Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The True HD said:
can y'all tell when a woman has a situation going on or is unavailable?
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Yeah, when she doesn't text you back for hours or until the next day.....when she's literally always on her phone otherwise.

That's moreso a situation going on than a real relationship bc she clearly gave you her #.

But yeah when that's happening it's bc she's distracted by another dude.

"W-W-well she has a kid, maybe she just forgot to text me back...." Nope. At some point, she would think to look at her text to see if you hit her up.

Women aren't "complicated".. They just make situations complicated unnecessarily
 
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Straw Hat Luffy said:
I mean when you phrase the talking everyday part it makes sense.

But I don't see how we agreed to not smash others while we're currently hooking up signifies relationship status. It's safe if you ask me. She proposed the idea because she doesn't want to catch anything and I don't want to get check-ups at the clinic because she's smashing others. That part made hella sense to me.

But the other shyt could be seen as mixed signals I guess.

Didn't mean to make it that way lol. Like I said I just moved here to the big city and don't want to be in a relationship and I don't know anyone else around here so I would always socialize with her.

We're gonna have to make the terms clearer because I'm not planning on getting in one.

If not I'm just going to move on because now that I think about it she's probably waiting for me to cave in and ask her to make it official.
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Lol too late her feelings are there and I don’t you want to just come smash and not talk until the next session.
 
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jadillac said:
Yeah, when she doesn't text you back for hours or until the next day.....when she's literally always on her phone otherwise.

That's moreso a situation going on than a real relationship bc she clearly gave you her #.

But yeah when that's happening it's bc she's distracted by another dude.

"W-W-well she has a kid, maybe she just forgot to text me back...." Nope. At some point, she would think to look at her text to see if you hit her up.

Women aren't "complicated".. They just make situations complicated unnecessarily
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Talking before you even bag her but fasho, you can always peep the scene by her engagement, or lack thereof once you start getting to know her.
 
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Straw Hat Luffy said:
Met a girl on Hinge, and we talked every day for a month and a half before hanging out. We talked about our intentions, I told her mine first stating that I'm looking for nothing serious since I just moved to the area (aka friends with benefits). She said she would like to have a relationship but at the moment she's down for whatever because of the previous horrible experiences on Hinge. We also talk about how if we are going to hookup then we can't hookup with others.

Cool. I smash.

We continue to talk every day because we enjoy the convos. She brings up one of her sisters and some of her friends know about me now. She mentioned to me that in a few weeks they're throwing a party and that she wants me to come. I instantly turn it down.

I hang with her the day before the party and she brings it up again. I tell her no. She asks again and I tell her I don't have money to go out and spend like that. She says she will pay for the drinks and the uber rights. I tell her no again; she's getting whiny about it not taking the got damn hint.

I still smash that night anyways.

Day of the party she won't stop blowing up my phone telling me to come, that her sister's not taking no for an answer, etc. I ignore her all day because it's clear she's drunk.

The next day I address the situation by bringing up that we agreed to be fwb and meeting all those friends and her sister screams serious relationship vibes for me. I suggest that maybe we should end it.

She apologizes saying that she didn't think inviting me to something like that signaled it being serious. She also said we did agree on being Fwb but she also wants a long-term serious relationship one day. Which is not how it went with our agreement lol. We talked it out and I think we're still fwb but I stopped responding to her and haven't talked to her in a couple of days.

She's a nice girl so I'm not trying to dog her/do her bogus in any way. I'm trying to be clear about that as much as possible so I don't hurt her feelings. She's fun to hang out with and fun to talk to about anything but I've seen her family in photos and everything she's told me about them portrays them to be annoying AF. I've met her pets her cats and dog annoyed me LMAO. I don't know what it is man it's both aspects that are major CONS to me.

Sex was fire tho and I want to smash again because scouting and spitting game again to find another fwb seems like work.

Don't know what to do, she says we can remain fwb but I feel like she's going to pull something again later on if I continue to smash. Right?
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You talked for 1.5 months before hanging out? Wtf?
 
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africngiant said:
these hoes call dudes losers all day but will be broke as shyt themselves
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AStrangeName said:
It's projection at the end of the day, that's why you shouldn't care too much about their shyt talking, unless they say something outta pocket
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Be the same hoes with cashapps in they bio… like a fukking fiend with a sign in the middle of Downtown Traffic :mjlol:
 
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