Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

What you stating is FACTS. It was all fun n games type jokes in office but when you see the bank statements and verify that shyt is eyeopening, like hold on. Especially when the chick isnt that attractive and wouldnt turn heads ANYWHERE nevertheless south florida. In an office with tons of smoking hot "real estate professional" from backgrounds where they made ehh money off their looks (pageants, fins/um/fiu cheerleaders, heat dancers, dancers, bartenders, models, etc) in the past, its not a lot of mental gymnastics needed to support something like that. Im seeing it in real time. Not that long ago, wanting to be a heat dancer used to be a "thing", I never hear it bought up anymore, lmaoo.

As far as stripper culture bleeding mainstream, thats true and we are seeing it now more than ever. Whats funny is I mentioned before somewhere on here, I got a friend who danced shortwhile, opened like 4 pole studios and was doing well for self. Then pandemic hit, studios closed, but got on pvalley tv show as stunt double, summer walker rents out studio and tags her social media and it blows up, since studios closed at time she start selling poles out of garage, she moving weight soooo fast gets a warehouse and started make Ms. CRAZY. Social media is a whole new ball game.

There were some women in these spaces with Note pads but KS was talking DIRECTLY to them with the gameplan written out to be chameleons, lol. He took the rp talking points and polished them up for masses. Most women rejected it but ALOT took it in also, I had more women in real world mention him to me as helping them "level up" than dudes

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Yup. Don't expect to get that level of support from the women in your life. They look to you for strength, stability and support, whether they are willing to admit it or not. I'm not saying don't cry if ya mama dies, but don't fall for the trick of sharing your deepest fears and insecurities with women.

Women will invite you to share these things just to gather information. What real benefit do they get from knowing your vulnerabilities?

Vulnerability is playing emotional Russian Roulette. When you lose the mystery, she loses interests.

It's like a game of chess don't lay all your cards on the table. Feed em bits from time to time.

Get the woman to open up herself,, Women love to talk! Ask her questions about her past, type of men she dealt with, her toxic traits and move accordingly. Even with my female friends or family members, I don't disclose 0-100. I remain a puzzle piece you trying to solve.

Let the actions do the talking. The more you talk, the more you jump yourself out of an opportunity.

 

[RealCrownHeights]

tbh i see both sides

on one hand, when i was younger - because i didnt know how good I would eventually become at getting women I woulda been fine with my first girlfriend til death did us part. we were child hood friends, both Ghanaian, families knew eachother, strong bond and she was sexy

but who is to say I wouldnt have still gotten older, travelled, seen there were even more sexier women (of many different races) and got tempted or curious.

i say this to say there is no cheat code or blueprint. it comes down to a person / couple - their own values and how they align/change over time. wanting to have sex and meet women is natural. the urge will not increase or decrease regardless of what you choose. do you jerk off pause

Are you still dating and wanting to get married?

I don’t think the urge will go away either. This is the longest I’ve gone with light jerking off because my girl and girls in the past said I take too long to cum. And I just wanted to quit but that’s another thing. No jerking off pause and no sex till marriage. Mf’r gotta have the resolve and will power of John Henry

 

[Ohene]

Are you still dating and wanting to get married?

I don’t think the urge will go away either. This is the longest I’ve gone with light jerking off because my girl and girls in the past said I take too long to cum. And I just wanted to quit but that’s another thing. No jerking off pause and no sex till marriage. Mf’r gotta have the resolve and will power of John Henry

I did my thing in my 20s/
Now 31 and i live with my girl

Not sure fully marriage is for me anymore lol. The reason is I dont believe in divorce but I find most women too fickle, unreliable and crazy to trust in a relationship for 50 years

I’m like 65% for marriage, 35% against it. If i meet the right person which i think I have , I’ll give it one shot. If i don’t I won’t force it like some ppl do

 

[Action Mike]

Getting crazy matches on hinge, yeah valentines day coming up

 

[Ahadi]

Getting crazy matches on hinge, yeah valentines day coming up

“Final Sale”



Then back to “full price”

 

[The ADD]

Nobody. That’s just the only model I have around me for a successful marriage and kids. Especially my age

Only model around you but not the only model……

 

[RealCrownHeights]

I did my thing in my 20s/
Now 31 and i live with my girl

Not sure fully marriage is for me anymore lol. The reason is I dont believe in divorce but I find most women too fickle, unreliable and crazy to trust in a relationship for 50 years

I’m like 65% for marriage, 35% against it. If i meet the right person which i think I have , I’ll give it one shot. If i don’t I won’t force it like some ppl do

Does your girl feel feel the same way? Does she give you shyt about deadline and wanted to be married by a certain age etc?

 

[RealAssanova]

My boy messin wit a married chick…all from slidin in her dm’s. Got her husband and kid posted everywhere on the gram too.

I kno he ain’t shyt for that…
But these harlots man…

 

[The ADD]

My boy messin wit a married chick…all from slidin in her dm’s. Got her husband and kid posted everywhere on the gram too.

I kno he ain’t shyt for that…
But these harlots man…

Your boy taking that massive El

 

[Ohene]

Does your girl feel feel the same way? Does she give you shyt about deadline and wanted to be married by a certain age etc?

she would prefer to be married and have children eventually but it isnt a deal breaker (so she says - i dont fully believe that)
no deadline.

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

Your boy taking that massive El

Yup. Sounds like a dusty nikka

 

[Braman]

Got this lil joint at work that gets my cock hard and solid and I think she is feeling the kid. Yeah yeah.., I know the rules. Don’t eat…. But damn for a straight male, is nature to have and smash multiple women. But I just go home, jerk off and smash my wife thinking about shorty at work and move on.

Lol… Discipline. Sacrifice. I don’t know how nggas do it at least not before a certain age


If/when I get married it will 100% be a sign of quitting the whole game forreal. I’m not shaving anymore, lettin the hair go, like I dont even want to be “attractive” anymore… For what? can’t do shyt about it


But can’t do that bc work, and that (and downtown in general) is where all the baddies be plus I work out and all the temptation at the gym

Needless to say…the thought of marriage and monogamy is terrifying

 

[DaRealness]

"a lot of women's worse nightmare is the day men wake up and realise their worth"
She ain't lyin'.

 

[The ADD]