Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

My nikkas I’m getting bytches on tinder but my self esteem is low due to fail relationships. When I occasionally get a bytch that flirts with me irl. I just can’t really do it because I fear rejection. Whether just no or getting dumped. I’ve been going to the gym but help me get my boldness back. I feel like a declawed cat, this shyt sucks.

Are you sure its past relationships why your self esteem is so low? Sounds like you need to take a break from dating. I’ve told you this before.


Get other things in order and when your a lot more happier within yourself the rest will fall into place.

You messing with chicks and your self esteem is low will only ping them and make them avoid you after your initial interaction. As you’ll feel ‘off'

 

[Brandsdale]

As I get older in life

Girl who actually wants you>>>>>>some other chick who doesn't

my ex

 

[MikelArteta]

A lot of profiles from Thailand and Latin America seem to be able to make it look like they're in your city.

I don't understand how Tinder has let their app go to shyt.

The only reason why hinge hasn't is because you can only download hinge in certain countries

 

[VertigoKnight]

The only reason why hinge hasn't is because you can only download hinge in certain countries

That and to setup a Hinge profile takes too much time for a lot of the type of woman who thrive on Tinder

 

[Brandsdale]

anyone in here at the age of 35+ and still dating- do yall still crave for a family, longterm relationship etc?

 

[Brandsdale]

That and to setup a Hinge profile takes too much time for a lot of the type of woman who thrive on Tinder

shyt gets rough when you gotta be an interesting person lol

 

[Malik1time]

Fellas invest in your bed/sheets in your crib
Ole always wants to come over…she told me so many times
“Your bed is so comfortable and your apartment is soo clean”
Remember I told ya my apartment has everything but a couch in the living room

 

[Rozay Oro]

Are you sure its past relationships why your self esteem is so low? Sounds like you need to take a break from dating. I’ve told you this before.


Get other things in order and when your a lot more happier within yourself the rest will fall into place.

You messing with chicks and your self esteem is low will only ping them and make them avoid you after your initial interaction. As you’ll feel ‘off'

What else can it be? No homo I do not have a smeat nor a micro meat. They enjoy my jokes, idk where I’m fukking up outside of them not being able to manage their own emotional baggage. I feel confident in sex.

Where do I start? I’m not perfect but I have one decent full time job. At one point I was working two jobs but got burned out even though I told them ahead of time how to schedule me so I won’t be forced to quit due to burn out.

I’m trying to improve my health, diet and going to the gym regularly. Doing no fap just forces you to end up on tinder.

Right now I have a fwb who I fukk weekly and only talk to when I’m there. What is a nikka supposed to do besides get the bag?

 

[Ohene]

you meet a girl...and in your first text conversation she seems responsive for a few msgs
but then she ignores your message outta nowhere

what do you ? is there any surefire way to get around this shyt?

amazes me that this is still a question even at this age

usually i call them out but that only works like 10-20% of the time

 

[MikelArteta]

you meet a girl...and in your first text conversation she seems responsive for a few msgs
but then she ignores your message outta nowhere

what do you ? is there any surefire way to get around this shyt?

amazes me that this is still a question even at this age

usually i call them out but that only works like 10-20% of the time

nope none
I just chalk it up and move on

 

[VertigoKnight]

What else can it be? No homo I do not have a smeat nor a micro meat. They enjoy my jokes, idk where I’m fukking up outside of them not being able to manage their own emotional baggage. I feel confident in sex.

Where do I start? I’m not perfect but I have one decent full time job. At one point I was working two jobs but got burned out even though I told them ahead of time how to schedule me so I won’t be forced to quit due to burn out.

I’m trying to improve my health, diet and going to the gym regularly. Doing no fap just forces you to end up on tinder.

Right now I have a fwb who I fukk weekly and only talk to when I’m there. What is a nikka supposed to do besides get the bag?

If everything else is going well enough. it sounds like your self sabotaging and overthinking then.

 

[Volt]

Tinder fukking sucks.

In my city, it's like their entire personality is to go to a beach, take a photo of their fat ass ( ) then they add no bio and complain guys got no game.

 

[VertigoKnight]

you meet a girl...and in your first text conversation she seems responsive for a few msgs
but then she ignores your message outta nowhere

what do you ? is there any surefire way to get around this shyt?

amazes me that this is still a question even at this age

usually i call them out but that only works like 10-20% of the time

Not that I’ve found. Women change their mind out of the blue. Maybe someone else she was talking to grabbed her attention more.

I’d leave it there. maybe she’ll reach out again? If not you’ve saved yourself double or triple messaging her

 

[Rozay Oro]

If everything else is going well enough. it sounds like your self sabotaging and overthinking then.

I think these hoes just think they can do better due to delusionally thinking infinite dikks equals infinite suitors. I’m not God’s gift but I have overlooked certain flaws. So fukk them.

 

[MikelArteta]

anyone in here at the age of 35+ and still dating- do yall still crave for a family, longterm relationship etc?

people are getting cheated on, divorced, abused every day in relationships. Families breaking apart


Last month I went to Egypt, Greece, Germany, Denmark and England spent like 5,000
On Friday I went to NYC spent like 2000 just this weekend hotels food , flight etc.

I just bought a ps5 two weeks ago over 900 dollars and spent 500 on sony xm5 headphones

i still continue to help out my church and others

next month who knows where I'll go


i'm not even saying this to brag or whatever just that I have zero responsibilities in terms of other mouths to feed and clothes beside my own.



If I had a wife and kids no way I'd be able to do that

enjoy the life you have a woman can pop up out of anywhere