Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Vinny Lupton]

Gained 10 lbs since May ppl gotta stop inviting me out

 

[VertigoKnight]

Gained 10 lbs since May ppl gotta stop inviting me out

Drinking and eating?

Or just food?

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Drinking and eating?

Or just food?

Both
Staying my ass in the house for the entirety of July

 

[CW_1991]

Got this fit lil 24-year-old white chick checking me at my job.

We work in the same department and she recently added me on facebook.

Couple days after I accepted she told me in person that I can text you if I wanted to. I knew what the deal was the moment she sent it as well as her behavior in person beforehand but I just hadn't entertained it yet. Definitely would smash though.

Smashed raw last saturday.



Fellas, listen to me. If a female is really fukkin with you, she will make it very apparent. Like super obvious.

Obviously some females are more forward than others but, they will make it known. Also keeping your body in good shape and things of the nature helps a lot. I have a lot of females jokingly comment on my glutes all the time (pause).

Quick story, yesterday after I got done working out I went to Walmart to grab a couple items while I still had a bit of a gym pump from upper body day, as well as fitted sports tee. Anyway when I was in there I noticed a couple females eyeballing me. After I got what I came for and was headed back to my car in the parking lot one of the females cat called out to me from a good distance away, as she was backing out of the parking lot herself, "what kind of cologne I had on".

Knowing damn well that I wasn't wearing any cologne or that she was even close enough to me to even smell it.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Both
Staying my ass in the house for the entirety of July

Yeah I've had to balance it. Eat healthy and only have a beer if I go out. Other than that I have water throughout the day and sparkling water when I have a meal at home.

Luckily I've been gyming it pretty hard since February so I've lost a ton of weight.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

I've bumped into a few old team chicks since I been out in the field again. Smashed one from the club, been on one date with another chick and tentatively might be able to swing three dates with three other chicks. I think post-covid, chicks that weren't in these streets regularly are out turning up and looking to have fun. Nothing like someone new though. I think my post-covid summer official starts when I smash someone new that isn't through online dating.



If you did it pre-pandemic, give yourself a little breathing room and remember you won't be back where you started after being off for a year. I just started to find my groove again last wknd after being out of sync w/ new chicks since I restarted socializing in early May... Like I was getting #s, but because I was too lit, the #s were worthless smh. And then I realized I wasn't really talking about shyt, and then I realized that I was low energy.

If you are new to hollering/cold approaching, give yourself small goals that you can work on each time, like solid eye contact or smiling or changing convo topics or bringing up sex in a non-creepy way. If you try to do all of those things at once, it can be overwhelming, but if you work on one thing at a time, get good at it, and then move to the next thing, your progress becomes more tangible and you can feel yourself getting better. That method is called 'Deliberate Practice'. Sports psychologist use it for athletes a lot, but it applies to anything you want to get better at.

Yeah I just turned 21 this year and that’s why I don’t fw bar girls or club girlsonce I’m litty I just wanna vibe to some music and down some IPA’s/hit my weed pen.
And yes I’m new asf to hollering/cold approaching. I just recently smashed a milf from this condo a block away from me but I don’t count that cuz I know girls my age ain’t gonna fuxk the same day I meet em unless I take em out first or some shyt. I’m good on the first two but idk how to bring up sex in any way lol, I just figure it’s implied when I walk up to a random girl. I’m not used to being out like this cuz when our school was in person I used to fw the random thirsty girls complimenting me as I walked thru campus, I’m a tourist in the old school approaching women on the street/at the mall/and just generally being a hunter type shyt. Practice makes perfect, I just been deliberately avoiding this cold approach shyt, I’ll be back out soon cuz the women I want ain’t on tinder, they out in the open

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

WOMEN WANT MEN TO READ THEIR MINDS
OLDER WOMEN PLAY GAMES TOO.



So I'm messing with a 56yr old ...and older broads play these bullshyt games just like. 21yr old.

She was putting some groceries away in the cabinets and such and I KNEW she wanted help...she was puffing and sucking her teeth type thing...I can read body language well.

My issue was I wanted her to be mature to tell me she wanted my help, but she didntand so I didnt help.

Women constantly want men to figure them out.

 

[Apollo Creed]

WOMEN WANT MEN TO READ THEIR MINDS
OLDER WOMEN PLAY GAMES TOO.



So I'm messing with a 56yr old ...and older broads play these bullshyt games just like. 21yr old.

She was putting some groceries away in the cabinets and such and I KNEW she wanted help...she was puffing and sucking her teeth type thing...I can read body language well.

My issue was I wanted her to be mature to tell me she wanted my help, but she didntand so I didnt help.

Women constantly want men to figure them out.

As a man its your job to sit and let her struggle and enjoy the comedy show


She shoulda called her kids

 

[VertigoKnight]

Female friend of mine is meeting the guy she's been seeing for the last few weeks to dump him tonight. I thought things were going well. Obviously not.

Buddy probably doesn't even know its coming.



Makes me even more adamant to never truly get comfortable with these chicks. Enjoy your time with them until your ride is over.

The irony is this guy didn't even smash.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Female friend of mine is meeting the guy she's been seeing for the last few weeks to dump him tonight. I thought things were going well. Obviously not.

Buddy probably doesn't even know its coming.



Makes me even more adamant to never truly get comfortable with these chicks. Enjoy your time with them until your ride is over.

The irony is this guy didn't even smash.

yeah never be comfortable. Be respectful as a human, but yeah always keep your purpose 1st.

 

[RealAssanova]

Female friend of mine is meeting the guy she's been seeing for the last few weeks to dump him tonight. I thought things were going well. Obviously not.

Buddy probably doesn't even know its coming.



Makes me even more adamant to never truly get comfortable with these chicks. Enjoy your time with them until your ride is over.

The irony is this guy didn't even smash.

Atleast if he was fukkin/fukked he woulda had leverage...cuz she gave him pu$$y. So the L woulda been on her.

But when you not gettin that or haven’t gotten that and you still goin out and pillow talkin?

Ofcourse she can’t be around that. She’s knows he likes her but he is bein a p*ssy about things and she’s a woman with needs.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Atleast if he was fukkin/fukked he woulda had leverage...cuz she gave him pu$$y. So the L woulda been on her.

But when you not gettin that or haven’t gotten that and you still goin out and pillow talkin?

Ofcourse she can’t be around that. She’s knows he likes her but he is bein a p*ssy about things and she’s a woman with needs.

She hasn't told me 100% what pushed her to dump him. But when she told us on Monday that they still hadn't had sex yet I was



His slighty religious apparently, but even that doesn't stop a guy and yeah women have needs as well.

Can't believe the guy didn't make a move over multiple weeks. The most he did was some kissing.

 

[RealAssanova]

She hasn't told me 100% what pushed her to dump him. But when she told us on Monday that they still hadn't had sex yet I was



His slighty religious apparently, but even that doesn't stop a guy and yeah women have needs as well.

Can't believe the guy didn't make a move over multiple weeks. The most he did was some kissing.

Religious christian?

Comin across that nowadays is as rare as finding a conservative family that will allow their daughter to date interracially.

My man didn’t do his homework on choosing the right women and now he about to turn to christ with a broken heart looking for strength, healing and guidance.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Made a tinder the day before yesterday running a 24 hour test and it's the opposite of my current Hinge test. Good looking white white women and grenade black women. Horrible selection I deleted it after 3 hours. All grenades.


Out of boredom redownloaded Hinge at 2am last night figured I'd give it 24hrs to see what comes through. Sent out all 10 free likes(8 to black women 1 to a Spanish chic and 1 fire pawg)

So far I've gotten 14 likes + 2 matches from those likes I sent out. That's subject to increase as they filter through their likes, attractive women have more to filter through so we'll see did I catch anymore eyes.

Of the 14 likes + 2 matches
5 baddies (4 black and the 1 Spanish chic I liked)
8 regular black chicks (I'll match with the higher end of the spectrum and bush the rest)
3 grenade white women (they're all getting bushed)



I'll run a test on bumble next week.

Tinder seems to have no use in 2021 particularly if you prefer black women but by the looks of it. The white women just want more IG followers as everyone's bio just says "follow me"

Edit: woke up to 5 more likes and one match. Total tally is 3 matches from likes sent out and 19 likes

Paused my account. I should have enough to work with tbh

Summer roster loading...

 

[Rozay Oro]

Am I lame for being an introvert who is able to attract and make girls laugh but still lonely at the age of 26? I haven’t had sex in months and don’t want to. I know girls don’t love so what do I do to not feel bad about this?