Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Macallik86

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With the condom thing, I think it's kinda like telling yourself not to think about a pink elephant... it becomes all you think about.

When putting on a condom, my mind used to go to 'don't get soft or you'll miss out on some p*ssy!!!' and then it became a race against time.

The more I used condoms, the more I was able to refocus to how good each stroke is going to feel and what she is gonna look like when she cums.

Just keep using condoms, redirect your brain and don't sweat it too much if you gotta take a breather.
 

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With the condom thing, I think it's kinda like telling yourself not to think about a pink elephant... it becomes all you think about.

When putting on a condom, my mind used to go to 'don't get soft or you'll miss out on some p*ssy!!!' and then it became a race against time.

The more I used condoms, the more I was able to refocus to how good each stroke is going to feel and what she is gonna look like when she cums.

Just keep using condoms, redirect your brain and don't sweat it too much if you gotta take a breather.

exactly how my mind thinks lol
 

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Got a ton of women sending me roses on Hinge.

Was surprised at one particular chick who sent one and a reply to one of my questions, thick Filipina, cute face and her ass is crazy.

She'd curved me back in 2019 when I tried to setup a date, then a few weeks later I saw her on the IG explore page with a next breh. Fair enough.

Anyway I accepted her rose and sent her a short message back. Then remembered just how dry she was and also a massive braggart as well.

She sent me a message on Saturday but I was at asian tennis chicks apartment enjoying myself with her so didn't reply. I re-read it today and was just not in the mood to entertain her. I feel very content with the women I'm dealing with atm who are all putting out a certain good energy, so I unmatched her ass.

The potential stress of dealing with her was not worth it, big ass or not.
 

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Got a ton of women sending me roses on Hinge.

Was surprised at one particular chick who sent one and a reply to one of my questions, thick Filipina, cute face and her ass is crazy.

She'd curved me back in 2019 when I tried to setup a date, then a few weeks later I saw her on the IG explore page with a next breh. Fair enough.

Anyway I accepted her rose and sent her a short message back. Then remembered just how dry she was and also a massive braggart as well.

She sent me a message on Saturday but I was at asian tennis chicks apartment enjoying myself with her so didn't reply. I re-read it today and was just not in the mood to entertain her. I feel very content with the women I'm dealing with atm who are all putting out a certain good energy, so I unmatched her ass.

The potential stress of dealing with her was not worth it, big ass or not.

your profile set up a certain way or you just in a good city?
 

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Smh had to learn a lesson a hard way tonight. Was talking to a chick via text off a dating app for a few days, the same chick who I said was a dub after she flaked on me this weekend. She seemed cool and like she was a freak, sent me nudes and the whole nine, we were talking dirty the night before so I figured it was a done deal. So we actual met today and she was boring asf and stuck up. Talking about she don't have sex on the first date and even slipped in that she don't kiss on the first date if I was wondering, she did this after complaining about how hungry she was which I guess she did cause I took her to a bar. I don't know if the bytch thought she was gonna get a free meal out of me or what but I'm glad I did invest too much into this bullshyt.

Chick didn't even wanna tell me her real name prior to meeting.

Lesson learned, always go off the phone vibe. fukk that texting shyt! Also if a girl flakes she is clipped forever in my book unless she is basically begging to see me.
 

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Smh had to learn a lesson a hard way tonight. Was talking to a chick via text off a dating app for a few days, the same chick who I said was a dub after she flaked on me this weekend. She seemed cool and like she was a freak, sent me nudes and the whole nine, we were talking dirty the night before so I figured it was a done deal. So we actual met today and she was boring asf and stuck up. Talking about she don't have sex on the first date and even slipped in that she don't kiss on the first date if I was wondering, she did this after complaining about how hungry she was which I guess she did cause I took her to a bar. I don't know if the bytch thought she was gonna get a free meal out of me or what but I'm glad I did invest too much into this bullshyt.

Chick didn't even wanna tell me her real name prior to meeting.

Lesson learned, always go off the phone vibe. fukk that texting shyt! Also if a girl flakes she is clipped forever in my book unless she is basically begging to see me.

95% of the time chicks getting sexual too quickly or sending nudes are always pretty much time wasters. Hard lesson I've had to learn so many times that if I get a hint of it these days I'm out.

:hubie:

This chick sounds legit crazy though. Not telling you her name? Definitely sounds like she thought she was gonna get fed then bounce with an excuse.
 

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dont jack off, have sex nothing for two weeks it will reset everything

dont jack off.

Just came from my main shorty. Hit it twice. Both times with condom no issue. Never an issue with her but basically almost every other girl. I have a hard on before she even really touches me
 
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