Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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is it me or does this come off as a red flag.

Read this on her dating profile:

"It's hard for me to stay in the house and chill".

and she's 40. Like I understand getting out and doing stuff, but just the fact that you have to state that , makes me believe you need to be out all the time.

& spend your money

:mjlol:
 

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is it me or does this come off as a red flag.

Read this on her dating profile:

"It's hard for me to stay in the house and chill".

and she's 40. Like I understand getting out and doing stuff, but just the fact that you have to state that , makes me believe you need to be out all the time.

Get that budget ready
 

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is it me or does this come off as a red flag.

Read this on her dating profile:

"It's hard for me to stay in the house and chill".

and she's 40. Like I understand getting out and doing stuff, but just the fact that you have to state that , makes me believe you need to be out all the time.

any chick over 38 should be FWB Status only with at max y'all going 50/50 on vacations together at places that aint got hoes you can smash on your own like Egypt or some shyt. :mjlol:
 

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any chick over 38 should be FWB Status only with at max y'all going 50/50 on vacations together at places that aint got hoes you can smash on your own like Egypt or some shyt. :mjlol:

Idk how they don’t understand as they get past 30, they need to play the game differently. You should be making the men’s lives easier, especially with a new crop of 21 year olds coming in.
 

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yeah there is a balancing act with apps between meeting too fast and being stuck with a weirdo and talking too long you end up a pen pal

If they aren’t trying to meet up within the first few messages. Bush. Also let’s me know how attracted she is to me

I rather shoot fast than be the “safe” guy.

:yeshrug:
 
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If they aren’t trying to meet up within the first few messages. Bush. Also let’s me know how attracted she is to me

I rather shoot fast than be the “safe” guy.

:yeshrug:

I`ll just say this depends on your age. Most men over 30 and who make good money don't have the patience or time to try to meet with any ol chick ASAP + many women end up being "bad for your brand". Thats when it comes to apps.
 

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I`ll just say this depends on your age. Most men over 30 and who make good money don't have the patience or time to try to meet with any ol chick ASAP + many women end up being "bad for your brand". Thats when it comes to apps.
how do you balance it out when you in your early 20s and got opportunities lined up (job offer in corporate right after graduation, close to graduation, strong professional connections)

on one hand I’m young and need to enjoy life/be okay with making mistakes, but on the other hand I have a lot of ventures that I can’t risk losing that’ll advance my future.
 

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is it me or does this come off as a red flag.

Read this on her dating profile:

"It's hard for me to stay in the house and chill".

and she's 40. Like I understand getting out and doing stuff, but just the fact that you have to state that , makes me believe you need to be out all the time.
:picard:
 

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Good on him. More dudes need to have a no nonsense disposition. And lol @ "I let a guy take me out to dinner". Says it all.
 

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is it me or does this come off as a red flag.

Read this on her dating profile:

"It's hard for me to stay in the house and chill".

and she's 40. Like I understand getting out and doing stuff, but just the fact that you have to state that , makes me believe you need to be out all the time.
Depends on what you want from her. If it’s just physical who cares
 

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is it me or does this come off as a red flag.

Read this on her dating profile:

"It's hard for me to stay in the house and chill".

and she's 40. Like I understand getting out and doing stuff, but just the fact that you have to state that , makes me believe you need to be out all the time.
I just stopped talking to a 32 year old chick for this reason. She even told me she gets bored of men in that same convo so i basically just ghosted after
 

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how do you balance it out when you in your early 20s and got opportunities lined up (job offer in corporate right after graduation, close to graduation, strong professional connections)

on one hand I’m young and need to enjoy life/be okay with making mistakes, but on the other hand I have a lot of ventures that I can’t risk losing that’ll advance my future.
I'll keep it real in my 20s I wasn't on dating apps I dated via social circles and at max got at some chicks via Twitter and Facebook lol. Dating apps always felt like it should be for older professionals who moved to new cities away from their normal circle.
 
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