Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NormanConnors]

no cause we aint hanging out with them during daytime

 

[kevm3]

Here's how insane certain branches of feminism are getting. equality indeed:

How often do you guys see women dress respectable like this nowadays?

http://www.amazon.com/Dancing-Street-Cultural-Politics-Detroit/dp/0674005465

women nowadays dress more provocatively than prostitutes did in the past. sad thing is, I'm not exaggerating.

 

[philmonroe]

how do you cats juggle multiple chicks at the same time consistently? Not trying to diss or anything, but you don't get tired mentally/find it time consuming going through the cycles?

I agree I don't see the point of it at all unless its just for sex. Otherwise I look at it like having 2 starters in the NFL you got none.

How often do you guys see women dress respectable like this nowadays?

http://www.amazon.com/Dancing-Street-Cultural-Politics-Detroit/dp/0674005465

I see chicks dressed like this all the time maybe you need to stop hanging where you hang if you don't see this often. I mean relativity speaking cause that style of dress isn't popping anymore

 

[CASHAPP]

Here's how insane certain branches of feminism are getting. equality indeed:


women nowadays dress more provocatively than prostitutes did in the past. sad thing is, I'm not exaggerating.

I know your not exaggerating lol. Its a fact.

Don't get me started on those clueless broads who seem "surprised" whenever they find out their a$$holes are showing. I once saw this woman in about her 30s sitting on a bench outside a motel with another girl younger with her ENTIRE ass hanging out when she was sitting down....

I never could understand how can you NOT KNOW your not looking right.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

This might have been posted before but this is for anybody THINKING about getting married before 30

http://boldanddetermined.com/2012/01/21/pick-the-right-wife/

 

[CrossBones]

The majority of problems come about because men start putting women on pedestals and get the notion that they should be 'won', which is that old school simp mentality which tells you that you alone are not worthy of a woman... you must bring money, flowers, dinners and a host of other materials in order to be 'worthy of her time.' It's that mentality that many men were taught which causes them to end up in problematic situations. A woman ultimately wants a man she can look UP to, not one that feels like he is so low value that he must compensate with material items in order to be 'worthy' of her. Now, all humans value different things, so ultimately, different women will value different types of looks and personalities. If you want to come out and win in the game, you have to stay in your boundaries. You have to go for the women that value your natural characteristics highly. Otherwise, you start coming across women that only express minor interest in you and you get into the simp mentality that you need to start bringing 'more things to the table' in order to win her interest. A man in this position NEVER wins. While he may get in a relationship with a woman, she will only be interested in him for the material items he is providing, since she expressed earlier on that him by himself doesn't spark enough interest in her. The kind of woman you want to deal with is the one that will talk to you anywhere and just likes you for who you are without you having to put on any kind of airs. Getting outside of that puts you in that mindset that she is higher value because you feel you have to do extra. When you start getting into that mind-frame is when you start taking losses.

its really bad when a man feels like he has to bargain his way in to a womans life. thats a starting L right there. those types of women will be gone at the first site of trouble, because one of their qualifiers for even having you in their life was a material object or your source of income. the inclusion of you into her life, essentially, was something that was bought.


we all have needs and things that we want in a partner, but just know, that if what someone wants from you is hinging on materialism, then losing that material can definitely mean losing that woman. as soon as you hit a rough patch, then as sure as ever your relationship will be in jeopardy. men have to know this too, because female entitlement has men thinking that they need to buy and do these things, because if they dont they are open to being discarded and stepped on. the more that men have to "man up" we find that the less a woman wants to even hold her own in the field of being a respectable lady as well as being a true blue partner. thats why its important these days to be finding a woman who cares more for your character, your treatment of her, and your well being in order to avoid that type of situation. if a man can place his own personal value as a man over what he has to buy, or what he has to bargain with, over "keeping" a woman, then hes sure to be on the path to a stronger bond and healthier relationship. people need to be liking each other for who they are, and not so much what they have, or try to portray themselves as.

 

[Mickey Kane]

How often do you guys see women dress respectable like this nowadays?

http://www.amazon.com/Dancing-Street-Cultural-Politics-Detroit/dp/0674005465

There is nothing sexy about that kind of attire.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Why do phat ass white girls like me so much srs.

Like for real i don't act like a c00n im pro black. I got dreads i read im free thinker. I just don't get it.

First day at work was hard not many women but the ones who where there said hello anyway i spot the pawg eying me. I just think it because im new so whatever then when it time to clean up there she is eye ya boy and when i was help my black sister sweep some trash up at the end of the day she come to drop her things right next to us and and take 5 mins to pick it up waiting for me to take my shot at her. Bending down ass all in my face.

Thing is i can tell she fukked mad nikka from that job and im not trying to be another number plus idk if i want to fukk her i just want some neck

But for real i got to start talking to these women more at my new job nikka going to think im gay i say few words to the black sister that it but im not a talker hoe does one make small talk?

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

@His_Excellence_Reincar

You read this: http://laidnyc.wordpress.com/2013/08/14/closure-is-bullshyt/

 

[Jahmal]

This might have been posted before but this is for anybody THINKING about getting married before 30

http://boldanddetermined.com/2012/01/21/pick-the-right-wife/

Why get married at all?

 

[Turbulent]

In a nutshell, women (but really people in general) want to be the master of your happiness. they wan you to depend on them to be happy. That's the ultimate power because if you control someone's happiness, you essentially control them. and it makes your ego feel good as well. We need to realize that no one else besides ourselves is responsible for our happiness. not your girl, not your boss, not your friends, not your parents, no one but you. don't ever surrender that power to an outside source. Even for people of faith it kinda makes sense because God can make you happy since God is within you...

the tricky part with women is that they want that power but they don't want it at the same time. they like the feeling it gives to their ego but at the same time, they don't want to be responsible for your happiness. matter of fact, on some level, they want you to be responsible for their happiness so that they can be taken care of and led but at the same time, they can't avoid resenting you for having a certain amount of control over that essential part of their life (control they surrendered themselves). So in turn they try to get that control over you (even if they don't even want it). it's natural. for them though, it really seems like a fine line they have to constantly walk. if you want a chick to remain your woman, the trick is to be aware of that balance that must be maintained and never surrender too much of your power (because her ego wants it but overall she doesn't).

lol, i keep quoting patrice but fukk it, dude spoke the truth. A woman loves you but she HATES how much she loves you. marinate on that...

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

@His_Excellence_Reincar

You read this: http://laidnyc.wordpress.com/2013/08/14/closure-is-bullshyt/

can u copy and post this breh

that website is blocked for me

 

[MikelArteta]

Stealing this from @BlvdBrawler
Be the man she will think about 10-15 years later when she's married with kids that she

 

[MikelArteta]

Malcolm this is what it says

Closure Is Bullshyt
As a man, you don’t need closure.

A girl either wants to fukk you or she doesn’t. A long, emotional conversation will not change this fact.

Girls, however, need to put a man they are dumping into a desexualized box and wrap a pretty bow of closure around it. By participating in the closure process you are helping her tie the bow around your desexualized fate.

If a girl breaks up with you:
Do not talk about your feelings
Do not talk about her feelings
Do not argue with her reasons

Just accept it and grieve on your own time.

This is hard.

Why?

Because a woman will never give her ACTUAL reasons for breaking up with you. She will only give you society-approved bullshyt that makes her look innocent.

She will never say “you didn’t fukk me good enough” or “you’re too nice and not exciting” or “no other girl I know wants to fukk you so something must be wrong with you”.

She will say “I’m really busy with school and work and don’t have time for a relationship now” or “you’re great but I”m not ready for anything serious” or “I care about you as a friend”.

Sometimes the reasons she give will be SO false, such obvious flowery bullshyt, that you will feel a deep burning need to set her straight, to correct her misunderstanding.

Don’t.

You can’t logic a woman.

You can say “okay”, walk away with a smirk and never contact her again.

Being robbed of emotionally dripping closure, she’ll always feel a little incomplete.
Why didn’t he fight harder for me?
Did I really not get to his emotions?
Am I not as desirable to him as I thought?
Is he more desirable than I thought?

Girls have egos. They WANT to know you’re emotional about her breaking up with you. It validates her. So don’t do it.

You want a girl dumping you to question her reasons, not verify them.

When a girl dumps you, you want to be able to look back on how your handled it with pride.

When you give a girl closure, you give her your pride.

 

[Blackking]

try to fight against ur urges to put urself completely out there. Don't express all ur feelings at once.... they stick with the ones they aren't fully sure about.