exactly. them initial favors start turning into entitlements that she expects you to do, and if you start doing them long enough, she will start getting mad when you don't comply with her requests for 'favors'. One thing a man needs to understand when dealing with women is to never allow her to take your kindness for granted. You don't ever 'OWE' her any favors, so you retain the right to decline a 'favor' any time you feel... in fact, never let a woman shift you into a favor buddy who she will take advantage of at all times and never reciprocate. In fact, she'll start getting the idea that you're a buffoon. Something brothas got to understand is to not allow a woman to use her emotional states to manipulate you. A lot of cats KNOW a woman is wrong, but they give in because they don't want this woman to yell or withdraw her attention or something of that nature. To me, that's a weak mentality. IF you are willing to accept abuse and bad behavior from a woman to keep her company, you will never be respected and you will continually be taken advantage of. A woman does what you allow her to do. If you leave the door open for yourself to be taken advantage of, that's exactly what most women will do. Remember they have a mercenary mindset.