Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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you are a cocky self proclaimed handsome nikka worried about another man’s dating life while offering no real advice.

ima call you rupaul for now on. i see you in here trying to come from a place of success yet looking down on people who didn’t get it easy like you

for other male approval
He saying the same thing other brehs are alluding too just I guess.. “harshly”

you half stepping with online dating not posting photos. When you finally did, she called you cute… so there’s no reason to spend money :mjlol:
 

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He saying the same thing other brehs are alluding too just I guess.. “harshly”

you half stepping with online dating not posting photos. When you finally did, she called you cute… so there’s no reason to spend money :mjlol:
Dude mad cause he moving sloppy and bytch isnt gonna fukk him she will just use him for free attention.

You got tricking sites like seeking, an escort thread in JBO, and travel options and this nikka playing on hinge with no pics. Jesus Christ
 

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Dude mad cause he moving sloppy and bytch isnt gonna fukk him she will just use him for free attention.

You got tricking sites like seeking, an escort thread in JBO, and travel options and this nikka playing on hinge with no pics. Jesus Christ
breh was probably finna be in the messages self-incriminating himself like fukk :mjlol:
 

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How long you wait to follow up when you don’t hear back? Was talking to this bad nurse all day yesterday. I responded to her last message at 2 am last night. Haven’t heard back yet.

Was gonna wait until tomorrow night to ask to meet for a drink? I know the game and I’m not waiting forever.

Ask now. The sooner the better. People lose that thread all the time, and you get lost in the shuffle, happens to me both ways. But, rarely is it because something was wrong with them, it's just distraction, and this is my thing: enough of the cutsey texts messages, you get lost in that. You have to get in person to really start anything.

whenever something is telling you to wait, it's usually just fear/hesitation. Don't wait. Make sure there is at least SOME foundation for a meet up though, mutual interests, close by, strong and mutually acknowledged physical attraction, one or all of those.

people get hyper strategic and a little insane with texting and all the games, and moves, and bullshyt.
 

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@africngiant it seems you might not be built for the tricking game (mentally and financially— you stated before you a college student)

Pick your best photos. If you have none, start taking some. Your leverage should only be you breh..
i explained earlier my issues mainly stem from personality/self-confidence from bad experiences in my life. at the very least money provides me with more leverage and flexibility, even if all else fails. im a boring nikka with not much to talk about but the increased freedom granted from having money with new venues available to explore can aid in making experiences more fun for the girl while masking my personality flaws until i at least get more life experience.

if anything a women would be more inclined to act right because she doesn’t want to risk losing not only the man, who she may already be physically attracted to, but also his resources even if he isn’t the most charismatic person
 

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you’re likely going to spend money in the first place in the process of courting a female. i know all you superman nikkas don’t got to but most do
:dahell:

**playfully** indicating that you have money at least sets the idea in her mind that you’re successful and creates a novelty in her mind while she may not even ask for much of it

@The Minister @RaspberryFitted
 

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at least people in here will give constructive criticism and pick apart your logic to actually give advice and challenge your thinking

others just come in to mock and try to look player for other men in here
 

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It's something how the power dynamics flip in the relationship.

At the beginning, women hold the power. We go holla at them and they hold all the power to provide or deny us access.

But once they have feelings for us, the power totally flips in our favor. :wow:
It's always shifting.
Just like you put it.
But it continues to shift... It's never even
 

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at least people in here will give constructive criticism and pick apart your logic to actually give advice and challenge your thinking

others just come in to mock and try to look player for other men in here
nikkas have given advice and you ignored it to risk your life soliciting prostitutes

A gamed up hoe will eat you alive or gave you killed. You talking to an undercover cop is just the icing on the cake
:mjlol:

An actual sugar baby would laugh at this stupid shyt and block you off rip
 

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i explained earlier my issues mainly stem from personality/self-confidence from bad experiences in my life. at the very least money provides me with more leverage and flexibility, even if all else fails. im a boring nikka with not much to talk about but the increased freedom granted from having money with new venues available to explore can aid in making experiences more fun for the girl while masking my personality flaws until i at least get more life experience.

if anything a women would be more inclined to act right because she doesn’t want to risk losing not only the man, who she may already be physically attracted to, but also his resources even if he isn’t the most charismatic person
:francis: :heh: this all sounds like a trainwreck

1) if you’re not right internally, then you have no business dating or even casually hooking up.

2) so money is more valuable than your physically stature and personality? There’s nikkas literally playing 2K right now in a woman’s crib broke as fukk only because they look sexy and give good dikk breh

3) Women are divorcing and cheating on NBA athletes, lawyers, doctors, actors, etc… what the fukk makes you different from them to not “act right”

You can’t even say your moral code or personality because you yourself said you were lost
you’re likely going to spend money in the first place in the process of courting a female. i know all you superman nikkas don’t got to but most do
:dahell:

**playfully** indicating that you have money at least sets the idea in her mind that you’re successful and creates a novelty in her mind while she may not even ask for much of it

@The Minister @RaspberryFitted
Superman? I’ve average breh

I also spend money on dates I was going to go on ANYWAY and I haven’t paid for an entire bill since HS lmaoo

Money does not correlate success breh. There’s mfs who are wealthy and are pathetic and simps breh.
 

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at least people in here will give constructive criticism and pick apart your logic to actually give advice and challenge your thinking

others just come in to mock and try to look player for other men in here
the majority of users are old as fukk on here that have been in LTRs, engaged, married, cheated on, divorced, played side dude role…

They’re tired of hearing the same shyt they’ve heard for years from dudes who don’t get it.
 
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