Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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VertigoKnight said:
Damn, very similar to one of my friends. its in reverse though.

Guy she met in NY a few months back, they got together and hit it off. In her mind it's a holiday fling that got a little deeper. She gets back, they carry on chatting but he keeps trying to push this long distance thing, she's not up for that.

December arrives and he has some holiday to take and so he suggests he comes to Vancouver. First time he'd ever left the US.

I've met the guy twice, his cool. But things are intense with them, they obviously pick up where they left off. And after a few days he starts pushing hard for that long distance relationship again. As he feels their lovey dovey.

She shuts it all the way down and tells him she likes him deeply but a long distance anything is not what she is looking for. His obviously upset. His flown over here for 2 weeks, and was hoping to close the deal.

But she's right, she's in Vancouver and his in New Jersey. How is that good for either of them? She told me she loves him but is not in love with him.

That's not the first time I've heard that phrase this year from women talking about guys they're seeing. When you're in love with somebody that's when you make the wildest decisions.
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She’s doing him a favor
 
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VertigoKnight said:
Oh for sure. She setout what the rules of engagement were from the off. But his wanting more.

I've always said this about my friend. She will tell a guy what he often doesn't want to hear early so their can be no doubts.
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And that girl did the same thing tbh. So I can’t be mad at that. I didn’t even push for a relationship. I was happy with how things are and never mentioned it. But she knew the longer and more we did this, the more attached we’d be. Even if nothing was said from me. It sucks because she somewhat gives me more than a girlfriend would. Honestly, if I had a best friend, she could be it. But how can we be friends while we both know we want each other. I’m always gon be scheming lol. She says she still wants to talk to me everyday and get to know me better. But as friends. She called me saying she doesn’t wanna lose me and that we can make this work but man. I could for a couple weeks. But as things go on, I’mma really want her.
 
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She said I'm impatient and treat her like a prostitute.. it is what it is brehs. I hit her with the "love and respect 🙏" onto better things in 2023. These girls gonna see it how they wanna see it. If i gotta be the villian then I may as well be Heath Ledger in this bytch.

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I was gonna go out this New Years Eve…but something told me nah…just chill inside, play call of duty save ya bread.

There was a good 3 parties I could’ve hit and took a bytch home…but the cost for drinks, Ubering to the crib/telly…

…..Finna be off dating apps and partying for the next 5 months.

Need to center myself and get my bag up. IG, Tinder, all this shyt is a distraction.
 
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VertigoKnight said:
Never. Unless a chick whose disappeared messages me. I'll keep on keeping on.

I always get new chicks coming through. Wasting time on a chick whose not even bothered to reply in 11 months?

Could never be me.
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my shyt is dry. i just imagine the s3x. “she needs me,” as she’s texting some nfl rb off the practice team
 
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