Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Not to bash or kick anyone while they are down but I feel both of those brehs need counseling or a support group and there is nothing wrong with that. You two should focus on yourselves and getting your lives together before you begin dealing with any women. Social interactions with women and dating now a days can be stressful for any man but if you are depressed your own health and well-being comes first.

You won't be able to have a healthy relationship with a woman until that's taken care of.
 

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Not to bash or kick anyone while they are down but I feel both of those brehs need counseling or a support group and there is nothing wrong with that. You two should focus on yourselves and getting your lives together before you begin dealing with any women. Social interactions with women and dating now a days can be stressful for any man but if you are depressed your own health and well-being comes first.

You won't be able to have a healthy relationship with a woman until that's taken care of.
We tell them to seek help they refuse. Whatever happrns next is their problem. Keep messinh around with em and if they harm themselves or someone else thats on you enabling them
 

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Being masculine = a$$hole? Being nice = being a pushover?

Feels like I'm a hybrid of both. I'm calm and polite but due to my traumatic experiences with people, I keep women at arms length.

When a girl acts up I used to yell and tell them to leave me alone. I expressed to this girl with a voice message. I told her she lost my interest she finally gave me her number.

Idk breh, voice messages tend to work with me quicker. I don't do texting for the sake of texting. She's either rolling me with or not.
 

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Being masculine = a$$hole? Being nice = being a pushover?

Feels like I'm a hybrid of both. I'm calm and polite but due to my traumatic experiences with people, I keep women at arms length.

When a girl acts up I used to yell and tell them to leave me alone. I expressed to this girl with a voice message. I told her she lost my interest she finally gave me her number.

Idk breh, voice messages tend to work with me quicker. I don't do texting for the sake of texting. She's either rolling me with or not.

yelling is feminine lol. If a woman isnt cooperating simply tell her this isnt working snd move on. If she changes up and you accept it thats actually a sign of
Weakness. As a man, mean what you sayS
 

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Telling on married women? :dahell:Is wrong with you. If you can’t handle a situation. Don’t get involved. Leave her alone. You need to focus on yourself for a long time. You’re not thinking straight.
 

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Here is hands down the BEST resource for learning about dating women:

Topics

Unlike most of the current dating "coaches", this guy actually gives you PRACTICAL, CONCRETE, and MEASURABLE advice.

No vague bullshyt. And he's actually realistic. To me it's even better than the Book of Pook.

The blog got taken down a long time ago so I put up the archive.com link instead. I have no idea what happened to the dude.
 

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Telling on married women? :dahell:Is wrong with you. If you can’t handle a situation. Don’t get involved. Leave her alone. You need to focus on yourself for a long time. You’re not thinking straight.
That ain't the point It's about exposing her predatory behavior. I told you dudes how many times? I was going through depression when she started fukking with me. She fronts like a humanitarian/social worker but she does me like this? Fukk that. Call it whatever you want. The bytch deserves what's coming
 

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I have a fake IG and business card.....probably the only line/tactic that I'm batting 1.000 at. Everything else is hit or miss...leaning more on miss.

Can you explain this? What kind of IG and business and how do you use this practice?

That would help us more than any of the other vague stuff you've said
 

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yelling is feminine lol. If a woman isnt cooperating simply tell her this isnt working snd move on. If she changes up and you accept it thats actually a sign of
Weakness. As a man, mean what you sayS

It was assertive and it worked for me. If I was passive nothing wouldn't happen. I'm just being honest:yeshrug:
 

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That ain't the point It's about exposing her predatory behavior. I told you dudes how many times? I was going through depression when she started fukking with me. She fronts like a humanitarian/social worker but she does me like this? Fukk that. Call it whatever you want. The bytch deserves what's coming
:hhh::hhh::hhh::hhh::hhh:
 

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Yeah this chick has been out of pocket for a while. But due to the fact there is a distinct lack of quality black women here the ones I've come across kinda know this.

The fukked up thing is I date these asian chicks and maybe because their plentiful here, I never have any real problems and these women treat me good.

At my age all I want is a chick with her head on straight and who can communicate.

But me and this chick even talked about the lack of black people, both for dating and also friendship here then she pulls this kinda mess.

:francis:

But you right even if she is black I shouldn't be tolerating her nonsense.

You tried. Just stick with those who are cooperating and treating you good.

People know what they're doing, so I no longer give leeway and have zero tolerance for foolishness no matter who it is. Let it be a white boy (cos I'm not fooled by their talk, I've just seen too much at this point) or some other dude she's into and she'd be easy like Sunday morning.
 

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Feels great working hard, saving up your bread, watching it growing and being able to go on a nice little vacation.

Out in Puerto Rico right now and shyt is beautiful :wow: beautiful women too. I know I ain't even half of where I wanna be goal wise but it feels good to enjoy the benefits of your hard work for real brehs.
 
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