Brehs, whats the standard on the level of contact with exes when in a relationship.
The girl ive been in a relationship for the past 4 months (well now my ex) just cut things off cuz she saw an ig notification from my ex. In those series of messages, i responded to her her story about that nigerian dude that got killed by the white girl, cuz she kept posting about it and shes not Nigerian. Im Nigerian btw. I asked if she knew him and she said she knew his brother. I replied more than 24 hours later in the morning then she asked why I was up so early cuz i replied to her message in the more than 24hrs later. I said my new bae is a morning person, so thats been the wave lately. She was enthusiastic in wanting to know some of the details but I kept the shyt very brief.
I showed my girl the messages but she wasnt satisfied. We had spoken about ex's and she said maintaining relationships with exes was a deal breaker cuz in previous relationships, her nikkas were creepin on her with their exes. I acknowledged this but i feel a random social media message like once every couple of weeks does not constitute maintaining a relationship.
But i'm sitting here like
. Im telling these hoes that i have a girl, putting them on notice, but just the mere contact is enough for suggest im trying to maintain a relationship.
Bare in mind, she has some guy friend that one day called her on a saturday night out of the blue and asked her to babysit his son while we were chilling. Homegirl barely gave this nikka any pushback, and asked if she could help him. She had explained the dynamic between them prior so i allowed it. Im like how can you really hold about this when you have this type of the
A bit relieved cuz when the level of irrationality is too much for me to handle.
Facts, repped.
