Had a very enjoyable Friday. A PAAG I kinda lost contact with two years ago hit me up two weeks ago out of the blue. Thinking back there was no particular reason we stopped talking. Actually I will admit. This woman is very well off, and I kinda got into my head about why she was fuxking with me.
Anyway yesterday she hit me up to ask if I'd be up for hanging with her.
I swear the energy woman approaching me these days bring is refreshing. I'd already told her my current status that I have a primary partner and if she wasn't feeling that I understood.
She was still up for talking and hanging. I was reminded of that post from earlier this week where that chick basically said said an ice cream hangout was below her.
Once again if a chick likes you it don't matter where or what you do. (within reason) Her being in your presence and energy is what she is seeking.
Anyway this chick brought me korean fried chicken and beer and we had a lovely evening in a park close to me Catching up with one another.
Then she came back to my place and one thing led to another. She hadn't had sex since we stopped seeing each other. Made up for that last night.
I'm fine with that. I just don't want to stop dating.
And I mean other women not just her.
I think I would have read this comment and internalized it too much.
"He's right. It's not going to work out. I should have never taken her out in the first place. Stop trying to see women."
The reality is you don't know me. I don't say that to say you couldn't be right, or to sound rude I just mean in my past that would be enough for me to give up on dating overall. I look for confirmation bias when it supports my low self-esteem.
That was literally my first date ever. I had a great time and I wanna continue that feeling.
I'm fine with that. I just don't want to stop dating.
And I mean other women not just her.
I think I would have read this comment and internalized it too much.
"He's right. It's not going to work out. I should have never taken her out in the first place. Stop trying to see women."
The reality is you don't know me. I don't say that to say you couldn't be right, or to sound rude I just mean in my past that would be enough for me to give up on dating overall. I look for confirmation bias when it supports my low self-esteem.
That was literally my first date ever. I had a great time and I wanna continue that feeling.
And like I said you could be right. But what I'm not going to do is take that and not date anyone again because I know myself and I will do that. Take care.
I can't prove this but I hold the belief that women of today are more selfish, self centered and vapid than at any point in history. And I believe these are traits and personality defects that have historically found a home in the female mind... but I think it's gone to super saiyan levels with this current generation.
A man is just an extra perk. He’s not something to urgently look for. It’s:
Job / career (a lot of em just have jobs)
Girlfriends
Family
Pets
Guy friends / orbiters
Smash buddy
The emergency break glass / good guy
In addition, I’ve also been hearing the same phrase “a lot of guys aren’t attractive”
“there’s way more attractive women”
“Guys aren’t funny anymore, they don’t make me laugh”
“All the guys are short”
Women sre social creatures, when they have to declare things like that its a red flag usually. Women tend to be go with the flow types due to them seeking emotional fulfillment.
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