car accident. :snoop: fukking timing man.
 

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Nah bruh, I think this is the first woman I've come across that I don't want to have any kind of relationship with afterwards.

But I guess I do care about her 'cause I don't really want to just side-step her like that. Homegirl is sensitive and rich as fukk, kinda want a break with no fukkery and no stalkers or whatever.
Guess I'ma have to just do the thing and put my foot down when the other shoe drops. :wow:
As soon as I came to the coli to post my question she sent me a text tal'm'bout her best friend just died in a car accident. :snoop: fukking timing man.

People die every day, give your condolences protect your peace breh. Better to cry now than prolong things anymore.
 

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It's why i'm so happy that i'm not some young simp like I used to. Went over to that chicks place yesterday the one I couldn't on Saturday. Was there for like 5 hours :shaq:, anyways I left go home and she texts me sent me photos bla bla

today I message her and absolutely nothing :picard:

You got your nut fam. :obama:
 

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Any of you guys experience your dikk going limp when you put a condom on? Like it'll be on and after a some strokes it'll go soft and take it out. Anyone have this problem and solved it?

I know you guys gon say raw dogg it (which it stays hard) but I aint bout that life lol
Why I read this in the morning and it just happened to me :francis:

It's not the first time either, but it's just so fukking random when it comes up:why:

What is the solution I'm only 28 :damn:
 

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you taking to long to put it on and momentum going away or something? Use lube

i personally never used lube before nor do I know anyone who has (then again I’ve never asked)

Common thing? Does it make a difference?
 
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