Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Brandsdale]

What y'all feel about this situation



The background on the situation if you don't know was there her boyfriend and baby father went into the comment section and posted this is not how a woman should act when you have a child. The internet disapproved of him and he deleted his account.

Personally I feel Keke's boyfriend was wrong for going to social media and making a comment instead of calling her. However he was not wrong for wanting a woman in a relationship to act like one and to respect their relationship.


I know that feeling, you was glad to hear that shyt!

Congrats, you dodged a bullet.

her WHOLE ass is out...

 

[Ahadi]

What y'all feel about this situation



The background on the situation if you don't know was there her boyfriend and baby father went into the comment section and posted this is not how a woman should act when you have a child. The internet disapproved of him and he deleted his account.

Personally I feel Keke's boyfriend was wrong for going to social media and making a comment instead of calling her. However he was not wrong for wanting a woman in a relationship to act like one and to respect their relationship.


I know that feeling, you was glad to hear that shyt!

Congrats, you dodged a bullet.

Funny thing is, it’s only our group of women lol.

Breh tried to put his foot down & majority of BW said “fukk you”



It’s the lack of respect for BM & why our group is out of order. It’s a damn shame we have the reputation of being the “softest” on our women, probably why we’re in this situation in the first place.

But back to the subject, The best way is handling it behind closed doors, like other groups would do & get off social media.

 

[T-K-G]

When y'all go out drinking what's the transportation?

Do you meet them there in your own car, take a Uber if you plan on drinking?

TBH you should always look for spots nearby one of yalls cribs so you can drink and still be able to walk to a safe space to relax, first.

if you don't have that option then i'd say uber so no one gotta think about driving responsibly

i feel like when we're too far away it makes leaving the bar feel like the end of the night, when you got the option to walk you can really get in your bag i have a 100% effienciency rating with either making out at the front door or smashing that night when we can walk and talk for a bit

 

[WIA20XX]

I compare this to the Salma Hayek situation. The billionaire that married Salma knew exactly what he was getting into.

This Dude is acting brand new. Reminds me of Kanye getting aggy over Kim. Like you marry a chick known for showing out and NOW you want to check her? Corny.

Now if Michelle decided to switch up on Barack, and Honolulu Slim was not feeling it, I'd stand behind our president.

 

[Ahadi]

I compare this to the Salma Hayek situation. The billionaire that married Salma knew exactly what he was getting into.

This Dude is acting brand new. Reminds me of Kanye getting aggy over Kim. Like you marry a chick known for showing out and NOW you want to check her? Corny.

Now if Michelle decided to switch up on Barack, and Honolulu Slim was not feeling it, I'd stand behind our president.

Also that’s Salma Hayek’s brand. She also could of been paid to post. She also knows how to switch it up on red carpets and is invited to high level events.

Keke is a little all over the place.

 

[The ADD]

What y'all feel about this situation



The background on the situation if you don't know was there her boyfriend and baby father went into the comment section and posted this is not how a woman should act when you have a child. The internet disapproved of him and he deleted his account.

Personally I feel Keke's boyfriend was wrong for going to social media and making a comment instead of calling her. However he was not wrong for wanting a woman in a relationship to act like one and to respect their relationship.


I know that feeling, you was glad to hear that shyt!

Congrats, you dodged a bullet.

Did he leave her?

 

[T-K-G]

I'm starting to think I'm just not built for dating.

Not receiving validation from women at a young age fukked me up.

I'm 33 now.

I will always be insecure and feel like I'm not good enough.

I've had all these feelings of low self-esteem, self hatred, isolation and frustration with woman all bubble over from one girl showing a little interest in me.

When I accepted my loneliness I didn't have to deal with these emotions.

Me accepting dying alone is easier to deal with than facing my insecurities.

go to therapy and let all of that shyt out breh, long as you got that one person you can tell everything to and know it's gonna be a productive conversation, you won't overthink interacting with others as much, feel ay more comfortable in your own skin

and 9 times outta 10 your therapist is gonna tell you to hone in on things that interests YOU, and through that you'll develop more of a day-to-day confidence that will attract people to you in general.


the wild shyt is there's prolly people perfect for you in ya area, but they having the same issues

 

[Amo Husserl]

I think I gotta leave women in my area alone..

 

[The ADD]

I think I gotta leave women in my area alone..

Do it

 

[Amo Husserl]

Do it

I gotta. They been on some weird shyt lately, I don't know if it's the summer time but I'm throwing in the towel. Shyt got me stressin'. I might start smoking again.

 

[T-K-G]

Not all therapists are good therapists. I definitely prefer a male therapist x100

this just made me think of an amazing red flag i came across like 2 years ago

was messing with a woman who went to therapy consistenly nothing wrong with that inherently

then she told me she hadn't told the therapist anything about me (we been coolin for months)........ okay. not my business

then told me she had to replace her old therapist because she felt like she was judging her.....

she let me in on some details about her past and it's pretty clear what happened, therapist hit the prolly didn't agree with some stuff she was doing, prolly was leading her towards being accountable for some stuff, and she couldn't cope with the idea that the therapist was secrectly judging her, ran away from the situation.

so she got a new therapist and only tells her half the truth man i ended that situation so quick, she manipulated the situation so the therapist is only telling her stuff she wants to hear



ion even know what to call that, but avoid it brehs. I wouldn't be surprised if the VAST majority of people in general who go to therapist do this.


but you're just doing yourself and the therapist a disservice and wasting both yalls time

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Date with a lovely Kenyan lady set up. Love my Caribbean women but time for new pastures.

If this don’t work then I’m stacking and becoming a passport bro

 

[Brandsdale]

I compare this to the Salma Hayek situation. The billionaire that married Salma knew exactly what he was getting into.

This Dude is acting brand new. Reminds me of Kanye getting aggy over Kim. Like you marry a chick known for showing out and NOW you want to check her? Corny.

Now if Michelle decided to switch up on Barack, and Honolulu Slim was not feeling it, I'd stand behind our president.

To be fair, have we seen Keke be THIS revealing with her WHOLE ass out?

 

[T-K-G]

To be fair, have we seen Keke be THIS revealing with her WHOLE ass out?

Nope, even when I worked with her personally on a show, she seemed to be more of a talkative extra'd out type, the kind of woman that may be annoying but not overly thotting like that. Like an annoying little sister who's into horoscopes n shyt.

Last I checked she was only really known for acting, not wylin out forreal, but I don't check celeb moves much


I feel like this whole situation is her just tryna keep face for the wrong people (her girlfriends, social media, etc.)

 

[Canon]

this just made me think of an amazing red flag i came across like 2 years ago

was messing with a woman who went to therapy consistenly nothing wrong with that inherently

then she told me she hadn't told the therapist anything about me (we been coolin for months)........ okay. not my business

then told me she had to replace her old therapist because she felt like she was judging her.....

she let me in on some details about her past and it's pretty clear what happened, therapist hit the prolly didn't agree with some stuff she was doing, prolly was leading her towards being accountable for some stuff, and she couldn't cope with the idea that the therapist was secrectly judging her, ran away from the situation.

so she got a new therapist and only tells her half the truth man i ended that situation so quick, she manipulated the situation so the therapist is only telling her stuff she wants to hear



ion even know what to call that, but avoid it brehs. I wouldn't be surprised if the VAST majority of people in general who go to therapist do this.


but you're just doing yourself and the therapist a disservice and wasting both yalls time

I went through a crazy similar experience

that's when I learned women are using therapy for validation of there actions and not to seriously improve no matter how much BS they put out there. Any women into that "therapy therapy therapy" bs is instant bushes status for me