Know a lot like this
but one that stands out, she's like a preacher about it
she will tell anyone who listens she wants to pro create, start a family, marry a provider
but she JUST turned 30
to add to this, it also means that (even unintentionally) they are not really evaluating you as an individual person, but as a means to an end. Do you WORK for me? a a very very narrow framework.
as opposed to what do I like about this person? I understand the need for practicality for everyone in terms of major life decisions, but often these people are turning a 90 min date (or a profile) into what does the rest of my life look like with this person?
which would track with the kind of "not being in the moment/optimization" of social media, apps,



