Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I’m sitting here drunk. My nikkas these girls cold. I have no choice but to blow up with music. No brehette wants to be cuffed by me. No matter how good the sex is because I’m cursed with introvertion and awkwardness. I’m damned nikkas. fukk.
I realize now I might need a matchmaker. I do okay on dating apps but I rather spend my time on focusing on my finances and better ways to improve my life. I rather pay someone to to send me a text once a week like “hey found a girl who’s looking for ______, slim and cute. Here’s her photo if you’re interested I’ll send you her info and you guys can meet on Friday.” Or some shyt like that. 
The whole swiping, texting, dating apps is okay but I rather some use my time on other things.
Even talking to women irl I do alright but I’m always thinking of how to build my life even better. Even in the gym I don’t listen to music anymore but listening to YouTube channels on things I don’t know about and how to learn something.
The whole swiping, texting, dating apps is okay but I rather some use my time on other things.
Even talking to women irl I do alright but I’m always thinking of how to build my life even better. Even in the gym I don’t listen to music anymore but listening to YouTube channels on things I don’t know about and how to learn something.
On the 4th of July I went to the corner store to get some stuff because my family was cooking and seen 2 Brehettes, they looked early to mid 20's, but I didn't pay it any mind.
I bought my stuff then go out to my car and wait till my Bluetooth connects so I can drive off, I got beat in my shyt too, so you can feel my music.
One of the Black women that I saw in the store comes out and starts her car, me and her happened to be listening to the same rapper, just different songs. Out of my peripherals, I noticed her look at me for a couple seconds, then she actually got out of her car, leaned against it and stared at me.
I didn't notice it because I was already pulling off in that crowded ass parking lot, but I look to my right and she was actually trying to get my attention, but I was already gone.
I bought my stuff then go out to my car and wait till my Bluetooth connects so I can drive off, I got beat in my shyt too, so you can feel my music.
One of the Black women that I saw in the store comes out and starts her car, me and her happened to be listening to the same rapper, just different songs. Out of my peripherals, I noticed her look at me for a couple seconds, then she actually got out of her car, leaned against it and stared at me.
I didn't notice it because I was already pulling off in that crowded ass parking lot, but I look to my right and she was actually trying to get my attention, but I was already gone.
I fukkin hate this shyt, why is it that when I'm actually actively trying to get with a (Black) woman, the shyt can be hit or miss, but when I'm not trying to be in a relationship and chill, that's ironically when women start to come around?
The last time a woman in general tried to talk to me was a co-worker a couple months back. She came in the middle of a conversation I was having with another half-Black co-worker, he left, and she was talking to me about her air-pods, then started stroking her hair, smiling and looking at me when I was talking to her.
My Mexican co-worker was next to us, but didn't say anything, she left and then he said "you got got a girlfriend, she likes you. Did you see her body language?"
She was like Mexican or Arab or some shyt. Personally, I'm not really into the whole interracial shyt, though.
The last time a woman in general tried to talk to me was a co-worker a couple months back. She came in the middle of a conversation I was having with another half-Black co-worker, he left, and she was talking to me about her air-pods, then started stroking her hair, smiling and looking at me when I was talking to her.
My Mexican co-worker was next to us, but didn't say anything, she left and then he said "you got got a girlfriend, she likes you. Did you see her body language?"
She was like Mexican or Arab or some shyt. Personally, I'm not really into the whole interracial shyt, though.
Why a breh so bad with women? I just don’t get it. Where am I fukking up? I can attract them now but I’ve been hurt and disappointed so much I just flirt and don’t go further. It’s embarrassing and pathetic. Help a breh out. I just want satisfaction.
VertigoKnight
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Brother, your posts in this thread point to you maybe needing to leave these women alone and get yourself into a better position in life.
You already said you want to level up work wise. Maybe take a break from dating and seeking out women and see how that goes.
How happy are you with yourself?
Not happy at all. Yeah I’ll think of maybe trying meter reader after this month ends. I’m bored with my plant job.
VertigoKnight
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Trust me from experience messing with women when you not even happy with yourself is just a recipe for getting further down in the dumps. Even moreso if other parts of your life are not in order.
I used to think smashing a chick would be the cure for helping me feel better about myself, but all it does is exacerbate your other issues.
Atm I'm very happy with myself. I don't need a woman to do that. Though I am enjoying their company. I'm in a place now where if they upped and left I'd still be fine.
I need to get there. I guess it’s peer pressure. I have cousins accusing me of being gay cause I’m shy, introverted and had a low self esteem. You know how hurtful that is. One tried to apologize like a year later but I didn’t accept it. nikka you went around lying on me like that. fukk you nikka. You see now mane? I only deleted tinder and fukking bumble because even if I fukked them all night. They still don’t love me. I’m coming into this plant job with my chest out (short sleeve button up with three buttons undone). Girls liking it but I’m like ehh I feel hurt lol.
Had to block a chick who I was really feeling today. She didn’t respect my feelings so I had to let her go. I was real hesitant to do it because I found her super attractive and it’s probably gon be hard for me to find a woman of equal value beauty wise, but I was tired of her shyt
Yeah it's the worst when you have a drop a chick you really liked, but in the end if she is acting up it's the best course of action
Prolonging the situation and then having to do it when the attachment is even stronger
better off cutting contact ASAPRocket Scientist
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I agree I don't travel for women. Most these dudes in this thread don't know the game. I done seen it all with women. Any dude in 2021 who still making bad decisions with women deserves what he gets
I agree I don't travel for women. Most these dudes in this thread don't know the game. I done seen it all with women. Any dude in 2021 who still making bad decisions with women deserves what he gets
dudes dont learn until they get burned. If dude makes it out of getting burned by a woman and continues down his same path, then yeah thats his fault.
Look how long this thread is lol, lot of dudes still holding hope for a disney happy ending
You need to step it up and initiate in general and stop waiting for women to approach you.
Both of yall are examples of people that take this long detour to get better with women instead of just doing the obvious thing which is talk to women and work on your game. The photographer route is especially lame and has had a few #MeToo moments with popular ppl that you will likely get caught up in before all is said and done.
Easy for you to say. I’m not in college or going to parties. I hate bars and clubs.