This happened to me word for word exactly as you wrote it when I got divorced
I'll never forget a few weeks before I bounced, she was showing me something on her phone (an address or some shyt) and up came the notification of some dude DMing her to go out for drinks (notice it was a DM and not a text, but being a bird she had her notifications on for that rush).
I just looked at her like
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Yep that's how it goes. I've told this story before but I was dating this chick for like a year this was like 2009 and everything seemed to be going well. One day at her place I notice the photo of me and her which was usually beside her bed was no longer there. I asked her and she said oh I was just cleaning and forgot to put it back.
Literally a week later it was over and she was out cavorting with another dude, while i was at home heartbroken and ish and had nothing.
on froze. A woman leaving you for another man and acting like it’s the BEST thing to ever happen to her, how the new guy is so great and makes her happy, how she loves him. When literally a week, month, year she was claiming she loved you. That Revelation can be soul crushing.


