Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

So interesting situation,

One of my FWB and I got into a slight disagreement. Gave her space - 2 days (a text here and there between the two days), she hit me back about “thanking me for space and letting me know when she lands (work trip)

So on IG, one of her family friends followed me (we’ve hung out as a group, strictly platonic)

Is she following me because she’s indirectly telling me something about the FWB? Does she know something I don’t?

It makes me think about linkedin, whenever one of your co-workers gets fired or leaves and they add you to keep in contact. Could this be the same?

 

[WIA20XX]

It makes me think about linkedin, whenever one of your co-workers gets fired or leaves and they add you to keep in contact. Could this be the same?

In the past, I made it a habit to collect contact info, and when things fall out, the friends/cousins/sister/co-workers are always open to smashing.

They've seen me up close, know how I move, like me, etc.

There's a whole lot of "I don't see any problems with this dude, that chick crazy"

 

[Ahadi]

In the past, I made it a habit to collect contact info, and when things fall out, the friends/cousins/sister/co-workers are always open to smashing.

They've seen me up close, know how I move, like me, etc.

There's a whole lot of "I don't see any problems with this dude, that chick crazy"

RIGHT.

This could be the same. But I’m surprised that ppl like that don’t honestly tell you what’s going on with the woman. I know it’s none of anyone’s business, but if I see someone being “allegedly” disrespected, and he’s a good dude I’m telling me.

One other thing, if she’s leaving for a trip, wouldn’t she want to see me before she leaves?

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

I went on a date yesterday morning (Sunday)

She seems like a great girl. She isn't the "sexy" type but she's kinda pretty. She's smart af, got her masters, teaches elementary school, lives in an affluent area in the DMV, and chill af

I feel like she was either nervous or self conscious during the date. She would look sad at times and gaze for a second with this look in her eyes. Can't explain it. I'd bring up positive things she mentioned before and she'd light up. Maybe anxiety idk


If she wants me, I'd be willing to go further. I'm not chasing her. She's actually someone I'd be friends with legitimately

She's a believer and she goes to church. Levelheaded. She reads. Got me hip to a local library imma definitely visit this summer. She just has her life in order. I need people like that in my life, romantic relationship or not

I'm not dating like that really. I'm on some meet women and see where it goes type of time. Vetting solid, genuine women and just going with the flow. It's way more peaceful that way

 

[WIA20XX]

One other thing, if she’s leaving for a trip, wouldn’t she want to see me before she leaves?

You'd think so right. And if she didn't, it's prolly cause she's finna be on some "hot girls summer" steez.

But you can't ever tell.

Had college girl into me way back. She was leaving, and didn't want to see me, because it hurt too much.

Trying to understand how females think and behave, it seems to be pointless, but we do it anyway.

 

[Fiji Water]

I went on a date yesterday morning (Sunday)

She seems like a great girl. She isn't the "sexy" type but she's kinda pretty. She's smart af, got her masters, teaches elementary school, lives in an affluent area in the DMV, and chill af

I feel like she was either nervous or self conscious during the date. She would look sad at times and gaze for a second with this look in her eyes. Can't explain it. I'd bring up positive things she mentioned before and she'd light up. Maybe anxiety idk


If she wants me, I'd be willing to go further. I'm not chasing her. She's actually someone I'd be friends with legitimately

She's a believer and she goes to church. Levelheaded. She reads. Got me hip to a local library imma definitely visit this summer. She just has her life in order. I need people like that in my life, romantic relationship or not

I'm not dating like that really. I'm on some meet women and see where it goes type of time. Vetting solid, genuine women and just going with the flow. It's way more peaceful that way

Be her friend, bro. Never know what might happen.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Be her friend, bro. Never know what might happen.

Networking through Hinge gang


There were a few sexy ass women on there that I networked wit already on LinkedIn. Strictly off the strength of black excellence and what we want to do in our careers for Black America

In 10 years imma be their references

 

[The ADD]

RIGHT.

This could be the same. But I’m surprised that ppl like that don’t honestly tell you what’s going on with the woman. I know it’s none of anyone’s business, but if I see someone being “allegedly” disrespected, and he’s a good dude I’m telling me.

One other thing, if she’s leaving for a trip, wouldn’t she want to see me before she leaves?

For a business trip, coming off a disagreement and y’all are just FWB……..

Doesn’t sound odd that she’s didn’t. One of her other FWB could have taken care of that

 

[Apollo Creed]

Damn, I ain't been in love/caught feelings in about 2 years

Good it means you’re not a weirdo
Wtf

 

[Apollo Creed]

The key to women is loving yourself. Looking out for your needs first. Instead of wondering how to find a good woman, become the best version of yourself

When you're confident and have your shyt together, good women flock to you

Game is game

Idk abouy “good woman” flocking

Most nikkas step their lives up and become a walking lick lol

 

[360dagod]

RIGHT.

This could be the same. But I’m surprised that ppl like that don’t honestly tell you what’s going on with the woman. I know it’s none of anyone’s business, but if I see someone being “allegedly” disrespected, and he’s a good dude I’m telling me.

One other thing, if she’s leaving for a trip, wouldn’t she want to see me before she leaves?

Detroit Spinners - Could It Be I'm Falling In Love . HD / Louis *Jukebox.Productions*

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Idk abouy “good woman” flocking

Most nikkas step their lives up and become a walking lick lol

That's why you gotta have self esteem and self respect

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's why you gotta have self esteem and self respect

You gotta know what your dealing with, and most
Men dont.

Being mentally healthy is what we should he doing regardless. Understanding women and their nature is a different ball game and as you see in this thread most men do not understand this even after everything posted.

When dudes find a chick they like they turn their brains off.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

You gotta know what your dealing with, and most
Men dont.

Being mentally healthy is what we should he doing regardless. Understanding women and their nature is a different ball game and as you see in this thread most men do not understand this even after everything posted.

When dudes find a chick they like they turn their brains off.

You gotta take those bumps early to really know women. It took me years. Started dating in 2016. Been on and off. Some of these women fukked my life up

This year has been by far the most successful. I'm in a great place in life and I'm looking in the right places for women. If it's not Hinge, it's meeting them in person by happenstance

Game can be told but you really gotta live through shyt before you know for sure. Female nature is human nature

Talking to these women like they're people and not idolizing them is easy when you put yourself first

At least it is for me. Inner work

 

[Apollo Creed]

You gotta take those bumps early to really know women. It took me years. Started dating in 2016. Been on and off. Some of these women fukked my life up

This year has been by far the most successful. I'm in a great place in life and I'm looking in the right places for women. If it's not Hinge, it's meeting them in person by happenstance

Game can be told but you really gotta live through shyt before you know for sure. Female nature is human nature

Talking to these women like they're people and not idolizing them is easy when you put yourself first

At least it is for me. Inner work

In the past usually dudes got their heart broke from an LTR, went on the self discovery journey, then came out better, focused, and understood women (that is the dudes who werent caught im the endless cycle of simping).

But now you have a new lane of dudes who get over prepared before even getting off the porch where they become socially awkward/hate women or self improve but still arent battled tested and become walking licks to chameleons (the chicks who say what dudes wanna hear to lure em in then bait and switch).

I will say the dating world is so jacked up now that young brehs cant even get battled tested anymore cause in HS chicks is serving themselves up via social media to the highest bidder now.