Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LiveFromLondon]

But to who and based on what? "Attraction" ultimately boils down to an individual preference so you can't assume what you perceive as the factors making you look better than the next man apply to said female

Do we though? This is what women clown men for: assuming what THEY like instead of observing and listening.

Even if so, that’s not a guarantee you gon get chose.

I know but these are chicks I regularly see and catch staring but when its time for me to press up they either run away or just act weird. This is my honest experience, especially with gym chicks even one breh mentioned that chicks when they're intimidated by you they won't say anything but ugly dudes they all giggly.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I know but these are chicks I regularly see and catch staring but when its time for me to press up they either run away or just act weird

maybe they simply think you’re attractive but that’s just it no conversation, no linking up, just a simple “he’s a cutie.. I like his earrings… his outfit is nice” Take it for what it is instead of what it’s not.

 

[Lord Bison]

I know but these are chicks I regularly see and catch staring but when its time for me to press up they either run away or just act weird. This is my honest experience, especially with gym chicks even one breh mentioned that chicks when they're intimidated by you they won't say anything but ugly dudes they all giggly.

maybe they simply think you’re attractive but that’s just it no conversation, no linking up, just a simple “he’s a cutie.. I like his earrings… his outfit is nice” Take it for what it is instead of what it’s not.

There's some truth to this. Whenever my body game is on point and got the muscles popping, I've seen women get very socially awkward around me when I'm trying to have a basic, pleasant conversation. I don't think it gets talk about enough how technology has stunted the social skills and communication of a lot of modern women today. I wish I had statistics to prove it, but in my day to day I've seen an increase in socially awkward women that doesn't get highlighted enough.

They are turned on by what they see, but just like we get nervous around certain women, they do too. As a result they don't know how to act around him.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

There's some truth to this. Whenever my body game is on point and got the muscles popping, I've seen women get very socially awkward around me when I'm trying to have a basic, pleasant conversation. I don't think it gets talk about enough how technology has stunted the social skills and communication of a lot of modern women today. I wish I had statistics to prove it, but in my day to day I've seen an increase in socially awkward women that doesn't get highlighted enough.

They are turned on by what they see, but just like we get nervous around certain women, they do too. As a result they don't know how to act around him.

Thank you breh for corrabarating plus I will even admit when I was younger I'd get nevous around attractive women but had no problems with Ugg Mugs, even my boy noticed it. So I figure its the same with chicks.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

There's some truth to this. Whenever my body game is on point and got the muscles popping, I've seen women get very socially awkward around me when I'm trying to have a basic, pleasant conversation. I don't think it gets talk about enough how technology has stunted the social skills and communication of a lot of modern women today. I wish I had statistics to prove it, but in my day to day I've seen an increase in socially awkward women that doesn't get highlighted enough.

They are turned on by what they see, but just like we get nervous around certain women, they do too. As a result they don't know how to act around him.

Thank you breh for corrabarating plus I will even admit when I was younger I'd get nevous around attractive women but had no problems with Ugg Mugs, even my boy noticed it. So I figure its the same with chicks.

@LiveFromLondon don’t think I didn’t feel where you were coming from or couldn’t relate.. I just disagreed with your stance on what women should find attractive.

the glaring problem behind the rise of technology and fleeting social skills is rather than improving social skills or yourself, people rather live in an echo chamber of their insecurities with others. This is GREATLY highlighted with men but isn’t in women. Women will either sweep their insecurities under the rug or weaponize them to attack your self-worth.

Unfortunately, some Men start thinking they went wrong with a date or interaction — trying to re-invent the wheel — when they fail to realize the possibility of the woman being starstruck or insecure around them.

we have to teach young men to be confident in who they are so that they should never consistently question if they did something wrong. This goes beyond women. When the finances, clothing, job title, cars, etc… when that’s stripped away… who are you?

 

[LiveFromLondon]

the glaring problem behind the rise of technology and fleeting social skills is rather than improving social skills or yourself, people rather live in an echo chamber of their insecurities with others

True but this has nothing to do with my gripes as these chicks social skills seem none existent in my presence but will talk to other guys like its nothing.

 

[Ahadi]

@LiveFromLondon don’t think I didn’t feel where you were coming from or couldn’t relate.. I just disagreed with your stance on what women should find attractive.

the glaring problem behind the rise of technology and fleeting social skills is rather than improving social skills or yourself, people rather live in an echo chamber of their insecurities with others. This is GREATLY highlighted with men but isn’t in women. Women will either sweep their insecurities under the rug or weaponize them to attack your self-worth.

Unfortunately, some Men start thinking they went wrong with a date or interaction — trying to re-invent the wheel — when they fail to realize the possibility of the woman being starstruck or insecure around them.

we have to teach young men to be confident in who they are so that they should never consistently question if they did something wrong. This goes beyond women. When the finances, clothing, job title, cars, etc… when that’s stripped away… who are you?

Yup. Sometimes it’s not always you.

As long as you stick to who you are, you’ll always win.

 

[Ahadi]

Armenian joint at the bar was choosin & bartender was giving us shots



Coi Leray w a better body was tryna get your boy to buy a casamigos shot. FOH.

 

[Ahadi]

Brehette Bartender wana look at me crazy cause Armenian choosin.



like that shyt put a battery in her back.

Sad shyt. The white skin said it’s good; now all the Hoes follow. You gotta laugh at this shyt.

 

[VertigoKnight]

But to who and based on what? "Attraction" ultimately boils down to an individual preference so you can't assume what you perceive as the factors making you look better than the next man apply to said female

Yeah a woman can see you as handsome but find you don’t do it for her ‘tingle’ wise

 

[DapMeUp!]

But to who and based on what? "Attraction" ultimately boils down to an individual preference so you can't assume what you perceive as the factors making you look better than the next man apply to said female

True.

I had a few times I hadn't managed to secure a woman, I would see the next guy who managed to crush the buildings and would be This dude?

Like you said it's down to preference.
Also not every guy opens the door with the same keys.
You might get in the door being handsome gang, others it might be Physique/Height/Mouthpiece/Money etc

 

[360dagod]

There's some truth to this. Whenever my body game is on point and got the muscles popping, I've seen women get very socially awkward around me when I'm trying to have a basic, pleasant conversation. I don't think it gets talk about enough how technology has stunted the social skills and communication of a lot of modern women today. I wish I had statistics to prove it, but in my day to day I've seen an increase in socially awkward women that doesn't get highlighted enough.

They are turned on by what they see, but just like we get nervous around certain women, they do too. As a result they don't know how to act around him.

You might be on to something

 

[LiveFromLondon]

True.

I had a few times I hadn't managed to secure a woman, I would see the next guy who managed to crush the buildings and would be This dude?

Like you said it's down to preference.
Also not every guy opens the door with the same keys.
You might get in the door being handsome gang, others it might be Physique/Height/Mouthpiece/Money etc

Thank you to breh and I think it adds credence to The Coli's favourite topic of chicks liking dad bods or less attractive men as they feel they wont cheat on them and it makes them feel comfortable having a man below their level. All in all Chicks might just be open to ugly/average dudes as they arent intimidated by them and feel more comfortable interacting and dating them. Being Handsome has its downside I guess

 

[The ADD]

Thank you to breh and I think it adds credence to The Coli's favourite topic of chicks liking dad bods or less attractive men as they feel they wont cheat on them and it makes them feel comfortable having a man below their level. All in all Chicks might just be open to ugly/average dudes as they arent intimidated by them and feel more comfortable interacting and dating them. Being Handsome has its downside I guess

Lol or that’s just what they like in general. Come on guise.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Lol or that’s just what they like in general. Come on guise.

breh I've explained my experiences, these chicks give a nikka choosing signals but when I'm up in their face they act weird and get flustered. The gym is a place it happens a lot, I will catch these chicks staring, making eye contact but when I for example ask how many sets they have left, if I can borrow some weights or use the machine next to them they scurry away or act socially awkward. At the same with other brehs they have no problem.

I'm certain I aint the only nikka it happens to. #Teamhandsome of course