Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Macallik86]

Easy for you to say. I’m not in college or going to parties. I hate bars and clubs.

Meetup.com?
Music Shows/Concerts?
Game nights at bars?


This idea that you want to meet women but you want to stay in this comfortable bubble is not helping you. There are nuances all around you that you can use to your advantage if you took the blinders off. I mentioned it months ago too, but I think you should also look into whether your insurance covers therapy and if so, get a therapist to work through some of your insecurities. If we are feeling them digitally on a forum, I can bet women are feeling them IRL as well. Therapists are basically just objective third parties that help you see where you might be jumping to the wrong conclusions in life.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

I thought old bytches weren’t supposed to be clingy?? This bih hittin me up too much and now I’m turnt all the way off, she ain’t bad enough to get away with that . Oh well no more milfs for me ig. Fuxk thecoli.com

 

[Rocket Scientist]

dudes dont learn until they get burned. If dude makes it out of getting burned by a woman and continues down his same path, then yeah thats his fault.

Look how long this thread is lol, lot of dudes still holding hope for a disney happy ending

I use to post in this thread daily then it became softer then tissue. Women testing these dudes because they smell weakness. dudes wanting romance in here. "She hasnt text me back yet"

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

You need to step it up and initiate in general and stop waiting for women to approach you.






Both of yall are examples of people that take this long detour to get better with women instead of just doing the obvious thing which is talk to women and work on your game. The photographer route is especially lame and has had a few #MeToo moments with popular ppl that you will likely get caught up in before all is said and done.

I'm already good with women. I've given concrete practical actionable advice on here that worked out for people.

I was just curious. You never know what you might learn. That's why I'm so good with women. I don't pretend to have it all figured out and am willing to learn new things.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Meetup.com?
Music Shows/Concerts?
Game nights at bars?


This idea that you want to meet women but you want to stay in this comfortable bubble is not helping you. There are nuances all around you that you can use to your advantage if you took the blinders off. I mentioned it months ago too, but I think you should also look into whether your insurance covers therapy and if so, get a therapist to work through some of your insecurities. If we are feeling them digitally on a forum, I can bet women are feeling them IRL as well. Therapists are basically just objective third parties that help you see where you might be jumping to the wrong conclusions in life.

Thank you. I really appreciate you taking your time to help me. Breh I’m gonna take a break and focus on a career path. I know not all women are terrible but they don’t love like us. I’m a little nikka, I gotta get the big bag. Sure I’ve had success on tinder and bumble. Even a girl from work. Nah nikka these bytches ain’t shyt. I gotta get the big bag by any means. No goofy shyt, I like my freedom.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Ayo would any of you cats date a 24 year old woman just getting her permit/license? Mind you she took Subways public transportation. She does work. Im deadass serious my brehs. Ol girl is about an 7.5 and looks like Lisa Raye.Personality off chain.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Ayo would any of you cats date a 24 year old woman just getting her permit/license? Mind you she took Subways public transportation. She does work. Im deadass serious my brehs. Ol girl is about an 7.5 and looks like Lisa Raye.Personality off chain.

Yes I would because not everyone is blessed with the same opportunities as others in life. Setbacks and other factors can fukk shyt up too. Go for it breh and hope it works out well.

 

[The ADD]

Ayo would any of you cats date a 24 year old woman just getting her permit/license? Mind you she took Subways public transportation. She does work. Im deadass serious my brehs. Ol girl is about an 7.5 and looks like Lisa Raye.Personality off chain.

Define date

 

[Apollo Creed]

Ayo would any of you cats date a 24 year old woman just getting her permit/license? Mind you she took Subways public transportation. She does work. Im deadass serious my brehs. Ol girl is about an 7.5 and looks like Lisa Raye.Personality off chain.

If she takes initiative to uber to meet you spots then I guess, but depending on your city if you picking her up and dropping her off for everything then no

 

[Macallik86]

Thank you. I really appreciate you taking your time to help me. Breh I’m gonna take a break and focus on a career path. I know not all women are terrible but they don’t love like us. I’m a little nikka, I gotta get the big bag. Sure I’ve had success on tinder and bumble. Even a girl from work. Nah nikka these bytches ain’t shyt. I gotta get the big bag by any means. No goofy shyt, I like my freedom.

Nothing about my post said to focus on your career.

My post said to find a therapist and I also provided a list of ways to meet women outside of the 1 in 100,000 shot that you become a semi-famous musician that women want to sleep with.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Meetup.com?
Music Shows/Concerts?
Game nights at bars?


This idea that you want to meet women but you want to stay in this comfortable bubble is not helping you. There are nuances all around you that you can use to your advantage if you took the blinders off. I mentioned it months ago too, but I think you should also look into whether your insurance covers therapy and if so, get a therapist to work through some of your insecurities. If we are feeling them digitally on a forum, I can bet women are feeling them IRL as well. Therapists are basically just objective third parties that help you see where you might be jumping to the wrong conclusions in life.

Nothing about my post said to focus on your career.

My post said to find a therapist and I also provided a list of ways to meet women outside of the 1 in 100,000 shot that you become a semi-famous musician that women want to sleep with.

I’m make an appointment breh
Edit:
Left a voice mail

 

[Serious]

Trust me from experience messing with women when you not even happy with yourself is just a recipe for getting further down in the dumps. Even moreso if other parts of your life are not in order.

I used to think smashing a chick would be the cure for helping me feel better about myself, but all it does is exacerbate your other issues.

Atm I'm very happy with myself. I don't need a woman to do that. Though I am enjoying their company. I'm in a place now where if they upped and left I'd still be fine.

I don’t even give a fukk about sex anymore.

 

[RealCrownHeights]

Been going out since being vaccinated, NYC is back to say the lease, girls dancing and looking good but couple things I noticed:


Joint's leading with instagram, I ask for the number and they hit me with the instagram because" they just don't give out their number"
Now I know that's a curve but the thing that's pissing me off is the last 3 women came up to me first then after more conversation they hit me with the gram


And my gram is weak, I don't post pictures or have a lot of engagement because I'm not photogenic and I just don't care to get 15 different lighting and shi* on a picture of a burger

But now I'm realizing 2021 your shi* better be at least decent or you getting curved

 

[LiveFromLondon]

I ask for the number and they hit me with the instagram because" they just don't give out their number

That got so much for me I started asking if they had onlyfans with this look on my face.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Define date

I'm sure you know what a date is