It's silly, broski. It's mind boggling. I try not to devote any thought to it, but having this type of stuff happen more than once, and to the degree that this shyt happens, I can't help but get confused by that shyt.
Yeah, that's the problem. I can understand if it was only one or two women doing it. Then you could write it off to that being a crazy woman, but this kind of behavior is common. Something I am finding difficult to comprehend.. I can't wrap my mind around it is that 'getting attention' is all some of these women want. They have no intention of really getting not know you, build with you, etc. They just want your attention because you haven't been paying them any attention. I've had a woman tell me what made me attractive to her was I wasn't paying her attention like the other men. I mean what kind of reason is that to like me for?
I sit back and think what in the world is the purpose of that? Ok, you got me to talk to you and maybe give you a little compliment and oyu feel like you won something? After they get that little attention from you, their whole attitude can shift around and you just don't see them anymore.
The dating scene has gotten so backwards it doesn't make sense. You literally have to gameplan around not taking a woman out to anywhere decent or else you will be punished for it when she eats a free meal on you, leaves and then calls another guy over. Cats talk about taking women on walks in the park or to a coffeehouse in order to avoid dinner and a movie. I mean man, this woman is getting something for free and she can't appreciate that? In fact, she punishes the guy for taking her there?
Then this is the same woman talking about how she can't find any decent men. In other words, women reward men that treat them like jump-offs and punish men that take them seriously, but then complain they can only find guys that use them. It's like you go to the pet store and bring a dog home and you find out that the dog bites you whenever you pet him or give him a treat, but whenever you roll up a newspaper and start hitting the dog, the dog wags its tail and licks your hand. What will you say about that dog? Man, something is wrong here. It's exactly like that in the dating scene though. You treat a woman like a jump-off and she can't get enough, but you try to treat her like a decent civilized human being and she thinks you're weak or some utter nonsense. We can talk about 'game' all day and what men need to do, but there just comes a point where you realize everything is backwards and it ain't necessarily what you are or aren't doing, but rather the problem lies with her.
When you have other women able to point out a lot of the same things we've been saying here, then you know it's a problem
this chick wanted to set up a lunch, and on the day of the lunch she doesn't show up and doesn't respond to text, a couple weeks later she sends another text talking about "we should link up" as if she has no memory of standing me up. I saved the text messages, screen shot the text and sent it to her.
what was her reaction
Do most women want that much reassurance? Does a male saying "yes" to an idea or suggestion of theirs stroke their ego that much? I ran into an article or two that discussed flaking, but those stories seemed to be centered around the guy going after the number, and arranging the date, and initiating and all that. 