So fukking true
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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So fukking true
Went to the gas station today saw this chick who look like old co-worker.
When she saw me she stuck her nose up at me and put on her sunglasses.
I was think she was mad i did not say hi or something because when i knew her she was very friendly even tho i stop fukking with her over some lil shyt.
I called her name after i walk past her to see if she would respond she said nothing i said o well walk in the store.
She wait till i left the store to drive off.
I'm thinking she thought i was ugly(i don't care what she thinks)
She was mad i did not say hi sooner(i have bad eyes can't see well)
She thought she was to good to talk to me(Like i said don't care)
What i do care about is her going back and running her mouth about me to my old fukk buddy who im trying to get back with.
When she saw me she stuck her nose up at me and put on her sunglasses.
I was think she was mad i did not say hi or something because when i knew her she was very friendly even tho i stop fukking with her over some lil shyt.
I called her name after i walk past her to see if she would respond she said nothing i said o well walk in the store.
She wait till i left the store to drive off.
I'm thinking she thought i was ugly(i don't care what she thinks)
She was mad i did not say hi sooner(i have bad eyes can't see well)
She thought she was to good to talk to me(Like i said don't care)
What i do care about is her going back and running her mouth about me to my old fukk buddy who im trying to get back with.
but if your old fukkbuddy doesn't want anything to do with you over that or if she starts acting funny because that girl told her something, is your old fukkbuddy really worth your time?
B.. bu... but look at that ass tho
I think because she was my first i want to keep smashing her
I just need new p*ssy but at this point in my life i can't deal with women.
What's up with all you males that shame women for premarital sex. Stop trying to ruin it for the rest of us 
We don't like HPV/AID...........
Sorry
We don't like HPV/AID...........
Sorry
So wear a rubber. Slut shaming is counterproductive, Let the rest of us cook
DaRealness
I think very deeply
This is an EXCELLENT post that might go under the radar, true gem being dropped. As men we often feel like it's our job to make the interaction go smoothly, which is why when we really like a girl we'll go above and beyond to keep the conversation interesting. Even if she likes you back, that puts the power in her hands because she can just sit back and watch while you entertain her. We often wonder why those women we are not attracted to are more persistent that than those we are, it is INDIFFERENCE. INDIFFERENCE is your greatest weapon, gentlemen, a woman will take your hatred over your INDIFFERENCE. Show her attention when YOU feel like, not when she asks for it, she'll notice the balance of power and either seek the attention somewhere else OR go above and beyond to get it from YOU
This is definitely an excellent post, because I never even thought about that one before....and I've never read or heard any relationship/dating guru mention this point.
Damn near everyone will give you a million things to say or do to in order to break that awkward silence, while totally negating the very small but crucial fact that EVERYTHING is supposed to be on an even keel and that the woman is supposed to make just as much an effort as you do. No one ever says this. All these so called experts put emphasis on witty one liners and body movements to "win over" a chick as if these broads out here aren't used to damn near every tactic by now. Nearly any and everyone from your coworker to your auntie will tell you if you don't perform more tricks than a clown on a unicycle juggling balls, then the chick will see it as indifference and assume you're not interested and keep it moving. Well, tough shyt if that is the case. So someone can tell manginas like Obama to save all these Steve Urkel type stories on how he used to try and win over Michelle. FOH with that, we're a new breed of men over here.
The moment you go all out and sweat a chick just to see her smiling and get some kind of short lived validation, then you've already lost.
Look at this simp shyt my older friend from HS posted on IG earlier last week talking about how not all guys are the same 
yup and it has to be true indifference too. We're taking the power away from them. The hardest thing is to truly be indifferent, not just front like we are. But we'll get there...This is an EXCELLENT post that might go under the radar, true gem being dropped. As men we often feel like it's our job to make the interaction go smoothly, which is why when we really like a girl we'll go above and beyond to keep the conversation interesting. Even if she likes you back, that puts the power in her hands because she can just sit back and watch while you entertain her. We often wonder why those women we are not attracted to are more persistent that than those we are, it is INDIFFERENCE. INDIFFERENCE is your greatest weapon, gentlemen, a woman will take your hatred over your INDIFFERENCE. Show her attention when YOU feel like, not when she asks for it, she'll notice the balance of power and either seek the attention somewhere else OR go above and beyond to get it from YOU
Never listen to women's advice when it comes to how to deal with them (even if you,re asking a family member). She could have the best intentions in the world and even be rooting for you but you ask them "I i want Michelle, what should i do to make it happen?" and for some reason she'll hear "I want Michelle, what should i do to make her feel good/make her happy?"
This is definitely an excellent post, because I never even thought about that one before....and I've never read or heard any relationship/dating guru mention this point.
Damn near everyone will give you a million things to say or do to in order to break that awkward silence, while totally negating the very small but crucial fact that EVERYTHING is supposed to be on an even keel and that the woman is supposed to make just as much an effort as you do. No one ever says this. All these so called experts put emphasis on witty one liners and body movements to "win over" a chick as if these broads out here aren't used to damn near every tactic by now. Nearly any and everyone from your coworker to your auntie will tell you if you don't perform more tricks than a clown on a unicycle juggling balls, then the chick will see it as indifference and assume you're not interested and keep it moving. Well, tough shyt if that is the case. So someone can tell manginas like Obama to save all these Steve Urkel type stories on how he used to try and win over Michelle. FOH with that, we're a new breed of men over here.
The moment you go all out and sweat a chick just to see her smiling and get some kind of short lived validation, then you've already lost.
So much truth being dropped in this thread. It saddens me that I couldn't have started reading some of this material when I was younger. - This indifference (real indifference) is reached through self actualization. You want to figure out how to get women? Figure out you first. Your goals and ambitions should come before every woman except your mother, she is the only woman who will ever love you unconditionally. There is no more valuable knowledge than that of yourself, once you know YOU, and you become your own first priority, then everything else starts falling in to place. Your family and REAL friends should always take priority over any woman until she proves otherwise. There are billions of women in the world, there is no need for a man to EVER to sacrifice his integrity in the pursuit of ONE.
- Your second point is ONE HUNDRED PERCENT truth. Who are you going to take fishing advice from, the fisherman or the fish?
DaRealness
I think very deeply
A lot of this has been discussed in this thread already, but take note of this one:
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/120226-signs-she-doesnt-like-you.html#.UbTcmZywU8o
This is why we say you should always be indifferent and NEVER chase chicks.
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/120226-signs-she-doesnt-like-you.html#.UbTcmZywU8o
This is why we say you should always be indifferent and NEVER chase chicks.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
You said it, true indifference. No point being on some pretend shyt where you know damn well you're lying to yourself, because then you'll be feeling all cut up and hurt inside while trying to put on a facade. Just like someone mentioned a few pages back of a woman who admitted that many or most broads still like to be approached for sex even when they know they'll never sleep with the guy.
It has to be genuine and it takes a lot of effort to get to that stage.