Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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This is exactly why you don't wife up club rats and hoes. Ma was at the club with her 'homegirl' and they went home with two guys and she ended up having sex with 2 strangers that night. I guess she 'regretted it' later and had her boyfriend beat up the guy she willingly hooked up with by telling him he raped her. Then she went to file false rape charges on this guy. Thank God for technology eh? Guy got off because he recorded the encounter. This also serves as a warning to guys on the other side of the equation who are doing the pick-up thing. You see how easily a situation can flip? Although the percentage may not be high, if you DO get caught up in a situation like this, it will throw your life in a ringer. Be careful out there.
shyt like this genuinely makes me angry. Women need to have more repurcussions for this kind of bullshyt
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It really is sickening how women could be such cowards......and even worse they always try to JUSTIFY IT
why falsely get some dude's hopes up?
It really is sickening how women could be such cowards......and even worse they always try to JUSTIFY IT
why falsely get some dude's hopes up?lol that negro is straight simping. Funny how she was busy for the flower bringer, but rushed out with shaq... but she was acting like she was all down to go out with him. "OH I'd LOVE to go out with you." He calls later, "Well, I'm busy... sorry, can we reschedule?" That same day, millionaire man calls and it's, "I'll be ready in 5 minutes!"
That's why we say if these broads do that flaking, you better keep it pushing. After she gets hit and quit by Shaq and a few other rich stars and gets to complaining about how men are dogs, then maybe she'll spend a little time with the average joes.
That's why we say if these broads do that flaking, you better keep it pushing. After she gets hit and quit by Shaq and a few other rich stars and gets to complaining about how men are dogs, then maybe she'll spend a little time with the average joes.
exactly. that's what i meant by "the will smith factor". meaning when a chick flakes or says she's too busy or whatever and you get that weird feeling like something isn't right, always ask yourself "would she have been too busy for ______(insert popular celeb here)?"
Pretty much man. They'll always be around. That's why I'm much more focused on broadening my skillset instead of worrying about what women are doing. They'll be there.
The hardest thing to fight when it comes to chasing women is boredom. Believe me brehs I've been there. You know that you have no business texting a chick, or calling, or trying to make plans because you already put yabid in...but theres nothing on TV, the coli is having an offday, your friends have no motives and youre just bored as hell at home running through your phone.
"Hmmm, I havent spoke to X in a while. Let me say whats up? Nah I really shouldnt..."
But then like a fool you talk yourself into it on some, "fukk it...if she doesnt reply then fukk her. What i got to lose anyways?"
And then you regret it an hour later when you see no reply
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Sometimes you have to look at what youre doing when it comes to actions related to women and think. USE YOUR BRAIN AND THINK.
The reason i'm saying all this is that whether you believe it or not...a girl WILL hit you up if she is interested. I'm not even talking about sending a text saying "Hey" and then doing nothing to keep the convo going. I mean this girl is saying good morning to you, calling your phone unsolicitedly, trying to make plans and asking you when you'll be seeing each other. Don't demean yourself by making yourself so accessible and focusing your attention on her. In the words of @Turbulent, once you put your bid in...let them choose.
I know its been said but I just have a couple situations where this has come to light in both positive and negative ways lately. Figured I should reiterate it.
"Hmmm, I havent spoke to X in a while. Let me say whats up? Nah I really shouldnt..."
But then like a fool you talk yourself into it on some, "fukk it...if she doesnt reply then fukk her. What i got to lose anyways?"
And then you regret it an hour later when you see no reply
.Sometimes you have to look at what youre doing when it comes to actions related to women and think. USE YOUR BRAIN AND THINK.
The reason i'm saying all this is that whether you believe it or not...a girl WILL hit you up if she is interested. I'm not even talking about sending a text saying "Hey" and then doing nothing to keep the convo going. I mean this girl is saying good morning to you, calling your phone unsolicitedly, trying to make plans and asking you when you'll be seeing each other. Don't demean yourself by making yourself so accessible and focusing your attention on her. In the words of @Turbulent, once you put your bid in...let them choose.
I know its been said but I just have a couple situations where this has come to light in both positive and negative ways lately. Figured I should reiterate it.
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DeuceZ
Li pitit gason
The hardest thing to fight when it comes to chasing women is boredom. Believe me brehs I've been there. You know that you have no business texting a chick, or calling, or trying to make plans because you already put yabid in...but theres nothing on TV, the coli is having an offday, your friends have no motives and youre just bored as hell at home running through your phone.
"Hmmm, I havent spoke to X in a while. Let me say whats up? Nah I really shouldnt..."
But then like a fool you talk yourself into it on some, "fukk it...if she doesnt reply then fukk her. What i got to lose anyways?"
And then you regret it an hour later when you see no reply
Sometimes you have to look at what youre doing when it comes to actions related to women and think. USE YOUR BRAIN AND THINK.
The reason i'm saying all this is that whether you believe it or not...a girl WILL hit you up if she is interested. I'm not even talking about sending a text saying "Hey" and then doing nothing to keep the convo going. I mean this girl is saying good morning to you, calling your phone unsolicitedly, trying to make plans and asking you when you'll be seeing each other. Don't demean yourself by making yourself so accessible and focusing your attention on her. In the words of @Turbulent, once you put your bid in...let them choose.
I know its been said but I just have a couple situations where this has come to light in both positive and negative ways lately. Figured I should reiterate it.
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The hardest thing to fight when it comes to chasing women is boredom. Believe me brehs I've been there. You know that you have no business texting a chick, or calling, or trying to make plans because you already put yabid in...but theres nothing on TV, the coli is having an offday, your friends have no motives and youre just bored as hell at home running through your phone.
"Hmmm, I havent spoke to X in a while. Let me say whats up? Nah I really shouldnt..."
But then like a fool you talk yourself into it on some, "fukk it...if she doesnt reply then fukk her. What i got to lose anyways?"
And then you regret it an hour later when you see no reply
Sometimes you have to look at what youre doing when it comes to actions related to women and think. USE YOUR BRAIN AND THINK.
The reason i'm saying all this is that whether you believe it or not...a girl WILL hit you up if she is interested. I'm not even talking about sending a text saying "Hey" and then doing nothing to keep the convo going. I mean this girl is saying good morning to you, calling your phone unsolicitedly, trying to make plans and asking you when you'll be seeing each other. Don't demean yourself by making yourself so accessible and focusing your attention on her. In the words of @Turbulent, once you put your bid in...let them choose.
I know its been said but I just have a couple situations where this has come to light in both positive and negative ways lately. Figured I should reiterate it.
i honestly just delete numbers once i find out theyre not interested
works like a charm so even if im tempted i cant. though i probably dont need to anymore since i have more self control now, and i get that random text from them a month later "how ya been havent seen ya in awhile" and just delete and ignore it
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i honestly just delete numbers once i find out theyre not interested
Sometimes it isnt even about them not being interested though fam. Sometimes you can be a little bit too zealous and if the girl is immature she'll look at it as "thirst" and then youre lowered on the depth chart. This happened with me recently after bagging a Nigerian chick that I menttioned in this thread earlier.
My girlfriend and I broke up cause she switched schools so I was getting back in the game. I bagged like 4 chicks in one week. This one right here was feeling me ...good ass conversations and such but then one conversation I kept it a little too real (discussing why I dont club). After that I think she thought I was too serious..maybe figured I might be boring so she wasnt giving me as much play. I got frustrated and addressed it...
and got put in the bushes. The thing that sucks was literally 2 days after I bagged it she moved to Calgary just for the summer. Like a fool my roster was depleted so during rebuilding process and got a little too thirsty with it (in the eyes of a female). I had nobody to talk to and what not so I'd be texting this girl like once or twice a week when I KNEW I would be better off not contacting her til she hollaed after the initial couple convos. I knew better...but them friday nights had me bored as fukk.
haha I even deleted the number but my memory is kinda photographic so I memorize peoples numbers with once glance really. Cause lord knows if she was still in my hometown and we linked up in person she woulda been on my dikk. It never fails.
CrossBones
Louder than words
its true, and a lot of times when we rush or try too hard to get with these women, we end up with a lot that we didnt even want to deal with. and thats just extra on our plate. we're not even moving 100 in our own lives and got our shyt together, and we're trying to force all this relationship shyt and whatever into our lives.
with women, a lot of times they revolve their entire lives around men and what they can get from them. they dont want to have periods in their lives when theyre without a man, or not looking for one. for some reason, a lot of females cant live like that. men are what makes their world go round. their children, careers, or goals in life dont really ever get their full attention, and instead, they look for a man to bring that meaning and true stability in their lives.
men fall in this trap too when dealing with women, and in turn feel like they need to have a women in their lives, at ALL times. or theyre less of a man or slacking on their pimpin or whatever. what I believe that mindframe does, is it makes a relationship more of a personal crutch for a person. they cant function or walk on their own two. not without feeling some sort of way about it. a lot of folks cant live without having someone carry them, be by them, and hold their hand along the way. instead of being able to stand on your own two, and your partner being the same, a relationship turns into one side trying to save the other one .... from their own selves.
youre there only to stop her boredom,
give her a child, 
buy her things and take her out, 
make her feel "wanted" 
commit to her before she gets too old 
etcthose can all be someone's very short termed and not well though out problems, and they become your problem too when you hook up with someone like that. your woman might be highly self absorbed, and looking for you to give her what she thinks shes missing in her own life and goals. people get pressured into doing all of these things for their S/O just because their female has some kind of issue within herself or she cant find out what they really wants to be doing.
when you start to notice how important, and how much a relationship validates people, you begin to see what the problem is.
how many women (or men) get heartbroken, and most noticably starts talking about how bad they feel because "no one wants me" or "now Im all alone"
no one wants to walk their road and find their path, so theyre quick to ride alone with someone else, regardless of where theyre going, or how theyre going about it. emotional needs, and sexual needs only push that feeling further and make us jump into serious long term relationships with people who arent necessarily suited for us.
plenty of single parent mothers and older women are finding themselves lonely and NEEDING a man, because they cant stand to be alone, or to do their own thing and live off the consequences of their choices. they have no life, and no real self worth unless someone else gives them time and affection. its women like that who end up, literally, going nowhere. its like you said. if someone doesnt have their own goals and are going about them, their value is mostly placed on who theyre attached to and seeing
if people learned to gain personal stability and growth on their own first, then theyd be more ready to find someone who matches them on different levels. when we rush to find a fit for us, and we feel like we "need" to have someone just because, thats when we chose poorly and rush our decisions.
plus, if these hoes go off and disappear, every year theres a new batch of 18 year olds being made. and in turn, more women who are just around your age are coming up. more fish in the sea. dont get stuck on a few that didnt work out. women are always coming and going. so yeah, these hoes really arent going anywhere. the only thing that should be moving is you towards your goals
Sometimes it isnt even about them not being interested though fam. Sometimes you can be a little bit too zealous and if the girl is immature she'll look at it as "thirst" and then youre lowered on the depth chart. This happened with me recently after bagging a Nigerian chick that I menttioned in this thread earlier.
My girlfriend and I broke up cause she switched schools so I was getting back in the game. I bagged like 4 chicks in one week. This one right here was feeling me ...good ass conversations and such but then one conversation I kept it a little too real (discussing why I dont club). After that I think she thought I was too serious..maybe figured I might be boring so she wasnt giving me as much play. I got frustrated and addressed it...
The thing that sucks was literally 2 days after I bagged it she moved to Calgary just for the summer. Like a fool my roster was depleted so during rebuilding process and got a little too thirsty with it (in the eyes of a female). I had nobody to talk to and what not so I'd be texting this girl like once or twice a week when I KNEW I would be better off not contacting her til she hollaed after the initial couple convos. I knew better...but them friday nights had me bored as fukk.
Cause lord knows if she was still in my hometown and we linked up in person she woulda been on my dikk. It never fails.
As a man I notice the less you say in the beginning telhe better off you will be
I've been there breh no options texting a chick you know your texting to much etc
Getting back them ks and lol
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