Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

RealAssanova

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Ain't that shyt expensive? (Anywhere cacs be at outside of the U.S. seems expensive) I worked with some ghanians back in 2013 that said it costs them like $2000 to go back; and that's 10 years ago!

you plan on hitting raw? :jbhmm:

If u saw some of the women in cape town…you’d be tempted to without a doubt.

But those AIDS statistics have me like naa.
 

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What makes you say that African brehs don't approach? shyt all them kids running round, I'm assuming most of em do.
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And are south African women "traditional"? They might behave like this but be already married at 17 and having kids. (I heard from some Nigerians and Ghanians that they really don't do that hookup/girlfriend type shyt)

The entire time i was there, i barely saw african nikkas approaching. I remember one day my sisters and i were doin a city tour and while waiting for the bus to take us back, i saw a young tenderoni wearing a 1 piece walk right in front of me. Ass and body was just :damn:…so much so, i had to come up with a lie on the spot to my sisters that i was going to the market and i HAD to go after her!:damn:

We ended up missing the return bus back and sure enough my sisters had some words for me :lolbron::hubie:

But guess what? She was taken a back by my forwardness and approach but was down to earth and appreciative i approached her. Even told her i ended up missing the bus to come get at her and she laughed. Ended up conversating for about like 5-6 mins before swapping whatsapps. 21 years old. Curly hair. Clear brown/caramel skin.

Still talk to her to this day and every time we talk, she keeps askin when i’m comin back to see her in cape town so she can be my personal tour guide.

After we parted ways, i literally turned around to head back up the street to my sisters when i saw like groups of nikkas huddled up and lookin at me :pachaha:

Like literally…huddled up, whisperin type of shyt :heh: like they’ve never seen a nikka holla at a chick before.:gucci:

Believe me, american/canadian dudes are a rarity in that part of the world. Europeans are in abundance so they ain’t nothin special…

But you’d also clean up with european hoes too. German, british, dutch…

Like i said, one massive hook up city. All city girls. All speak english. Professional, sophisticated, feminine, etc. Every night you could scoop a hoe up. Hinge, tinder, street/grocery/mall approach, club…

nikkas talk about miami & vegas…

Naaa…Cape Town is the fukkin spot!
 

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When you meet a woman who would be perfect for you but she got a 1 year old. :snoop:


Be having you feeling like you was 2 years too late getting to her.

What makes it worse is that when she tells the story of why she had the baby with him, nothing makes sense :francis:
How do you know she’s perfect for you?
 

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it never ceases to amaze me how arrogant and dumb some of these women are

i'ma tell yall...if a woman is 28 years old and single there is definitely a reason why, unless she just got out of a long term relationship or something.
Elaborate
 

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lol its too much to type so ill try to type it in point form



1. i meet this girl a few days ago at the mall. we text and at some point she stops responding but claims shes busy or whatever...coool.
2. she messages me one day saying her days been crazy and she hopes my day is going well.
3. i respond asking why her day has been crazy; she responds asking if were gonna be "texting buddies"
4. me appreciating her directness, i ask if she prefers phone calls and also mention we should link friday/saturday - that she should let me know when shes free so i can plan something. she doesnt respond again so I call her and ask.
5. she gives me a 1.5 hour window on friday. It works for me cause i am off friday. given the time constraint, i pick a couple places with good food but quicker service that we can hit up.
6. she doesnt respond
7. i call tonight to confirm if tomorrow is still a go cause i am planning out my day. she doesnt answer so i tell her fukk it cause shes acting weird.
8. she responds saying shes busy doing some shyt with her mom and how she isnt trying to go to some "pizza pizza" restaurant. she says how i showed what type of guy i am and we arent compatible. during a back and forth she even had the audacity to say I am blessed for her to even be texting me.

so in summary...a girl i met on lets say Tuesday expects me to take her to an upscale restaurant when she cant even respond to messages in a timely manner. she is using this as a litmus test for to see "what kinda guy i am" not realizing that

a. the only reason i chose those restaurants (which actually have great food) is because of the time crunch
b. why would i invest any real money in a chick who I barely met who is displaying shyt comunication skills.

its just a lot of delusion and entitlement in these women out here. Shes a good lookin Somali chick with a fat ass who seems to still live with her mom yet shes trying to downplay me, a dude who has his own place, makes almost 500K a year, is tall, deezed and most of all...just a solid ass nikka with integrity. It be the same women claiming men or trash or they cant find a solid nikka - nah, the problem is them
 
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