Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr Hate Coffee]

not necessarily..

If you not feeling her,you not feeling her...

Are they doing something wrong?

Actually, let me step back. Saying they have nothing to offer is harsh.

I guess when I reflect on how in my mind I put these chicks on a pedestal because they were really attractive then when I get them the allure goes away.

They aint doing anything wrong. I just had them too propped up in my mind.

my basic point was that even the finest chicks are just human beings. They aint unicorns and shyt.

 

[360dagod]

Actually, let me step back. Saying they have nothing to offer is harsh.

I guess when I reflect on how in my mind I put these chicks on a pedestal because they were really attractive then when I get them the allure goes away.

They aint doing anything wrong. I just had them too propped up in my mind.

my basic point was that even the finest chicks are just human beings. They aint unicorns and shyt.

ohh...I see what ur saying

 

[wutang512]

Quick thought...

As someone who regularly dates really attractive women (8's and aboves. no bs, don't hate, it's not that hard to do). It's funny how quickly they turn mediocre in my eyes. I dunno, maybe I'm just really picky but I have to always be reminded by friends how attractive the girl I'm with is.

Homie: "Damn bruh she fine as fukk!"

Me after 3 months of dealing with her: "She's cool."

Homie: "nikka you aint never happy."


Truth is, that once the allure of attraction wears off a lot of women don't have much to offer.

But I can't go lower in looks. What to do... what to do...

I understand where your coming from. you like what you like

But ill tell you right now I'd rather settle for 6-7.5 in the face with a likable personality than a 8-10 who damn near has no personality and has always relied on her looks to carry herself to get where she wants.

 

[LebronsHairline]

Quick thought...

As someone who regularly dates really attractive women (8's and aboves. no bs, don't hate, it's not that hard to do). It's funny how quickly they turn mediocre in my eyes. I dunno, maybe I'm just really picky but I have to always be reminded by friends how attractive the girl I'm with is.

Homie: "Damn bruh she fine as fukk!"

Me after 3 months of dealing with her: "She's cool."

Homie: "nikka you aint never happy."


Truth is, that once the allure of attraction wears off a lot of women don't have much to offer.

But I can't go lower in looks. What to do... what to do...

Its almost like you just read my mind lol

Just keep flirting and fukking them till you find one who can actually add value to your life...in a mentally stimulating sort of way, thats what i do.

Still lookin tho

 

[Kenny West]

Quick thought...

As someone who regularly dates really attractive women (8's and aboves. no bs, don't hate, it's not that hard to do). It's funny how quickly they turn mediocre in my eyes. I dunno, maybe I'm just really picky but I have to always be reminded by friends how attractive the girl I'm with is.

Homie: "Damn bruh she fine as fukk!"

Me after 3 months of dealing with her: "She's cool."

Homie: "nikka you aint never happy."


Truth is, that once the allure of attraction wears off a lot of women don't have much to offer.

But I can't go lower in looks. What to do... what to do...

Casey Veggies once said

"I could only wife a plain jane, make the bad hoes give me bad brain"

 

[kevm3]

A lot of times, the finer the woman, the worse her personality is because she never really had to develop it. She was always so pretty and fine that she had men doing any and everything to cater and to entertain her. Fine women always seem a lot more mysterious and better when you don't know them... but you get up close and see the personality and sometimes the outrageous demands, you are like, "I'm cool on that."

 

[Kartel13]

We got to remember we are men. We shouldnt be worried about our marriage failing.Eventually some of us will probably get married or be in a long relationship. All we can do is our best and if your a praying man which I hope some of you cats are:Pray for the best.Being real in this day and age if you get divorce its not end of the world.A woman doesnt make us.A woman might let us lose $$$,time,vistiation of kids etc...but not make us lose our mind,sanity,dignity and pride,cause before women there was us the individual.Women are like buses they come,they go.You dont see former employers thinking of the employees they fired.Your old job aint debating whether or not to pick up the phone and call you. Cause they moved on and dont care! Once you have that attitutde,you can conquer anything.No woman can make you or break you.

I disagree on that last part. They always come back. Whether its a girl to a guy, guy to a girl, that emotional bond will always be there and one way or another, moving on is very difficult to do.

What you're telling us is to be cold. Like someone said, women are wired cold and men aren't. The only way us dudes become cold is when we get fukked over which opens our eyes and snaps us in reality. Believe me, we all will soon learn the hard way.

 

[karim]

A lot of times, the finer the woman, the worse her personality is because she never really had to develop it. She was always so pretty and fine that she had men doing any and everything to cater and to entertain her. Fine women always seem a lot more mysterious and better when you don't know them... but you get up close and see the personality and sometimes the outrageous demands, you are like, "I'm cool on that."

actually, there are feminists who are making a similar point:


How to Talk to Little Girls

Teaching girls that their appearance is the first thing you notice tells them that looks are more important than anything. It sets them up for dieting at age 5 and foundation at age 11 and boob jobs at 17 and Botox at 23. As our cultural imperative for girls to be hot 24/7 has become the new normal, American women have become increasingly unhappy. What’s missing? A life of meaning, a life of ideas and reading books and being valued for our thoughts and accomplishments.

 

[MikelArteta]

Looks fade I always said no homo my uncle had some of the hottest women ever and dude married a lot plain Jane whose a little over weight but he's happy as hell. The first thing that goes from women is their looks.rarely are their attractive women in their 30s and 40s. I'm not saying IMA wife precious.

Let me dig up a story

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[Mr.Plan B]

Say you are at a table with 4 guys.All the guys at the table look better then you.three girls come over to sit next to your group they all pair up leaving you out.

One want good looks just like guys they are not the problem here.

Will hitting the gym and have a lower bf and higher muscle density make you up to par with the other guys at the table? Or that just a myth?

 

[MikelArteta]

Found it

"and you dont know what you got till its gone"

man i remember i was like 19 and deathly sick one day and this chick took the bus over an hour to come and make me tea and soup. The sweetest girl I ever met, religious was waiting for marriage like i was at the time, wasn't a knockout but was very naturally pretty, but i was a demonic individual back then brehs I knew she liked me alot, but I,wasn't schooled in the game and all i cared about was looks and having the prettiest girl on my arm so i dumped her but she still was ok with being friends that sweet ol heart, however i remember it was just like yesterday breh the girl i just started dating told me at the time it was her or my great white buffalo and i chose her, so i stopped talking to the sweetest girl i ever met

Years later I stalked her fb and shes married now working in south america as a missionary with her husband and kids, while i'm single, living at home posting on message boards

Summary - had this broad that was into me and was perfect but she was just average looking.

Gave her up for the big titty Russian with the Anna kournikova face

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[karim]

Say you are at a table with 4 guys.All the guys at the table look better then you.three girls come over to sit next to your group they all pair up leaving you out.

One want good looks just like guys they are not the problem here.

Will hitting the gym and have a lower bf and higher muscle density make you up to par with the other guys at the table? Or that just a myth?

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...uilding-forums-gets-cheated.html#.UbnUMvnwmYg

 

[Brandeezy]

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Finally found a black PUA based in NYC. This nikka is with all these bad bytches he's pulling, don't know how he does it. Got me motivated a little. at the last chick

[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fMNQyiKdynE[/ame]

at the first chick

 

[MikelArteta]

Just look at kanyr and lamar both cheating on their rich big booty kardashians.

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[Huellz Santana]

maaaaan.... just when i thought i was ready to settle down, some new chicks just threw their hat in the ring.



i really like two girls right now. now I'm like at the thought of settling down. options never made anything easier. ​