Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Redwood
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my 2¢ is may be monopoly money on the streets nikkas walk HAWould be nice if you offered your .2 cents ITT for the brehs regardless
i have always accepted broads do what they feel like
i fukk with the ones that feel like doing what i feel like doing
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Redwood
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Tommy Lee Jones
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what's a good inexpensive date 2? It's cold out here so it's probably gonna be food and drinks then go to a bar after.
Illuminatos
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We went on our date to a bar last night. I honestly had a great time. We were there talking and laughing damn near 4 hours. We have another date set up for next week.She reached back out. She said she was prepping for classes when she got back from Cali so she wasn’t on the app.Either way we now have a date for Saturday night.
Only thing is I couldn’t get a good grasp on what her body looked like. She looked a little bigger than her pics but she was wearing baggy clothes so idk.
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Notes on almost never texting and just calling:
- Would be cool to make like an actual graphic or chart with all the info, but don't even really know how to do that, or take the time.
- 9.5/10 will get a response in text, with almost no qualifiers.
- A call is much much more harder to put into a percentage, with almost anybody. The results are wildly inconsistent and all over the place, without like a real analysis, almost impossible to parse.
-That probably points to how much phone calls have changed as a form of communication, and just in general how people communicate in a very conditional way.
-Think a lot of people reserve phone calls for only the most urgent and most important people to them at the moment
-Huge connection between phone calls and anxiety.
- It's not that I can't text or don't ever text, but increasingly, I feel like a p*ssy doing it, that's the truth. And I can be super direct on text and in person, but the going back and forth, not getting the answer you want, or not even having the conversation you want. But getting a response. And that keeps it all going.
- Just one example, one girlfriend of mine, we have known each other for 10 years, we had plans to see Nosfreatu, if I text, she'll answer, and just defer, or give me some placeholder answer. I'll let you know, Maybe Thursday. Who knows if there is some other reason, we aren't dating, we aren't sleeping together, it's not even a big thing at all. She could 100% just tell me.
- Between people's natural avoidance, and the medium, and whatever the context is, it's like stepping into quicksand, you never get out.
-That's probably something of the equation above.
- Would be cool to make like an actual graphic or chart with all the info, but don't even really know how to do that, or take the time.
- 9.5/10 will get a response in text, with almost no qualifiers.
- A call is much much more harder to put into a percentage, with almost anybody. The results are wildly inconsistent and all over the place, without like a real analysis, almost impossible to parse.
-That probably points to how much phone calls have changed as a form of communication, and just in general how people communicate in a very conditional way.
-Think a lot of people reserve phone calls for only the most urgent and most important people to them at the moment
-Huge connection between phone calls and anxiety.
- It's not that I can't text or don't ever text, but increasingly, I feel like a p*ssy doing it, that's the truth. And I can be super direct on text and in person, but the going back and forth, not getting the answer you want, or not even having the conversation you want. But getting a response. And that keeps it all going.
- Just one example, one girlfriend of mine, we have known each other for 10 years, we had plans to see Nosfreatu, if I text, she'll answer, and just defer, or give me some placeholder answer. I'll let you know, Maybe Thursday. Who knows if there is some other reason, we aren't dating, we aren't sleeping together, it's not even a big thing at all. She could 100% just tell me.
- Between people's natural avoidance, and the medium, and whatever the context is, it's like stepping into quicksand, you never get out.
-That's probably something of the equation above.
OGBobbyJohnson
Veteran
This is correct. Unless youre above the age of lets say 35, or even 40...you shouldnt just be calling somebody. Most people find it invasive and anxiety inducing. You got to work your way up to that, after a couple of dates/after yall have established a rapport via texting.
The Jewnited States
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Right, I am pretty much 40. I just turned 39. These are mostly people I have known for years. And they are mostly my age. I know a few 24 year olds, but did not include them. I understand social norms, but I am also, at the forefront of watching them shift under my feet.
This is why the "data" is so confusing/all over the place, because one of the women who answers more than anyone is 30. Another who didn't answer is 51! That's the outlier, because we just met.
Now, people text to ASK if they can call. How many gate keepers/qualifiers are needed to just talk? I do get why a lot prefer text as far as online dating or even meeting in person, one of women I met recently was kinda sexy on text, and when we talked on the phone, a lot of that was lost. She was so all over the place, kinda dumb, chaotic, unsure of herself.
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