Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I fukked up brehs :snoop: but i was head over heels for this one chick, and let all the simp tendencies flow outta me. The disgusting part is I KNEW I WAS SIMPING AND DID NOT STOP MYSELF :smh: and in the end i got served that ether. :sadcam: so now not only am i hurt but i have made myself look like a fool in the process. Im totally to blame in this situation and have a lot of room for improvement

This is a safe place breh, drop the story :to:
 

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Expound on that if you will, for the unenlightened..
so many violations...

dude basically betrayed his "best friend" by taking his girl and then wifed the chick. Not only was he wrong but he should have known she wasn't shyt from the get-go. But you see how he was talking about how he admitted he had feelings for her just before he fukked. Dude was a simp (a crime we've all been guilty of at some point).

Forget about the above though for a sec. Dude said he was fukking her and when they got together, the sex stopped. Yet he stayed with her??

Then, dude said she wanted kids and he figured he'd use that as an opportunity to get laid :what:. Unless your girl is sick or extraordinary circumstances, when your own girl is not giving you any puss, that's a hint that you should leave. But dude still stayed. She saw his weakness (sex and emotions) and used both to manipulate him (deprived him of sex, threatened to commit suicide).

Also notice how dude doesn't take any responsibility for his failures. he puts it all on her being insane, her being evil, etc. This dude has no code or principles and look where it led him: owes money and could be put in jail over the money, can't see his kids AND barely got laid for 11 years...

Is the bytch evil/crazy? sure. but he enabled her though...at some point you gotta take responsibility for your own losses as well cause if not, he's bound to fall into the same traps in future encounters...

EDIT: it can't always be "these bytches are crazy/evil", "the laws are fukked up", etc.
 

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the one remaining question i have is

why do our mothers spew that treat women nice bullshyt? is it cause THEY got fukked over in life?

or they tryna set us up to lose?
 

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the one remaining question i have is

why do our mothers spew that treat women nice bullshyt? is it cause THEY got fukked over in life?

or they tryna set us up to lose?
even if your mother loves you, she's still a woman. One thing i've noticed about women is that when they give you relationship advice, they won't give you advice about what to do to achieve your purpose. they'll give you advice on what to do to make the girl feel good/happy. And they don't even do it maliciously. they just confuse the two because either they identify with the chick OR they just figure "if she gets what she wants and is happy, she'll reciprocate" :snoop:
 

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the one remaining question i have is

why do our mothers spew that treat women nice bullshyt? is it cause THEY got fukked over in life?

or they tryna set us up to lose?

even if your mother loves you, she's still a woman. One thing i've noticed about women is that when they give you relationship advice, they won't give you advice about what to do to achieve your purpose. they'll give you advice on what to do to make the girl feel good/happy. And they don't even do it maliciously. they just confuse the two because either they identify with the chick OR they just figure "if she gets what she wants and is happy, she'll reciprocate" :snoop:
Glad my momma told me these women ain't shyt and to fight back :ohlawd:

thank you momma :ohlawd:
 

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i know that now...the ones that are...are married. or if not married they're involved and out of the spotlight (i work with a girl like this)

all she does is go to work, stay home, and go to church when she's off on sundays.
 

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even if your mother loves you, she's still a woman. One thing i've noticed about women is that when they give you relationship advice, they won't give you advice about what to do to achieve your purpose. they'll give you advice on what to do to make the girl feel good/happy. And they don't even do it maliciously. they just confuse the two because either they identify with the chick OR they just figure "if she gets what she wants and is happy, she'll reciprocate" :snoop:

Real talk. Although my mother taught me to treat everyone with a basic level of decency/respect unless they have proven to be undeserving of such treatment, I have learned that you can treat other men with this level of decency in general but you absolutely cannot treat women the same way because they view this as weakness and will attempt to come at you fukked up, which irritates the fukk out of me. In addition, I have noticed that women are very respectful of men who do not treat them with basic decency/respect. And yet women have the nerve the question why some dudes have decided to start treating them with no decency.

So my mindset as it pertains to women is this:
Treat a woman with decency= she will not respect you
Treat a woman with no decency= she will respect you to the fullest
 

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sometimes its better to just sit back and enjoy yourself, there are great women out there but i think just sitting back living your life and if you happen to find one great if not :barney:

the thing all of us need to realize imo is that there are tons and tons and tons of women out there, doesnt matter what age you are, so if your having issues one is stressing you out dont et the sex control you, dont let the emotion called love control you.

throughout my life ive canoodled and cavorted with many women , different height, weight, race, economic background, differnet heritage
 
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