CountryBoyL
Pro
Breh it’s all in your mind. Stop downing yourself and man tf up. It’s a mentality! Go out to bars and just be yourself. Chat and meet new people men and woman (no homo). You can’t keep talking down on yourself on thecoli breh.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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This. It’s all about trial and error. Some going to fukk with you, some won’t, but make sure you’re putting the best version of yourself out there and go for it.
buzzkill
All Star
keep letting hoes play you and you'll become heartless naturally
thats why these thot's go to is "who hurt you"
some people got it naturally some people have to go through the growing pains
Edit: some dudes are just naturally nice dudes who don't got it in them to be player. If that's you just stop being emotionally available. Make a girl prove her worth before you open up to her. Protect your heart breh.
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It’s hard to be myself. I know you nikkas keep saying go see a therapist but man I need to get dome soon from a shorty.
bytches so judgemental and cold. Maybe I need new interests and hobbies that will make me interesting. Rn I think I may be too boring.
I’m not really sure what you mean by emotionally unavailablekeep letting hoes play you and you'll become heartless naturally
thats why these thot's go to is "who hurt you"
some people got it naturally some people have to go through the growing pains
Edit: some dudes are just naturally nice dudes who don't got it in them to be player. If that's you just stop being emotionally available. Make a girl prove her worth before you open up to her. Protect your heart breh.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
My ex who ghosted me in June hit me up and she wanna link
I might give in
I still like her
but I know ima take an L
You’re better than that g. Politely decline her offer.
… but if you insist, at least be completely sure with yourself AND her that there’s no emotional connection. Treat her as she’s a stranger you picked up off Tinder.
Commenting on a pic as a opener on facebook dating has worked alot for me
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
solid tactic. I simply mention something in the background or the design/look of her outfit. The latter I may have to stop because it’ll make me look
it’s pretty hit or miss too. I’ve gotten plenty of matches on Hinge by simply liking her picture
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Speaking about different ways to start off a convo, I was thinking of changing my current song on Tinder to this:
Y’all think it’s a turn-off or good indication of my tone/describes what I’m on?
Y’all think it’s a turn-off or good indication of my tone/describes what I’m on?
Killigraphy
Banned
Develop a mouthpiece, no one is born with all infinity gems. You have to acquire them over time, with trial and error, more so, experience. You need only succeed once, don't fear failure. And don't ever assume you'll be on demon time, that's for a specific set of men who tap into the psychopathic nature of humans. Beyond that, become undeniable, inevitable.
from that no more mr nice guy book i recommended above
An integrated male possesses many of the following attributes
He has a strong sense of self. He likes himself just as he is.
He takes responsibility for getting his own needs met.
He is comfortable with his masculinity and his sexuality,
He has integrity. He does what is right, not what is expedient
He is a leader. He is willing to provide for and protect those he cares about.
He is clear, direct, and expressive of his feelings.
He can be nurturing and giving without caretaking or problem-solving.
He knows how to set boundaries and is not afraid to work through conflict.
An integrated male doesn't strive to be perfect or gain the approval of others. Instead, he accepts himself just as he is, warts and all.
An integrated male accepts that he is perfectly imperfect.
An integrated male possesses many of the following attributes
He has a strong sense of self. He likes himself just as he is.
He takes responsibility for getting his own needs met.
He is comfortable with his masculinity and his sexuality,
He has integrity. He does what is right, not what is expedient
He is a leader. He is willing to provide for and protect those he cares about.
He is clear, direct, and expressive of his feelings.
He can be nurturing and giving without caretaking or problem-solving.
He knows how to set boundaries and is not afraid to work through conflict.
An integrated male doesn't strive to be perfect or gain the approval of others. Instead, he accepts himself just as he is, warts and all.
An integrated male accepts that he is perfectly imperfect.
If you that pressed about p*ssy just pay for it.
Go to therapy and take a break. Women feel this energy and will get turned off.
Work on yourself. You aren’t ready for women right now.
Get a better job.
Get in shape.
Clear your mind with a therapist.
Find your passion.
Practice speaking & body language.
Work on your style too. Grown man shyt. Not a member of Griselda.
All of this will make you confident & bring you better results.
buzzkill
All Star
Stop giving your all to women. Make them prove themselves worthy to be your boo or whatever you said you wanted. You might need to slow down a little a just date and see what you like and don't like and quit taking dating so serious.