Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NormanConnors]

i already got hit with the "youll never see me or my son again"

she'll be back for help again, mainly because you are a person she can trust, count on, knows how your heart is and etc. The key is if you will want to go another round with her again, especially if she didn't learn anything from last time.

I can relate to your story a bit, it's especially tough when you get attached to the kid and vice versa , it's not even about the chick really.

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Nah, she's legit. She used to post on Allhiphop

No it's not breh

 

[kevm3]

Man reincar, you need to leave ma alone. You learning firsthand exactly why I tell brothas to avoid doing favors for females. Unlike your real deal potnas, who if you do a favor for, they become more grateful, the more favors you do for a female, the more resentful she becomes... and the more she looks at you as a stepping stone to hit up for favors that she won't reciprocate on.

 

[karim]

actually she has apologized multiple times, she flaked on me twice yes, but real talk I wasnt really feeling the chick all that much who I was going out with tonight, like I said if it was the chick im going out with tomorrow, I wouldnt have canceled. I do feel bad, but like I said life is full of risk and what im I losing? A chance to go on a date tonight with a chick ive never met, and have only text on the phone

trust this could be what turns me into how you guys are if by me giving this chick another chance it comes to bite me in the ass

as a rule after ten days of no communication you shouldn't be immediately available the minute she remembers that you exist and hits you up especially not if she flaked on you before. hell, she basically told you that she just now remembered you when she looked at those tickets.

what you should have told her is that you have a date, but would be happy to see her another day. if she is interested and knows you are seeing other woman, she will think twice before dropping off the radar again. now she thinks you'll jump whenever she tells you to and probably will disappear again

this will bite you in the ass, but i know you won't listen, so you're going to have to chalk it up as a learning experience.

 

[Mr210]

as a rule after ten days of no communication you shouldn't be immediately available the minute she remembers that you exist and hits you up especially not if she flaked on you before. hell, she basically told you that she just now remembered you when she looked at those tickets.

what you should have told her is that you have a date, but would be happy to see her another day. if she is interested and knows you are seeing other woman, she will think twice before dropping off the radar again. now she thinks you'll jump whenever she tells you to and probably will disappear again

this will bite you in the ass, but i know you won't listen, so you're going to have to chalk it up as a learning experience.

first off she said she had been thinking/and was thinking about me since we last communicated (she could have been lying) and had been looking at our baseball tickets remembering the fun we had. How is it going to bite me in the ass, she paid for the dinner and the movies, and i got to smash, shyt if I dont hear from her again I didnt lose anything but 4 hrs of my day yesterday. If she hits me up tonight or tomorrow then so be it and we go from there. I have more information about her, its just too much to type it all on here, for why I know she isnt BSing me. Anyways gotta get ready for another date with this other chick tonight

 

[Two Stacks]

aye man look. bytch gon tell me (short version):

she wanna fukk. she adores me. but it would be awkward cause we work in the same building.

look bytch either u do or u dont. if it dont happen by thursday ion give a fukk no more, my semester starts in a week. That>>>>>a bytch.

 

[HarlemsOwn]

aye man look. bytch gon tell me (short version):

she wanna fukk. she adores me. but it would be awkward cause we work in the same building.

look bytch either u do or u dont. if it dont happen by thursday ion give a fukk no more, my semester starts in a week. That>>>>>a bytch.

what fukkin girl tryna fukk with you

you look like a fukkin thumb nikka

 

[DaRealness]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/333380/I-am-scared-girl-is-a-gold-digger

I CAN'T work out if my girl is a rinser.


I've got money, which I like to spend, but is she only with me because I'm flush? I'm the first to admit that I'm not very secure about my looks or my attractiveness to women. But people say my personality is OK.

I like a laugh and I enjoy taking my girl out, showing her off and treating her to anything she fancies.

In the past few months I've got her designer clothes, handbags and shoes. We've been to New York, London and some of the best restaurants around.

For her birthday I took her to a trendy spa where I said she could have any treatments she fancied.

But the unspoken thing is that we don't have sex. We don't talk about sex and we don't touch.

During the big trip to London, I confessed that I felt horny. So she picked up another girl in a club for me.

This woman came with us back to our hotel room where she and I had sex.

My girlfriend watched, which was horny too, but when I begged her to join in, she just smiled and shook her head.

The following day I treated her to a diamond earrings but couldn't help feeling hollow.

I'm always asking her if she loves me and she says yes. What makes me think she's real is that she never actually asks me for anything.

She always waits for me to offer and I do respect that. but there is always a tiny voice in the back of my head nagging away, saying: "Why does she stay with you?" But how do I get that little voice to shut up, so that I can enjoy this fantastic journey we are both on?




It couldn't be more obvious that dude is being taken for a ride if he was strapped to a taxi. Isn't the writing on the wall?! Dumb ass has spent probably thousands on this broad and she hasn't even so much as touched him.

The part I bolded is real key. Lack of self confidence/respect and low self esteem are probably are your worse enemies when dealing with women. The mere fact he's obviously got the intelligence/drive to be earning a lot of money but still lacks the basic confidence to attract women is abysmal. And does he really ask people what they think of his personality???

 

[karim]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/333380/I-am-scared-girl-is-a-gold-digger

During the big trip to London, I confessed that I felt horny. So she picked up another girl in a club for me.

This woman came with us back to our hotel room where she and I had sex.

Doesn't sound like a bad arrangement to me

 

[MikelArteta]

Women are ungrateful and don't realize till their older the few people who actual cared about them.

 

[Kartel13]

Damn brehs, 5 dates and I got in it. I was reluctant to even get intimate with this girl because I just wasn't ready to put myself out there. I've been guarded with this chick from day one, just avoiding anything that had to do with getting mushy. Basically careless with the feelings as everyone here said to be. I didn't even try to kiss her when I invited her over a few weeks ago. Then finally I kissed her 2 weeks ago. I knew she wanted it just by her kiss.

Then she came over wearing these little shorts Made our way to the bedroom and it was a wrap!


The moral of the story? Keep your game tight regardless. Stay hitting the weights. Keep it real and be honest. Hell, I don't know the moral of the story. All I know is ever since I got done dirty a few months ago, women have been coming in by the dozens.

 

[MikelArteta]

That's how life is breh women come and women go.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

i been getting more females than ever

#honesty
#dontcomeoffasthirsty
#upfront
#nosimping
#confidence

eat

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

all us young men have got to choose from are these instagram/twitter attention whores.i should of came of age in the early 2000's at the very latest

 

[MikelArteta]

Worse generation for dating and relationships .