Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[buzzkill]

been getting back in the game with a new (my old) perspective. so far shyt has been smooth sailing.

In great shape from muay thai & bjj, my finances on point, and moving into an apartment with no roommates in the city in the next few weeks.

we eating this summer

 

[The ADD]

So last Sunday I had brunch with one of the ladies I’m talking to and she pays for the brunch and she surprises me with a transformer (yea I’m a huge transformers fan, collect the toys and all that. I don’t hide my hobby) cuz she knew I was having a tough week. I was shocked. I like this one.

Tread lightly breh

 

[bigde09]

Gotta stay busy and give women space. Went out with this sexy ass girl on Wednesday. We hit it off and kissed after date. She is going out of town to see family this weekend. Just texted her once the next night after date. Not gonna hit her up again till Sunday night to plan for Tuesday night.


you gotta text a little but if you acting like a pen pal you gonna either text your way out of some p*ssy or text your way out of some p*ssy. Just keep it light and short and save it for the date.

Plus bytches text about useless dumb shyt anyway. Nothing of value will come from a lot of texting.

This only works when she's already attached/intrigued by you. Women have 100 guys in their phone and she will go to the next one because they change with the wind.

You got to strike when the irons hot. However I do agree that you shouldn't over text her.

 

[mag357]

This only works when she's already attached/intrigued by you. Women have 100 guys in their phone and she will go to the next one because they change with the wind.

You got to strike when the irons hot. However I do agree that you shouldn't over text her.

If she's not already attracted, attached and intrigued by you.... Texting more isn't going to help.

Besides she's "out of town seeing family" anyway


This nikka got to first base, getting an after date kiss...
Some nikka she going to visit got this bytch ghetto gagging in the back of an old civic

 

[mag357]

Is it me? Or does black women disrespecting you hit harder than any other group of women? Like I can easily brush off any other group, but with BW it stings a bit more, if that makes any sense.

It does. Ideally, we’re SUPPOSE to understand each other’s traumas, problems, insecurities, and hurdles. Other races don’t grasp what we go through, but for our counterparts to know and STILL disrespect us

This should be a whole thread...

 

[1thouwow]

I can’t even express my feelings and state of mind to my wife without her getting mad and invalidating my thoughts. Then she get mad when I don’t open up and communicate with her. Even tho she’s been working on being receptive to “criticism” since we been married.

 

[EffYou]

I can’t even express my feelings and state of mind to my wife without her getting mad and invalidating my thoughts. Then she get mad when I don’t open up and communicate with her. Even tho she’s been working on being receptive to “criticism” since we been married.

How long into the marriage did it take for her to start acting this way?

 

[1thouwow]

How long into the marriage did it take for her to start acting this way?

At least a year. Idk if it’s from getting comfortable in the marriage or after the baby. shyt definitely changed after that and that seem to be our peak.

 

[Ahadi]

This should be a whole thread...

Everyone would be disingenuous



“what are you talking about?”
“Travel brehs”
“Man up”
“Don’t be an incel”
“Black women don’t do that Breh”

 

[mag357]

Everyone would be disingenuous



“what are you talking about?”
“Travel brehs”
“Man up”
“Don’t be an incel”
“Black women don’t do that Breh”

Matter of fact....
You're 100% right


This place is too predictable

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Everyone would be disingenuous



“what are you talking about?”
“Travel brehs”
“Man up”
“Don’t be an incel”
“Black women don’t do that Breh”

Matter of fact....
You're 100% right


This place is too predictable

A counterpoint I’ve heard on this topic is “well, black woman don’t belong to you. Don’t be entitled “ if that’s the case why is it black men’s job to protect black women? It’s an interesting topic to be had, but not on here.

 

[mag357]

A counterpoint I’ve heard on this topic is “well, black woman don’t belong to you. Don’t be entitled “ if that’s the case why is it black men’s job to protect black women? It’s an interesting topic to be had, but not on here.

Word .. that is a very interesting argument...

It's crazy because sometimes I come across different ideas on here and different people on here that I think are very intelligent and thought provoking.

Ive also thought about making a forum for real black discussion. With a real debate .. and real moderators.

But I don't know shyt about the internet and I'm lazy as fukk

 

[360dagod]

I can’t even express my feelings and state of mind to my wife without her getting mad and invalidating my thoughts. Then she get mad when I don’t open up and communicate with her. Even tho she’s been working on being receptive to “criticism” since we been married.

Read the superior man..audio or physical..it's an eye opener.

Just because she wants you to open up doesn't mean she wants you to open up

 

[360dagod]

It does. Ideally, we’re SUPPOSE to understand each other’s traumas, problems, insecurities, and hurdles. Other races don’t grasp what we go through, but for our counterparts to know and STILL disrespect us

The liberal agenda plays divide and conquer..

Black women
LGBT
Immigrants














Black men..

Until they get shot and political points can be gained from it.

 

[twan83]

At least a year. Idk if it’s from getting comfortable in the marriage or after the baby. shyt definitely changed after that and that seem to be our peak.

Maybe postpartum depression my ex had that and it was tough on us
Plus once u say I do people true colors show