Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Vinny Lupton]

My girl got mad because my ex girlfriend sent me a DM about wanting my baby didn’t even look at the DM first time seeing it.

Yet I know she still remains in contact with her exes and doesn’t follow me on IG

Shoulda turned it around on her right away, and got mad at her for stressing you out over IG when you got xyz going on

Also stop opening your dm's around women

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Been going out since being vaccinated, NYC is back to say the lease, girls dancing and looking good but couple things I noticed:


Joint's leading with instagram, I ask for the number and they hit me with the instagram because" they just don't give out their number"
Now I know that's a curve but the thing that's pissing me off is the last 3 women came up to me first then after more conversation they hit me with the gram


And my gram is weak, I don't post pictures or have a lot of engagement because I'm not photogenic and I just don't care to get 15 different lighting and shi* on a picture of a burger

But now I'm realizing 2021 your shi* better be at least decent or you getting curved

I have ig but I just lie and say I don't, or I only have one for my business. fukk that shyt I don't wanna see these girls breakfast and shyt. If she's feeling you enough she'll give you that number, and if not time to move on to someone who is feeling you more

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Also this thread getting kind of spooky lately. Maybe because I got a good rotation going but it's starting to sound like a high school shooters meeting up in heah

 

[Vinny Lupton]

The texting back and forth on these apps gets boring after a while.

I go in for a month or so, harvest a bunch of potential targets, then get off their and work on those. I ain't been on mine since May, prob don't need to go farming again til Sept, my dance card is full but hoes gon be hoes so someone gonna need to get replaced soon enough

 

[dat aint da same sandwich]

Blocking a woman is a feminine response.

You just don’t respond to them. Show no emotion.

Depending on the strength of her initial attraction to you, your silence can eventually make her submit to you with astounding fervor.

I don't know why some people say this because that isn't always the case.

Maybe you just don't want a bunch of subsequent annoying text messages from a passive aggressive chick or a stalker. It's no different than blocking a spam caller.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Bro, that self-pity shyt is lame. What have you been doing to make yourself more than an "old loser". Are you in shape? Is your money straight? What are your hobbies? Are you going to therapy?

I always had a bad habit of self-deprecation but I learned to have some sort of confidence by accomplishing at least some goals I set for myself.

I left a therapist a voice mail. Plan to email another one soon. I chose a breh but it might be wiser to choose a brehette. I don’t want to cry in front of a man if childhood and teenager shyt gets in my feelings when talking.

 

[360dagod]

I don't know why some people say this because that isn't always the case.

Maybe you just don't want a bunch of subsequent annoying text messages from a passive aggressive chick or a stalker. It's no different than blocking a spam caller.

Yeah these women will call and call....I'm good on all that

 

[DJSmooth]

You turn down a woman advances and they starting hitting you with the are you gay line.

I don't hit everything that moves.

And it just gets awkward because I'm usually the aggressor .

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

This is random but I'm realizing after dating thick women all my life that

Petite women >>>> thick women

Give me a nice skinny joint I can toss around. I'm a small man and I'm realizing I like women that are smaller than me

 

[Apollo Creed]

This is random but I'm realizing after dating thick women all my life that

Petite women >>>> thick women

Give me a nice skinny joint I can toss around. I'm a small man and I'm realizing I like women that are smaller than me

Yup

 

[Apollo Creed]

I go in for a month or so, harvest a bunch of potential targets, then get off their and work on those. I ain't been on mine since May, prob don't need to go farming again til Sept, my dance card is full but hoes gon be hoes so someone gonna need to get replaced soon enough

how long you sit on matches

 

[Vinny Lupton]

how long you sit on matches

I paste em all the same message within a day or two of matching, anyone who doesn't bite im not gonna be writing in depth analysis responses to their profile, either you like me or you don't

 

[Apollo Creed]

I paste em all the same message within a day or two of matching, anyone who doesn't bite im not gonna be writing in depth analysis responses to their profile, either you like me or you don't

lol dang I been sitting on a couple hundred matches, and over 300 likes for the past month and a half

I've just been letting high interest ones message me first but I've been super passive as I'm just log on when I'm bored and I have some other stuff I'm taking care of before actively dating. May just sit on em till fall comes

whats your mass msg like? PM if needed.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

lol dang I been sitting on a couple hundred matches, and over 300 likes for the past month and a half

I've just been letting high interest ones message me first but I've been super passive as I'm just log on when I'm bored and I have some other stuff I'm taking care of before actively dating. May just sit on em till fall comes

whats your mass msg like? PM if needed.

That's not how I would do it personally, but do you.. I think you're leaving alot of p*ssy on the table. Someone downloading the app, making a profile, and swiping on you has already qualified themselves as available and interested (yes there are hoes looking for ego boost or ig followers too but we will filter them out) so they are waiting for you

We done established in 5200 pages of this thread that women are lazy and they also like you to make the first move still in 2k21

As far as my message to them, it's very simple:
Hi (name), where are you from?

Like I said, they either feeling you or they're not. Either they don't respond to that for a variety of reasons, or you they give you a short one word answer and don't ask you about you, or (focus on this group) they respond and ask you about you, and you go from there

Some girls night not even respond for a week, because they expected more..but let them have a bad date , the guy they were entertaining for a few weeks bushes them, or can't sleep cuz they horny and they will come back to your message

Theres too many girls on these apps to treat each one like a special gem. It's a sales job in my book so you gotta be making them calls, and if it's a no then move on to the next call. Better to let your profile pics do the heavy lifting first (I'm not looking for a wife / soulmate on there, your mileage may vary)

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's not how I would do it personally, but do you.. I think you're leaving alot of p*ssy on the table. Someone downloading the app, making a profile, and swiping on you has already qualified themselves as available and interested (yes there are hoes looking for ego boost or ig followers too but we will filter them out) so they are waiting for you

We done established in 5200 pages of this thread that women are lazy and they also like you to make the first move still in 2k21

As far as my message to them, it's very simple:
Hi (name), where are you from?

Like I said, they either feeling you or they're not. Either they don't respond to that for a variety of reasons, or you they give you a short one word answer and don't ask you about you, or (focus on this group) they respond and ask you about you, and you go from there

Some girls night not even respond for a week, because they expected more..but let them have a bad date , the guy they were entertaining for a few weeks bushes them, or can't sleep cuz they horny and they will come back to your message

Theres too many girls on these apps to treat each one like a special gem. It's a sales job in my book so you gotta be making them calls, and if it's a no then move on to the next call. Better to let your profile pics do the heavy lifting first (I'm not looking for a wife / soulmate on there, your mileage may vary)

im not pressed which is my point, so anyone who falls out at this point I don’t really care.

my profile is sufficient (hence the volume of likes/matches), my question was more so around the automation of things with the “mass message” and its content. I could just send mass “hey how are you?” And get responses. I would assume your custom mass message sets the stage up front to go ahead and drive the convo