I don't know why brehs act so confused about this. It really is so simple but the more I read these posts on here the more I understand why brehs are struggling...smh. Having yourself together as a man give you a leg up on a majority of the field. The other superficial things are just a part of the game and you just keep it pushing if a woman doesn't choose you based on those. Never change those core things for a woman. It truly is a cheat code and it becomes even more so in your 30s. It gives you even more leverage and with leverage you can apply discernment to filter out the chics that meet your needs. It's chess out here and we want you to have them in checkmate before they can even get their pieces on the board.
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I went through that phase and that's when I got off the dating apps completely. It was starting to skew my view on women. But I started primarily cold approaching, the convos got so much betterBroke bytches asking me for money lately, and I’m not willing to carry convos like I used to
I don’t know what the hell goin on bruhI just want a shorty that got her own shyt goin on, respects me and can communicate…that’s it man
there are men out there on the verge of suicide rn... they’ve done everything yall said do that would have secured them a wife 70 years ago good job, car, own place, etc.
If they're committing suicide then that means that they didn't do everything. They went and obtained the superficial stuff. But they didn't work on themselves personally as a man. Because as a man the first thing you understand is that you're not entitled to anything out here. Just because you have a house, car, and good job doesn't mean you deserve a good woman. You're probably not even a good man. Also most of these dudes like that are chasing the IG chics that they see as the crown jewel that shows everyone that they're a good man. That's why they're getting done greasy by those women because they don't really understand them.
The basics in 2024, costs like 40% more than 2020.
My generation? I had a Civic (on them thangs) and my own place to live since the mid 90's. On like $12 hr.
2024?
The "basics" - an apartment to yourself, a car, stylish clothes, money to waste on broads at the club and on dates - looking more like luxuries.
So if you're a good dude, you're not gonna try to slide up into anything just because you can.
Even if the one-time purchase price for the P is $Free.99, it ain't always cheap. Cats run up in a broad raw, or the condom slips off, or she grabs the joint out the waste basket - and now you on the hook for 18 years.
And then there's cats who ain't got nothing out there getting more hoes than they can handle. City Boys, Future Wannabees (and a lot of Future's songs about are tricking...so I don't even know why he's that type of icon) - they run through hoes - because they don't care.
And the fact that they don't care, that they aren't prepared for the obvious - that's really appealing to a lot of broads.
If cats aint' literally player made like that, how do they cope?
skyrunner1
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Nothing I post on here is for that.. I'm under no illusion that you can do EVERYTHING stated and still get torn out the frame..
I thought this was about getting getting women(short term game), NO ONE can guarantee that you will keep the same women forever especially when they are rewarded for opposite behavior in this day and age. I have read the brehs who had the married forum and they said that shyt was "hard mode" and the go plan was same as the stay plan.
I'm not one to kick brehs when they are down but I would imagine those who took themselves out were under massive illusions. I think if brehs go in with eyes wide open, even their third eye they will understand the glass was already broken when she break bad.
First why are you comparing what the next man is doing? You run your own personal race out here. If chics choosing them that's fine they're still more women out here. You bring up living situation and how hard it is. If you're young with no kids you should have roommates and stack your bread up until you're ready for that next step. Just have a plan. Don't blow all your money on frivolous things do it in moderation. You shouldn't be buying designer or things you truly can't afford until you're able to. Lastly if you get a chic pregnant when you're not ready you set yourself up to struggle. Gotta have some sexual discipline and thinking of the bigger picture. Y'all can't be out here with a defeated mindset and wondering why you're not getting positive results. It's madness
Boo who. Most men in history never even got the chance to reproduce. People just live longer now.
LSA is the gift that keeps on giving.
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TL-DR - 26 year old nurse met a 35 year old coli breh with his stuff together. They been together 2-3 years. She's at the right marrying age (imo)
He got a new job, in a new city, and wants her to move with him to a new city, get a house and get married.
She wants to be a travel nurse.
You already know what I'm gonna say.
Choosing between fiancé or career advancement?
I’m a nurse in my mid twenties. I had wanted to become a travel nurse for a long time but I originally didn’t have as much experience to do so. I’ve been a nurse for 3 years now. I met my fiancé almost two years ago and was never expecting the relationship to become as serious as it is but we...
www.lipstickalley.com
TL-DR - 26 year old nurse met a 35 year old coli breh with his stuff together. They been together 2-3 years. She's at the right marrying age (imo)
He got a new job, in a new city, and wants her to move with him to a new city, get a house and get married.
She wants to be a travel nurse.
You already know what I'm gonna say.
Space Cowboy
Christ is King
How come when a woman likes you she be getting so annoying?
Man I clicked that post and immediately see why chics are single due to friends. Not once person gave advice to try to stay and figure it out. Just do you, find yourself, and you'll find another "good man" in the future...smhLSA is the gift that keeps on giving.
Choosing between fiancé or career advancement?
I’m a nurse in my mid twenties. I had wanted to become a travel nurse for a long time but I originally didn’t have as much experience to do so. I’ve been a nurse for 3 years now. I met my fiancé almost two years ago and was never expecting the relationship to become as serious as it is but we...
TL-DR - 26 year old nurse met a 35 year old coli breh with his stuff together. They been together 2-3 years. She's at the right marrying age (imo)
He got a new job, in a new city, and wants her to move with him to a new city, get a house and get married.
She wants to be a travel nurse.
You already know what I'm gonna say.
that was because of war and famine... it's ugly out here for gen z men
LSA is the gift that keeps on giving.
Choosing between fiancé or career advancement?
I’m a nurse in my mid twenties. I had wanted to become a travel nurse for a long time but I originally didn’t have as much experience to do so. I’ve been a nurse for 3 years now. I met my fiancé almost two years ago and was never expecting the relationship to become as serious as it is but we...
TL-DR - 26 year old nurse met a 35 year old coli breh with his stuff together. They been together 2-3 years. She's at the right marrying age (imo)
He got a new job, in a new city, and wants her to move with him to a new city, get a house and get married.
She wants to be a travel nurse.
You already know what I'm gonna say.
One comment saysI work with White people , Hispanics, Indian people
I never see this problem with them. When the man gets a new job and has to move cities the woman will drop everything and move with him even with out job prospects. A nurse could easily just find another job.
I even work with an Indian lady, probably clearing 6 figures easily. Her husband moved to this city first then eventually she moved months after she found something. She didn't go oh I make 100K let me divorce my husband since he wants to move and I don't want to.
I work with White people , Hispanics, Indian people
I never see this problem with them. When the man gets a new job and has to move cities the woman will drop everything and move with him even with out job prospects. A nurse could easily just find another job.
I even work with an Indian lady, probably clearing 6 figures easily. Her husband moved to this city first then eventually she moved months after she found something. She didn't go oh I make 100K let me divorce my husband since he wants to move and I don't want to.
nikkas don't realize it's over lol. These hoes are for fukking and thats it. The stats don't lie.
RaspberryFitted
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feels vulnerable in your space, which means she turn off like 80% of her brain and start babbling.