Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How are you going about hooking up with women without taking them out on dates? :beli: I get a lot of matches but I don't want to take any woman on dates :mjlol:. I am finding myself spending 80 plus on dates. I am not a drinker but it seems these woman must get a drink :beli:.
Two girls I have been dating, I know they want me lol but ultimately, I already I am not going to make any of them my long term girlfriend.
 
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How are you going about hooking up with women without taking them out on dates? :beli: I get a lot of matches but I don't want to take any woman on dates :mjlol:. I am finding myself spending 80 plus on dates. I am not a drinker but it seems these woman must get a drink :beli:.
Two girls I have been dating, I know they want me lol but ultimately, I already I am not going to make any of them my long term girlfriend.
if its not going anywhere then let them go....or otherwise you stuck in date-hell

you gonna have to keep taking them out....the minute you start smashing one...she gonna assume you want to be with her....just saying
 

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How are you going about hooking up with women without taking them out on dates? :beli: I get a lot of matches but I don't want to take any woman on dates :mjlol:. I am finding myself spending 80 plus on dates. I am not a drinker but it seems these woman must get a drink :beli:.
Two girls I have been dating, I know they want me lol but ultimately, I already I am not going to make any of them my long term girlfriend.

Parks, weather change may be free festivals around town. Get an annual membership at the big musuem in your city too. Have chicks meet yout at a salad joint or hole in the wall mom and pop ethinc restaurant (those are usually cheap meals)
 

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Invest in a Burner phone number (all modern phones have E-Sim now) and a Nickname you go by
:mjlol:

And at this rate I don't even read profiles anymore, If the first pic is trash, all her pics are selfies (meaning she is a hermit), old pics (meaning she fat as shyt now), I just swipe left. Gotta play volume because apps are so trash, so just swipe on things you feel are solid, no need to read every profile and get annoyed when most of it is cap or you may not even match. Once I actually match then I reed the profile for any weirdo stuff, and then I give grace early convo because most people suck at conversation (I won't just keep it at women to be fair lol), so If I see the trend of one word responses or not asking anything back I just unmatch

Yep. I’m always using a Google number & a dummy Instagram account. They never get the “real insta” = real life or professional = work.
 

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Parks, weather change may be free festivals around town. Get an annual membership at the big musuem in your city too. Have chicks meet yout at a salad joint or hole in the wall mom and pop ethinc restaurant (those are usually cheap meals)

Smoothies, Ice cream, frozen yogurt, coffee, etc.
 

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How are you going about hooking up with women without taking them out on dates? :beli: I get a lot of matches but I don't want to take any woman on dates :mjlol:. I am finding myself spending 80 plus on dates. I am not a drinker but it seems these woman must get a drink :beli:.
Two girls I have been dating, I know they want me lol but ultimately, I already I am not going to make any of them my long term girlfriend.
Just choose a chill venue where you can walk around a bit… coffee shop, town plaza, or a nice bar

Easier if you choose a bar by your spot. Vibe with her, make sure she ain’t crazy and just go for the makeout. She’ll be sucking your dikk in the car in no time, pull her back to yours.

Never treat a date as a date. Just look at is as “I’m just making sure this chick ain’t crazy/catfish, vibing a bit, and making the move”

Easy as pie - “dates” aren’t a real concept. There’s been a few women that have told me no sex on the first date after we made out and shyt. But idgaf I just drop em afterwards no sense in wasting time
 
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