Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Uno Venova]

Horrible advice

Nah, worked for me coming from 0 experience. Went from being shy to multiple one night stands, fwb situations and a bad ass girlfriend.

You never even talk about what you got going on yourself tbh

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

She told me where and had a map off the state up in her room. It's a white ass area lol, that's a fact.



I'm not 30+ lol, I'm in my late 20's and learned that some chicks ain't worth the headache. She also is not a freak imo, I could tell by her skill set let's just say. She was putting in effort but she ain't have a freak skill level lol.

Also hell nah I ain't want a relationship, just some side p*ssy to smash. I ideally want a chick I can bang long term on the regular but these chicks out here always do some shyt after 1 or 2 smash sessions where I just have to cut ties.

Oh I gotcha

for side chicks I usually do the same. I just don’t care about anything just as long as there’s no drama involved…. Kids… living arrangements… roommates….. dumb…. None of that matters to me if it’s just a smash I just don’t welcome trouble.

Your post just sounded like typical coli post but I probably read it wrong and it is your choice who you choose to cut or keep

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Yeah she was traveling by Train from some sort of bdsm meet up event at a restaurant prior to us meeting. She was there so she could meet people into the lifestyle and claimed the restaurant had issues with their billing system which made her late.

Remember she is from a small white town with damn near 98 percent white folks so that may be why she never explored sex like that. Plus she is kinda weird, the type of person that listens to sex role play audio instead of watching porn. The type of chick that would read a lot of books on parenting and theories and approach to raising a child if she was to get pregnant and I got this vibe from her room and our convos. So she reads a lot period and read a lot about BDSM but didn't explore it in her small town where it's not a big scene for it. She waited to move here and to meet people in the lifestyle cause she found vanilla sexual relationships to be too "performative and damn near contractual and cliche but with bdsm there is more room to make the relationship what you want and go outside the box".

I believe her on the never having "penetrative" sex thing too, emphasis on penetrative. She had no real reason to lie to me and if she didn't wanna fukk I left the ball in her court. If she wanted a free drink she could have just got one and dipped out after. She was wet as fukk too so she was definitely into me and without getting too graphic she swallowed the kids so she had to have some interest. Even text me to come back and tear her ass up with the mattress on the floor after I left.

To me it's more about the signs, the hotel being booked up, the bed breaking before I could stroke her and her being a little weird to me. She is intelligent but weird. I hear you, won't reply.

She swallowed your kids
Didnt spend too much $$

No std no pregg

Sounds like win to me..

Edit-Shes 23..makes sense..genzies are confusing asf

Bush her

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Nah, worked for me coming from 0 experience. Went from being shy to multiple one night stands, fwb situations and a bad ass girlfriend.

You never even talk about what you got going on yourself tbh

95 percent of that shyt is trash tho.

you should give yourself more credit instead… for actually putting in the work and learning from trial and error

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Yeah she was traveling by Train from some sort of bdsm meet up event at a restaurant prior to us meeting. She was there so she could meet people into the lifestyle and claimed the restaurant had issues with their billing system which made her late.

Remember she is from a small white town with damn near 98 percent white folks so that may be why she never explored sex like that. Plus she is kinda weird, the type of person that listens to sex role play audio instead of watching porn. The type of chick that would read a lot of books on parenting and theories and approach to raising a child if she was to get pregnant and I got this vibe from her room and our convos. So she reads a lot period and read a lot about BDSM but didn't explore it in her small town where it's not a big scene for it. She waited to move here and to meet people in the lifestyle cause she found vanilla sexual relationships to be too "performative and damn near contractual and cliche but with bdsm there is more room to make the relationship what you want and go outside the box".

I believe her on the never having "penetrative" sex thing too, emphasis on penetrative. She had no real reason to lie to me and if she didn't wanna fukk I left the ball in her court. If she wanted a free drink she could have just got one and dipped out after. She was wet as fukk too so she was definitely into me and without getting too graphic she swallowed the kids so she had to have some interest. Even text me to come back and tear her ass up with the mattress on the floor after I left.

To me it's more about the signs, the hotel being booked up, the bed breaking before I could stroke her and her being a little weird to me. She is intelligent but weird. I hear you, won't reply.

you know the situation better than I do g, it just sounds like a headache just hearing all the shyt she’s into and her personality (from what I’m gauging in your post).

I’m still confused on this:

Remember she is from a small white town with damn near 98 percent white folks so that may be why she never explored sex like that.

what does her living in a small white town have to do with her not exploring sex? Unless she lived on the farm Courage The Cowardly Dog lived on, she was definitely getting bounced by Colt and Flint near the creek. Sex is universal doesn’t matter if you in the slums or in a major city.

On the mattress thing… if you that dude, a woman would fukk you in the back of a compact sedan in the middle of a vacant parking lot. How did a mattress on the floor kill her mood?

This more on her than you.. shordi was just a weirdo.

 

[Uno Venova]

95 percent of that shyt is trash tho.

you should give yourself more credit instead… for actually putting in the work and learning from trial and error

Okay I'll give that there's trash & frauds out there. But I think it's good to see it's possible and what it looks like and you're out of the game so long.

 

[CW_1991]

What are some good city and states for a young 30-year-old black man to relocate to to start over and get a fresh start?

Places with a lot of things to do and a lot of beautiful women to get it.

 

[Guvnor]

She swallowed your kids
Didnt spend too much $$

No std no pregg

Sounds like win to me..

Edit-Shes 23..makes sense..genzies are confusing asf

Bush her

Facts but part of me still wanna smash it for real but nah I'll just leave it alone. I'll use my better judgement here.

you know the situation better than I do g, it just sounds like a headache just hearing all the shyt she’s into and her personality (from what I’m gauging in your post).

I’m still confused on this:



what does her living in a small white town have to do with her not exploring sex? Unless she lived on the farm Courage The Cowardly Dog lived on, she was definitely getting bounced by Colt and Flint near the creek. Sex is universal doesn’t matter if you in the slums or in a major city.

On the mattress thing… if you that dude, a woman would fukk you in the back of a compact sedan in the middle of a vacant parking lot. How did a mattress on the floor kill her mood?

This more on her than you.. shordi was just a weirdo.

My bad let me clarify. She is from a mostly white area and is black, she is not into white men sexually so she never took it there with them. She told me though she was raised in a white area her parents always instilled in her black pride and to be proud of who she was.

As for the mattress thing it broke and messed up the mood cause she said she worried about having to get a new bed frame and moving it out the room. Then once the mattress was moved to the floor I just wanted to leave, didn't try to get her to fukk on the matters or anything. It was her who texted me and asked about finishing up on the matters on the floor after she thought about it.

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

I'm gonna create an online dating profile... What makes a good profile? Adding a little detail or long and drawn out? Keep it myterious? photos? what works?

 

[Apollo Creed]

I'm gonna create an online dating profile... What makes a good profile? Adding a little detail or long and drawn out? Keep it myterious? photos? what works?

not being ugly

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I'm gonna create an online dating profile... What makes a good profile? Adding a little detail or long and drawn out? Keep it myterious? photos? what works?

Little detail. Nobody gives a fukk about your life story and what brought you to online dating. You’re either fukkable or a weed plug.

Pictures that show you go out and enjoy life (be well groomed), brief description with university/graduation date, what city you’re from, and two interests.

If you have a dog, have a picture of you and it together.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Now that I got my own spot…bagging a stripper is up next on my list

 

[Ahadi]

It’s interesting to see the environmental / cultural differences when being from a major city & transitioning to a smaller city.



Yes women are women, but there’s definitely a difference. (Obsession over dogs, tailgating at a football game, going to a particular bar, etc)

 

[MollyGalaga]

Yeah im picky


I don't mean to be, but I like what I like.

 

[Ahadi]

Do you trust a black woman who wears a Baker mayfield jersey?



Like she could of wore Chubbs, Jarvis, Garrett, Koramora, Hunt, anybody else lol