Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

At work. Don’t. At the gym. Don’t unless she makes it obvious she choosing.

You dont have to wait for the shorty to choose but youre best catching them on the way out or if its a quiet day, once they finish their set and are a bit isolated

Ive done it plenty of times

 

[skyrunner1]

Gave her too much attention and now she’s falling back.

What she don’t know is that I want her to fall back

Classic "Pump and let them Dump" strategy

 

[Brandsdale]

At work. Don’t. At the gym. Don’t unless she makes it obvious she choosing.

not even if she work on a different floor?





in regards to the gym, I dont think i be getting noticed like that so theres gotta be a more straight forward way

 

[Rasille]

This is sad in a way that we can’t give too much attention to a woman you like or else it’ll turn them off. It is what it is though

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

You dont have to wait for the shorty to choose but youre best catching them on the way out or if its a quiet day, once they finish their set and are a bit isolated

Ive done it plenty of times

I feel that. I’ve done the shoot my shot at the gym and usually it never ends well. Plus I should be focusing on my training. The gym is my escape.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

not even if she work on a different floor?





in regards to the gym, I dont think i be getting noticed like that so theres gotta be a more straight forward way

Like brehs said already, either catch ‘em leaving or coming into the gym. I don’t approach while they’re actively involved in a workout or have headphones in.

If I do approach I usually ask their name and how long they’ve been working out, what got them into working out. Usually that opens the conversation cause they LOVE talking about their journey. But I NEVER get contact info on first meeting. I wait until I see em once or twice after the initial interaction to close Just gotta find what works for you. But again, I’m of the don’t shoot shots in the gym cause women talk and I’ve seen shyt go south FAST. I’d rather approach in places that I don’t consider “home turf” for lack of a better term.

And no. Never at work

 

[Ohene]

Like brehs said already, either catch ‘em leaving or coming into the gym. I don’t approach while they’re actively involved in a workout or have headphones in.

If I do approach I usually ask their name and how long they’ve been working out, what got them into working out. Usually that opens the conversation cause they LOVE talking about their journey. But I NEVER get contact info on first meeting. I wait until I see em once or twice after the initial interaction to close Just gotta find what works for you. But again, I’m of the don’t shoot shots in the gym cause women talk and I’ve seen shyt go south FAST. I’d rather approach in places that I don’t consider “home turf” for lack of a better term.

And no. Never at work

Yea doing it in the ggym is tough because women get very self conscious giving their number out in places where many people can see.

 

[KeysT]

Met a woman she was a solid 9. 26, in shape, nice smile nice body. All over me. 25 min in she says “ nikka please”. I said “don’t refer to me as that. Just call me by my name” in a light hearted playful way.

She was like “ you don’t say the n word? Why?” I said “to be honest I think it’s a trashy thing to say as a black person to each other.” She replied “but we flipped it”. I was like “ nah, I don’t think so”. I think she got turned off by the trashy reference.

That woman’s energy changed and 15 min later we both left. She gave me a hug and took off in her car. When she first greeted me she hugged and kissed me on the cheek. Think I may have fumbled a solid 9 over the n word. Lol

Stick to your morals Breh. I literally have stopped talking to women before for cursing too much/ being too loud/ saying the N word on the first date. If that’s her best foot forward it will only get worse.

 

[bigde09]

This is sad in a way that we can’t give too much attention to a woman you like or else it’ll turn them off. It is what it is though

You have to use their nature against them.

Shyt becomes easy once you learn how to

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

This is sad in a way that we can’t give too much attention to a woman you like or else it’ll turn them off. It is what it is though

A lot of this stuff should come organically to you. If you have meaningful goals and pursuits in your life, you won't have the time to shower any one person with your attention.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yeah, I have my third date with the Korean chick I met on tinder on Thursday.

And I had to catch myself from too much small talk texting.

Didn't want to get too chatty patty with her. I like her energy and I like her prompt replies. But just told her I look forward to seeing her Thursday evening and left it there. She told me she can't wait to see me.

That's really all I needed to hear.

 

[The ADD]

Yeah, I have my third date with the Korean chick I met on tinder on Thursday.

And I had to catch myself from too much small text talk.

Didn't want to get too chatty patty with her. I like her energy and I like her prompt replies. But just told her I look forward to seeing her Thursday evening and left it there. She told me she can't wait to see me.

That's really all I needed to hear.

Already slept with her?

 

[Wargames]

Brehs is Tinder worth paying for? I mean does it improve your experience with the app and the algorithm overall, or does it just give you more swipes? I’m about to do some traveling too and wonder can the app help me pipeline some women for dates before I arrive.

 

[Rasille]

If a woman you lost contact with hit you up like this. Would this make you respond to her how she wants?

 

[Wargames]

If a woman you lost contact with hit you up like this. Would this make you respond to her how she wants?

What she wants in the short term is for you to respond. What she wants beyond that will come up later. If I wanted some easy to get sex I would respond.

On the low this is a technique men can use to hit up old lovers and I have used it to varying success myself. I’m about to use it again myself once the holidays are over and we get that sweet time between Christmas and Valentines days when women just want to stay in and fukk.

The only caveat is the connection of sex to it. Even in the video she kind of implies it. I don’t think this technique would work with a “text buddy” or someone else you haven’t been intimate with because what is there to miss? Her approach is based on setting a man up to want to fukk her again. Listen to what she says about “pleasing” and “feel good” she is talking about fukking. So if you fukked a woman well you can do it too and if she is in need of dikk she’ll respond.