Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

It's some bullshyt, man. Average/below average chicks with plain jane OKCupid profiles are still getting bombarded with messages from dudes saying shyt like: "your profile is so beautiful, can I take you out for coffee sometime?" Some of these women don't deserve that validation. Some of them don't deserve that type of attention.

Meanwhile, I'm not even eating off OKC like that because I'm not messaging these chicks, not first at least, and the bulk of the girls in my area are the bold on the net, but reserved in person type. shyt is wack.

i know its ridiculous
when i used online dating i never messaged chicks first cuz i didnt care to inflate thier ego or just be another nikka in thier inbox, and i would be like im doing good like getting 2 messagse a day, or 5 in a week.


And then you read these average ass broads getting like 100 a day. I mean im not tyson beckford or larry fitzgerald but hell ive dated models in the past, the game just makes you

 

[kevm3]

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[kevm3]

i know its ridiculous
when i used online dating i never messaged chicks first cuz i didnt care to inflate thier ego or just be another nikka in thier inbox, and i would be like im doing good like getting 2 messagse a day, or 5 in a week.


And then you read these average ass broads getting like 100 a day. I mean im not tyson beckford or larry fitzgerald but hell ive dated models in the past, the game just makes you

It just goes to show you why women can act how they do and explains a lot of their behavior. There are just so many thirsty men out there that there is no need for a woman to act with any decent behavior unless it's a man that really stands out. It explains the mob behavior of women. All of them have countless guys sending them the same thirsty, typical messages and then they have the upper echelon of guys who really stand out... It's the upper echelon that the women want. When you're in that crowd and dealing with a woman you got a lot to deal with. That's when she requires you to put on that circus act. When you are in that upper crust, that's when women start chasing you. A man will get a lot farther with women handling his business and getting his p's and q's together than running around and chasing them.

 

[MikelArteta]

It just goes to show you why women can act how they do and explains a lot of their behavior. There are just so many thirsty men out there that there is no need for a woman to act with any decent behavior unless it's a man that really stands out. It explains the mob behavior of women. All of them have countless guys sending them the same thirsty, typical messages and then they have the upper echelon of guys who really stand out... It's the upper echelon that the women want. When you're in that crowd and dealing with a woman you got a lot to deal with. That's when she requires you to put on that circus act. When you are in that upper crust, that's when women start chasing you. A man will get a lot farther with women handling his business and getting his p's and q's together than running around and chasing them.

yup pretty much, and i agree women can cheat, play around talk to 50 different dudes and if you dont like it shrugs next on the lit.

LIke i mentioned earlier in thsi thread i always wondered why as a young in why many men who had it all looks etc. no homo that I knew married a chick who was just to me, now as i get older i realize they maintain the power.


it doesnt matter how broke a chick is, how many kids she got running around there are sitll a million simps bumping her up, chicks never realize these dudes wont stay around they just want a nut and thats it

i use to get angry i used to care now

 

[MikelArteta]

It's some bullshyt, man. Average/below average chicks with plain jane OKCupid profiles are still getting bombarded with messages from dudes saying shyt like: "your profile is so beautiful, can I take you out for coffee sometime?" Some of these women don't deserve that validation. Some of them don't deserve that type of attention.

Meanwhile, I'm not even eating off OKC like that because I'm not messaging these chicks, not first at least, and the bulk of the girls in my area are the bold on the net, but reserved in person type. shyt is wack.

as well on okcupid you seen that message thing all women are selectively or rarel, while every guy is in green just lucky to get a dang message

 

[kevm3]

All of this pretty much goes hand in hand with the advice we've been kicking of handling your business, improving your life situation and enjoying life... when you get to a certain point, you have the women start chasing you. You don't want to depend on those things to DEAL with a woman, but they help immensely in attracting a woman. It makes the attraction phase 10,000 times easier. Now, when you are actually DEALING with a woman, you need to have the right attitude... and that's that attitude of being real, being tough, but also cautious. Enjoy yourself, but never get played for a sucker.

Now tell me this ain't a textbook thread of exactly what we've been saying:
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/117041-real-life-get-married-brehs-story.html#.UaLcz0CG1zo

The typical nice guy who does everything to support his family... his woman finds thrillerman on the side, divorces his husband, throws him out on the street and moves thrillerman on in. Nobody raises a peep about that financial slavery and I doubt that the woman has an iota of concern about it. Imagine if a man married a woman, she was paying for everything and doing him right and he brought a woman into her house, divorced her, made her pay alimony and child support, took the main house while she was forced to live in a shabby apartment just to pay all that alimony and child support. He'd be called all kinds of scumbags. But the situation in reverse, not a peep is raised. Tim Duncan went through the same cycle. You better be careful out there or you'll have your freedom taken from right up under you. I'm not against marrying, but I'm against marrying tthose not worthy of marriage. If you are getting into a long-term commitment with a woman, you HAVE to be tough and make sure you put yourself in a position where you dont' become a financial slave. Do NOT fall for those weak spins about signing a prenup such as,"Well if you believe this was going to work, then you wouldn't worry about a prenup." If she gets offended at you bringing it up, that lets you know where her mind is at.

The key problem in this day and age is that men have no idea of their value. Look at this article:

Real Men Make Sandwiches

Dude is in there talking about 'alpha men' make sandwiches and that cooking for a woman is a great way to get laid. how wack is that? That's the epitome of a vagina slave. Cats are willing to do even feminine things now to 'get-laid.' I can't really blame women for a lot of this bad behavior. It's these extremely weak-minded, catering men. That's the problem with a lot of those PUA. Their metric of a man is how much he can get laid, and it really doesn't matter what sort of behavior he engages into get a whiff of the vagina. What next, giving your woman a lap dance is a real alpha trait... it helps you get laid!

 

[Medio]

One girl I saw her a few days ago and asked her if she's still on for this week, which would be our 3rd date,she said yea perfect. then I hit her up today by text so we can talk about details and she just deaded my shyt. I felt her getting disconnected lately anyway but still at least have the decency to text me back soem shyt.. well she's to the bushes as you nikkas say. some girls just don't know how to say no.

old girl I used to date a few months ago I hit her up also for shyts cause i see her in school and she be trying dumb shyt to get my attention, she's younger than the first girl and basically she was being honest to me which I appreciate it, it's funnier she's younger but more mature than the first girl. she said she doesn't have time cause she doesn't want to (she was kinda leading me on in the text to boost her ego a little though), i respect that she told me though.

this dating shyt , i don't know. i want a girl to kick it with and shyt. i'm a grad student focusing on school and work and i know how to balance shyt out but after a few dates i don't know. i have to get my own place, after i graduate in a year i think shyt will get better dating wise.

 

[kevm3]

One girl I saw her a few days ago and asked her if she's still on for this week, which would be our 3rd date,she said yea perfect. then I hit her up today so we can talk about details and she just deaded my shyt. I felt her getting disconnected lately anyway but still at least have the decency to text me back soem shyt.. well she's to the bushes as you nikkas say. some girls just don't know how to say no.

old girl I used to date a few months ago I hit her up also for shyts cause i see her in school and she be trying dumb shyt to get my attention, she's younger than the first girl and basically she was being honest to me which I appreciate it, it's funnier she's younger but more mature than the first girl. she said she doesn't have time cause she doesn't want to (she was kinda leading me on in the text to boost her ego a little though), i respect that she told me though.

this dating shyt , i don't know. i want a girl to kick it with and shyt. i'm a grad student focusing on school and work and i know how to balance shyt out but after a few dates i don't know. i have to get my own place, after i graduate in a year i think shyt will get better dating wise.

You're doing the right thing focusing on school. With the advent of the internet and technology, there are so many thirsty cats, so women can act like this. Most women are constantly juggling these different dudes from their different thirst-traps. "Let me post my booty pic over here on twitter and have my 500 followers love it." "Time to post a pic of me in this tight dress on instagram." They have all of these avenues for male attention. As of right now, you will be best served by not playing that game. If a cool female comes across you and ya'll talk and you invite her out, coo, but don't make pursuing females a focus. Get your living situation right and when you really have that right, your options of women really start to expand.

The real deal is most women aren't really trying to deal with the dude that is in the process of getting it. They want the guy that already has it. If you're lucky enough to find a woman that is with you during the grind, keep her around... but if you can't find her, just focus on getting your situation right and when you got that masters and you're making money, you will really look enticing to a lot of these women.

 

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[MikelArteta]

Roosh V just posted a free book containing his 90 best blog posts. If you're unfamiliar with his work, this is highly recommended:

http://www.rooshv.com/downloads/The_Best_Of_Roosh_Volume_1.pdf

Props alot of good information Is in that pdf

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[MikelArteta]

roosh......

Women who I wouldn’t fukk with your dikk are now getting hit on a dozen times a day on the internet. Social networking sites allow her to build a constellation of orbiters who constantly feed her with attention and make her feel more desirable. Technology, particularly the smartphone, allows them to field male attention all day long. While the proliferation of game hasn’t helped things, since she’s now approached in person a lot more, the rapid adoption of internet and mobile devices has instantly made every average girl a near celebrity in the amount of attention she receives compared to her counterpart 30 years ago. Sadly, there’s no reversing this thread. The world is copying the American model and within our lifetimes even areas in South America and Eastern Europe will be corrupted. It’s happening as we speak. So attention spans are getting shorter and girls have exponentially more options than before. What can you do?



Just like I was saying

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[MikelArteta]

well brehs im off for the week from work so im going to do my won study on online dating

signing up on the wasteland knowing at pof in another city for a week.

will let you know how it goes

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

You're doing the right thing focusing on school. With the advent of the internet and technology, there are so many thirsty cats, so women can act like this. Most women are constantly juggling these different dudes from their different thirst-traps. "Let me post my booty pic over here on twitter and have my 500 followers love it." "Time to post a pic of me in this tight dress on instagram." They have all of these avenues for male attention. As of right now, you will be best served by not playing that game. If a cool female comes across you and ya'll talk and you invite her out, coo, but don't make pursuing females a focus. Get your living situation right and when you really have that right, your options of women really start to expand.

The real deal is most women aren't really trying to deal with the dude that is in the process of getting it. They want the guy that already has it. If you're lucky enough to find a woman that is with you during the grind, keep her around... but if you can't find her, just focus on getting your situation right and when you got that masters and you're making money, you will really look enticing to a lot of these women.

This notion really bothers me, but ive learned to adapt to it. Its like i have to work my ass off solo, buy a house, and be whippin' foreign whips already just to get these chicks choosin'? By the time i get all that i doupt ill even would want a relationship.

If she doesnt want to deal with you when your on the comeup, then whats gonna happen when another dude also on the comeup catches her eye..worse yet what if you happen to go through some rough times? Im not about saving up all this bwed just so i can spend it on a bish..then let her take my shyt like tim duncan

 

[360dagod]

There is this 46 year old who wants to go out...

she cool but she is one of those divorced chicks who is lonely....

We hung before and she was constantly hitting me up more than I would have liked..

After a few months we were in contact again.

I dont have the energy to deal with the "attachments"{texting all day}that will come if we were to hang out again..

She is a nice person,but im afraid if I were to hit it,I would be more aggravated after the fact...

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

There is this 46 year old who wants to go out...

she cool but she is one of those divorced chicks who is lonely....

We hung before and she was constantly hitting me up more than I would have liked..

After a few months we were in contact again.

I dont have the energy to deal with the "attachments"{texting all day}that will come if we were to hang out again..

She is a nice person,but im afraid if I were to hit it,I would be more aggravated after the fact...

Either let her know up front that your just trying to smash or don't do it..simple as that.

She's probably just wanting to smash too, but her status makes it tough for her to learn the new rules of engagement.

School the old schooler breh...then dine