Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MAKAVELI25]

Real talk. Although my mother taught me to treat everyone with a basic level of decency/respect unless they have proven to be undeserving of such treatment, I have learned that you can treat other men with this level of decency in general but you absolutely cannot treat women the same way because they view this as weakness and will attempt to come at you fukked up, which irritates the fukk out of me. In addition, I have noticed that women are very respectful of men who do not treat them with basic decency/respect. And yet women have the nerve the question why some dudes have decided to start treating them with no decency.

So my mindset as it pertains to women is this:
Treat a woman with decency= she will not respect you
Treat a woman with no decency= she will respect you to the fullest

You guys are getting a little carried away

No woman who respects you cuz you treat her with no decency is a quality woman. Being a jackass for no reason will not get you good women, it will get you women will low self esteem. You should treat everyone with decency and respect, thats just basic courtesy, some of the advice in this thread is gonna get n*ggaz slapped

 

[Atlrocafella]

Real talk. Although my mother taught me to treat everyone with a basic level of decency/respect unless they have proven to be undeserving of such treatment, I have learned that you can treat other men with this level of decency in general but you absolutely cannot treat women the same way because they view this as weakness and will attempt to come at you fukked up, which irritates the fukk out of me. In addition, I have noticed that women are very respectful of men who do not treat them with basic decency/respect. And yet women have the nerve the question why some dudes have decided to start treating them with no decency.

So my mindset as it pertains to women is this:
Treat a woman with decency= she will not respect you
Treat a woman with no decency= she will respect you to the fullest

You shouldn't look at it this way.

Respect yourself first. Once you respect yourself, your actions will follow suit, and women will have no choice but to respect you from that point.

Respecting yourself is realizing that you won't tolerate certain things from women, a woman will see what you don't tolerate and will react in 2 ways, either she fukks with it or she doesn't.

You can treat women with respect and not be a simp at the same time.

 

[kevm3]

I won't say you have to be disrespectful as much as you have to not sweat a woman, show weakness around them and let them take advantage of you. But as far as having to be some rude, snide remark making dude who is just smashing their low self-esteem, truthfully, SOME women do respond to that, but there are enough that don't that I'm not going to even think about changing my personality to get the attention of those women that need that bad treatment.

 

[Jason B]

I value myself highly to the point where I am quick to shut down bullshyt. However in regards to dealing with women, I feel the way I do because it seems that the minute that you treat a woman with some decency, she will try to come at you like a sucka for doing so even when you have not engaged in sucka behavior and I find that shyt to be very offensive. That is why I say that disrespecting women seems to be an effective way to ensure that women will respect you as a man.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I value myself highly to the point where I am quick to shut down bullshyt. However in regards to dealing with women, I feel the way I do because it seems that the minute that you treat a woman with some decency, she will try to come at you like a sucka for doing so even when you have not engaged in sucka behavior and I find that shyt to be very offensive. That is why I say that disrespecting women seems to be an effective way to ensure that women will respect you as a man.

Slow down. Don't disrespect the wrong female and get yourself killed out here. Them Lorena Bobbit type chicks ain't ordinary, bruh

 

[MAKAVELI25]

@Jason B



The woman below is Jodia Arias. Read more about what she did if you don't know who she is

 

[MikelArteta]

i dont need to disrespect women, if shes not bringing what i want i just walk away, i think thats the strongest thing as aman you can have no matter how hot she is etc. if she disrespects just walk away.

im quiet and introverted and i avoid confrontation and hate drama, chicks have tried getting me mad jealous pushing my buttons i just keep my non chalant attitude and say nothing even though i may be burning inside and just cut them out of my life.

 

[Oye]

never taught about doing this

You really should most of the women I talk to tell me they will show me around. Here are some of the women I talk to from Tagged on Skype & Whatsapp.

Spoiler

If you asked me what my ideal woman looked like this would be it

Not that far off from ideal

I've posted this one before we've been talking for months now. She wants to be my personal tour guide when I'm in her country.

I speak Spanish which helps but my Portuguese is sketchy.




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[Atlrocafella]

It's do or die today brehs, I'm gonna see what's up with this chick I've been eyein for a few weeks, not worried about rejection, it is what it is

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

It's do or die today brehs, I'm gonna see what's up with this chick I've been eyein for a few weeks, not worried about rejection, it is what it is

GO HARD or GO HOME.......what's the worst that byatch could say to you??

NO ...i'm not interested

it's cool...it's not like she gonna slaughter you mortal combat style ...

also you always seem like a productive got your shyt together type of dude

you can always say in the immortal words of Shawty Lo...

"b1tch I got money anyway.................i'd rather LOSE A LOVER

then to LOVE A LOSER"....

her loss is your gain.....

we place to much values on these hoes.....most of them BROKE...INSECURE...DUMB AS FUKK....AND LACK DIRECTION...

ain't good for nothing but fukking

these AIN'T NO BAD BYATCHES..just a BUNCH OF BYATCHES DOING BAD

" if a broad ain't a car, a job , a home she's useless........."- Common

 

[Atlrocafella]

GO HARD or GO HOME.......what's the worst that byatch could say to you??

NO ...i'm not interested

it's cool...it's not like she gonna slaughter you mortal combat style ...

also you always seem like a productive got your shyt together type of dude

you can always say in the immortal words of Shawty Lo...

"b1tch I got money anyway.................i'd rather LOSE A LOVER

then to LOVE A LOSER"....

her loss is your gain.....

we place to much values on these hoes.....most of them BROKE...INSECURE...DUMB AS FUKK....AND LACK DIRECTION...

ain't good for nothing but fukking

these AIN'T NO BAD BYATCHES..just a BUNCH OF BYATCHES DOING BAD

" if a broad ain't a car, a job , a home she's useless........."- Common

 

[Turbulent]

GO HARD or GO HOME.......what's the worst that byatch could say to you??

NO ...i'm not interested

it's cool...it's not like she gonna slaughter you mortal combat style ...

also you always seem like a productive got your shyt together type of dude

you can always say in the immortal words of Shawty Lo...

"b1tch I got money anyway.................i'd rather LOSE A LOVER

then to LOVE A LOSER"....

her loss is your gain.....

we place to much values on these hoes.....most of them BROKE...INSECURE...DUMB AS FUKK....AND LACK DIRECTION...

ain't good for nothing but fukking

these AIN'T NO BAD BYATCHES..just a BUNCH OF BYATCHES DOING BAD

" if a broad ain't a car, a job , a home she's useless........."- Common

chuch'

they might hate cause you say it in a brash way but it's nothing but truth. They walk around like their shyt doesn't stink like they are celebs. And like idiots we fall into their hype. But spend a few days talking to them and you realize how lost some of them are. They don't even know why they want what they want, no idea where they are going, they constantly wonder if what they are doing is cool/appropriate/nice and it's almost like they need confirmation from the outside that what they are doing is ok. almost like they are scared they'll get in trouble. IOW, a lot of them need a man to put a seal of approval on their actions cause if they don't have that, it makes them anxious. This is not all women but it is a lot of them. Heck it's becoming more and more men as well.

and that's not even talking about their other flaws that you mentioned. And yeah, guys are flawed too. but we don't act as entitled as them in general. In the "courting" stage, they offer sex and nothing else. But i take that power away from them (meaning i show them i'd like to fukk but if i don't it's no big deal) now what other power does she have over me? how else can she keep my attention? Some of them do have more to offer and when you find one, recognize and treat accordingly. but most of them are just messes. lipstick on a pig. and still act like they are prizes. treat accordingly as well. Most of them are LOSERS. They don't know how to find happiness on their own. They need someone to make it happen for them and they're buying it with sex. Eventually the dude wises up and charges more than sex for what he offers.

 

[AffordableSuplexReviews]

Rejection > regret. Rejection > regret. Rejection > regret.

I need to embed this into my mind, man. Yeah, rejection sucks, but mulling over the "what if?" scenario might be a shyttier feeling.

At a buffet with some of my boys yesterday. Two favorable looking women show up. They sit at a table that's close to ours. I'm thinking that these gals already chose. They had on "choosing" attire

Me and one of my boys are standing next to some food when the two chicks walk past us towards the exit. We don't say anything. We've got the "damn! let em get away" swag going on. But these broads stop in the lobby. Second chance, we have a chance to just see where their heads are at, nothing too harmful.

We still don't go after them

I'm sitting here worried that these bourgeois gals might turn us down because we're rocking slides and shorts but that shyt is all trivial. Started thinking about the dynamics of the situation and it felt like a favorable setup for us. Will never know now because I didn't even attempt to pursue it.

Don't be passive, brehs.

 

[MikelArteta]

Rejection > regret. Rejection > regret. Rejection > regret.

I need to embed this into my mind, man. Yeah, rejection sucks, but mulling over the "what if?" scenario might be a shyttier feeling.

At a buffet with some of my boys yesterday. Two favorable looking women show up. They sit at a table that's close to ours. I'm thinking that these gals already chose. They had on "choosing" attire

Me and one of my boys are standing next to some food when the two chicks walk past us towards the exit. We don't say anything. We've got the "damn! let em get away" swag going on. But these broads stop in the lobby. Second chance, we have a chance to just see where their heads are at, nothing too harmful.

We still don't go after them

I'm sitting here worried that these bourgeois gals might turn us down because we're rocking slides and shorts but that shyt is all trivial. Started thinking about the dynamics of the situation and it felt like a favorable setup for us. Will never know now because I didn't even attempt to pursue it.

Don't be passive, brehs.

Yup
I still think about the chicks that dropped hints but I never went fully in years ago

Here's a story from the archives of reincar

I saw this chick every day at this coffee shop always looking at me dropping hints I never said anything, well she moved or something and I never saw her for like 6 months then one day I'm at Walmart at like 4am near Christmas only like 3 people in the store and she's one of them again I said nothing .

Iast time I was on pof I saw her on there as well didn't even say anything again lol

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[Jason B]

I understand where some of you guys coming from. It is just that I absolutely do not like for anyone to try to take advantage of my generally respectful disposition, which is extremely disrespectful. Women in general are far more guilty of doing this type of shyt than men. So again to clarify, I can treat another man with a little bit of general respect like I always have, but I can no longer treat any woman (even a so-called good girl) with that same level of respect because she will see it as weakness.