what were the red flags?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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what were the red flags?
Just broke up with my girl of 17 months, tonight.
We're just 2 different people with different mindsets. It sucks bc she's really a great person overall.
It definitely wasn't perfect relationship, but I never had any concern about her cheating or anything like that . That itself is a huge burden that never existed
It sucks. But I guess that's the way it bes brehs.
Ultimately she wants marriage and kids very soon, and I just didn't see us being at that level with the issues we have. We've drifted apart for several months
So what do you want breh?
I mean being with someone for almost 2 years what is it that you wanted? Like what's missing?
You said she's great but there are issues?
Pedro Negro
Reefer & Sneakers
Honestly, too many to name.
Overall thot-like behavior in lots of ways. Younger (when we met she was 30, I was 40). Ex-stripper, current bartender. BBL, boob job, eagle talon nails. She has a split tongue. Hot tempered. Always on her phone or IG. Issues with drinking/angry drunk. Absentee father. No real history of a healthy, serious relationship.
Just typing all that out has me like
right now.And you wifed?Honestly, too many to name.
Overall thot-like behavior in lots of ways. Younger (when we met she was 30, I was 40). Ex-stripper, current bartender. BBL, boob job, eagle talon nails. She has a split tongue. Hot tempered. Always on her phone or IG. Issues with drinking/angry drunk. Absentee father. No real history of a healthy, serious relationship.
Just typing all that out has me like
Pedro Negro
Reefer & Sneakers
We had the relationship label, yup.
To make matters worse, I had gotten out of a LTR relationship (close to 8 years) last April with a really great girl so the contrast of who I ended up dating come October was pretty obvious.
Sex was probably flamesHonestly, too many to name.
Overall thot-like behavior in lots of ways. Younger (when we met she was 30, I was 40). Ex-stripper, current bartender. BBL, boob job, eagle talon nails. She has a split tongue. Hot tempered. Always on her phone or IG. Issues with drinking/angry drunk. Absentee father. No real history of a healthy, serious relationship.
Just typing all that out has me like
Pedro Negro
Reefer & Sneakers
Most definitely, and that’s honestly what probably had me hooked those first few months. A breh just wanted to know what that split tongue did.
She was a squirter so on the bright side I won’t have to change my sheets multiple times a week anymore
What did you feel you did wrong in this relationship? Honestly...
Within 6 months, you seen the BASELINE of what your dealing with in the average woman...
I honestly think you might have somewhat self-sabatoged yourself...
Homegirl wanted some sort of assurance that her time wasn't being wasted and you might not have given it to her..
The marriage/kid thing was a test to see where your head was..not necessarily something she wanted at that EXACT moment
Honestly, too many to name.
Overall thot-like behavior in lots of ways. Younger (when we met she was 30, I was 40). Ex-stripper, current bartender. BBL, boob job, eagle talon nails. She has a split tongue. Hot tempered. Always on her phone or IG. Issues with drinking/angry drunk. Absentee father. No real history of a healthy, serious relationship.
Just typing all that out has me like
Yeah I was just fukking with a stripper. It’s like crypto it’s fun while you’re up but you HAVE to cash out while you’re up
Brehs letting women bully them into relationships 
When a woman asks for a relationship. Tell her ‘no, I’m dating multiple women and I’m not ready to commit.’ Most likely, she will stop talking to you for a while. Long as you don’t cave like a Ho. She might come back and join your roster. It’s that simple. If she doesn’t come back. So what, you will be too busy with your roster to care.
When a woman asks for a relationship. Tell her ‘no, I’m dating multiple women and I’m not ready to commit.’ Most likely, she will stop talking to you for a while. Long as you don’t cave like a Ho. She might come back and join your roster. It’s that simple. If she doesn’t come back. So what, you will be too busy with your roster to care.We had the relationship label, yup.
To make matters worse, I had gotten out of a LTR relationship (close to 8 years) last April with a really great girl so the contrast of who I ended up dating come October was pretty obvious.
Brehs letting women bully them into relationships
To be fair, you should make this comment more nuanced..
A woman who meets 70%+ of your requirements should absolutely go to the top of your priority list...
Now if it's something that can go either way, yeah I can see that..
Why the 8 year relationship ended?We had the relationship label, yup.
To make matters worse, I had gotten out of a LTR relationship (close to 8 years) last April with a really great girl so the contrast of who I ended up dating come October was pretty obvious.
O³ (O cubed)
No more PAWGs, PLEASE??!!!??
Reading this, it seems that she was a rebound fling. Chalk this up to experience breh.Honestly, too many to name.
Overall thot-like behavior in lots of ways. Younger (when we met she was 30, I was 40). Ex-stripper, current bartender. BBL, boob job, eagle talon nails. She has a split tongue. Hot tempered. Always on her phone or IG. Issues with drinking/angry drunk. Absentee father. No real history of a healthy, serious relationship.
Just typing all that out has me like
Honestly, too many to name.
Overall thot-like behavior in lots of ways. Younger (when we met she was 30, I was 40). Ex-stripper, current bartender. BBL, boob job, eagle talon nails. She has a split tongue. Hot tempered. Always on her phone or IG. Issues with drinking/angry drunk. Absentee father. No real history of a healthy, serious relationship.
Just typing all that out has me like
glad you have seen the light at least