Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

I hope i dont get eaten up by the wolves but, being friendzoned with a chick you have no chance with is def not bad. Shorty got me a 24 pack of beers and shes doing me a cookout for graduating trucking school. Shes cool with me like i am with one of my nikkas. Not every chick you meet has to lead to a hookup, a one night stand. We is all human beings. Have girl-friends breh.

As long as you dont have secret feelings for her or have intentions to get at her from your friendzone section, its all good. If you do, delete her from your life breh, when she introduces you to the man boning her, or tells you problems with her man, its gonna kill you.

 

[MikelArteta]

I hope i dont get eaten up by the wolves but, being friendzoned with a chick you have no chance with is def not bad. Shorty got me a 24 pack of beers and shes doing me a cookout for graduating trucking school. Shes cool with me like i am with one of my nikkas. Not every chick you meet has to lead to a hookup, a one night stand. We is all human beings. Have girl-friends breh.

up to you breh.

theres a word for this and its called frog soup- a frog will sit in a pot while the water is slowly brought to a boil. Everything feels GREAT for a time until its too late to jump out of the pot and its too late.

and this is what many women do, you are the frog, they buy you beer, fatten your belly, call you, act like they care, then one day she goes cold, or you just check her facebook and shes in a relationship or something and that pit in your stomach.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Nothin crazy or simpish just tried to help one of my depressed ass female acquaintances yesterday, spent a few hours trying to calm her ass down about a bad day at work bc she seemed suicidal. bytch act like she didn't appreciate it.

How did you expect her to react?

 

[semtex]

How did you expect her to react?

a fukkin "thank you" and a better attitude would have sufficed.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I hope i dont get eaten up by the wolves but, being friendzoned with a chick you have no chance with is def not bad. Shorty got me a 24 pack of beers and shes doing me a cookout for graduating trucking school. Shes cool with me like i am with one of my nikkas. Not every chick you meet has to lead to a hookup, a one night stand. We is all human beings. Have girl-friends breh.

up to you breh.

theres a word for this and its called frog soup- a frog will sit in a pot while the water is slowly brought to a boil. Everything feels GREAT for a time until its too late to jump out of the pot and its too late.

and this is what many women do, you are the frog, they buy you beer, fatten your belly, call you, act like they care, then one day she goes cold, or you just check her facebook and shes in a relationship or something and that pit in your stomach.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

a fukkin "thank you" and a better attitude would have sufficed.

Isn't saving someone's life (I think you said this) a reward in itself? Never expect anyone to say thank you for anything, some people have courtesy, some don't. Just keep this situation in mind next time she needs someone to spill problems to

 

[Mofongo]

i feel u on that smiey. Its one hell of a analogy. But i have no interest in her, so i can hop in that pot of soup whenever i want
. Aint nothing wrong wit being a friend wit a female.

 

[Mofongo]

a fukkin "thank you" and a better attitude would have sufficed.

if u was doing it from ur heart, u wouldnt have gotten mad whenshe didnt say thank u. Dont do shyt to get stuff in return breh.

 

[Rich Spirit]

I hope i dont get eaten up by the wolves but, being friendzoned with a chick you have no chance with is def not bad. Shorty got me a 24 pack of beers and shes doing me a cookout for graduating trucking school. Shes cool with me like i am with one of my nikkas. Not every chick you meet has to lead to a hookup, a one night stand. We is all human beings. Have girl-friends breh.

As long as you're not doing any dumb favors for her

 

[TheArchitect]

I don't know about yaw, but once I came back from berlin I kind of just realized that I've got goals that I want to accomplish and that thinking about how to deal with girls isn't as important as I thought it was. Maybe because I had such a good time over there I'm determined to pass the TestDAF so I can study/live over there for free.

Ofc I did meet girls, one I'm still in contact with it loosely but being realistic about it I see it as nothing other than 2 people emailing, although she does want my address so she can send shyt or whatever. Kinda realized that you're really not going to find like true love until at least an old age so why do people try and convince themselves otherwise.

Also I'm reading this book in German called sommerlügen, it's a book filled with short stories about men who are used to living their lives alone with their own regiments and such and they meet women who have an impact on them. (I didn't know this, bought it in a small town because the book shop worker suggested it to me because the author is famous)

Would you mind dropping some info or pm'ing me about this?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Would you mind dropping some info or pm'ing me about this?

I can't because I don't enough about it myself. I need to get in touch with my German professor who suggested it to me for more info. Coincidentally I just made a thread about it before I saw your response.

 

[TheArchitect]

I can't because I don't enough about it myself. I need to get in touch with my German professor who suggested it to me for more info. Coincidentally I just made a thread about it before I saw your response.

Oh aight....

 

[Medio]

How would yall go about approaching hostesess. I go to this bar/restaurant and there is this pretty ass hostess that I want talk to, as you can imagine nikkas holla at her all the time left and right, so i'd like to stick out but may just use the introduce myself thing and see if she wants to go out, don't know.

I have approached plenty of women before but not a hostess working

 

[Rich Spirit]

How would yall go about approaching hostesess. I go to this bar/restaurant and there is this pretty ass hostess that I want talk to, as you can imagine nikkas holla at her all the time left and right, so i'd like to stick out but may just use the introduce myself thing and see if she wants to go out, don't know.

I have approached plenty of women before but not a hostess working

Keep it short and to the point that you want to talk to her, give her your # and instruct her to call you at a particular time

 

[kevm3]

I hope i dont get eaten up by the wolves but, being friendzoned with a chick you have no chance with is def not bad. Shorty got me a 24 pack of beers and shes doing me a cookout for graduating trucking school. Shes cool with me like i am with one of my nikkas. Not every chick you meet has to lead to a hookup, a one night stand. We is all human beings. Have girl-friends breh.

There's nothing wrong with that. If a woman isn't feeling you, then she isn't feeling you. No need to be angry or vindictive for her personal choice. There's nothing wrong with being cool with a woman. The 'friendzone' thing becomes a problem when she tries to turn you into a favor buddy or you start getting angry when you see her dealing with someone else after knowing she isn't feeling you. Bottom line is a woman doesn't owe you anything and you don't owe her anything, especially attraction, so if ya'll can be cool with being friends, then go ahead and do that.