Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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im at a point where i will literally stand across the street from a place to see a chick walk in a spot to scope out if she a catfish

And I’ll go home if she is

I Dont play that shyt

!!!!!!!!!!

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All ways trust your gut, its literally God and the Ancestors saying "Wake yo stupid ass up".
dudes are a lot smarter or intuitive than they give themselves credit for. however scarcity mindsets, desperation and "hope" stray dudes away from doing what's right.

never give these women the benefit of the doubt. they are strategic and know exactly what the fukk theyre doing most of the time.
 
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dudes are a lot smarter than they realize. however scarcity mindsets, desperation and "hope" stray dudes away from doing what's right.

never give these women the benefit of the doubt. they are strategic and know exactly what the fukk theyre doing most of the time.

The main thing Is don't be acting off of hopes and imaginary things. If you have a gut feeling she cheating, address it or just break things off and taker a break and focus on self because its unfair to her if you become an insecure weirdo and she isn't even doing anything lol.

The number one thing I will say is as a man be consistent in who you are, an issue lotta dudes face that makes women switch up is dudes become something they aren't in order to "Get" a woman and then once they got her they become themselves which is radically different and now the woman is like wtf did I sign up for lol. Women are notorious for the same thing (started out slim going to the gym cooking engaging in convo bidirectlonally and not just focused on her, contributing to things, etc). then once they got you they stop lol.
 

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The main thing Is don't be acting off of hopes and imaginary things. If you have a gut feeling she cheating, address it or just break things off and taker a break and focus on self because its unfair to her if you become an insecure weirdo and she isn't even doing anything lol.

The number one thing I will say is as a man be consistent in who you are, an issue lotta dudes face that makes women switch up is dudes become something they aren't in order to "Get" a woman and then once they got her they become themselves which is radically different and now the woman is like wtf did I sign up for lol. Women are notorious for the same thing (started out slim going to the gym cooking engaging in convo bidirectlonally and not just focused on her, contributing to things, etc). then once they got you they stop lol.
i agree for the most part but the halo effect is also very real. ppl will overlook certain qualities or traits and act okay with them due to materialistic reasons but then act brand new when confronted with those realities later.
 

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Ranking how women see men: from “he’s sweet” to “he could ruin my life”

Cute
– Sweet, safe, "he's adorable."
  • Talking: High effort. Gotta build attraction.
Handsome – Polished, attractive, confident.
  • Talking: Moderate effort. You're appealing, but she still wants substance.
Beautiful – Rare but possible for men; usually means aesthetically striking in a softer, almost artistic way.
  • Talking: Depends. She’s intrigued, but it's not necessarily lust.
Sexy – Big jump. You’ve got the physical and the vibe. Presence, style, body language all hit.
  • Talking: Low effort. She’s already thinking about it.
Fine – The peak. That jaw-drop, heart-rate spike. “He could ruin my life and I’d thank him.”
  • Talking: Minimal. Just don’t say anything dumb.
 

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Ranking how women see men: from “he’s sweet” to “he could ruin my life”

Cute
– Sweet, safe, "he's adorable."
  • Talking: High effort. Gotta build attraction.
Handsome – Polished, attractive, confident.
  • Talking: Moderate effort. You're appealing, but she still wants substance.
Beautiful – Rare but possible for men; usually means aesthetically striking in a softer, almost artistic way.
  • Talking: Depends. She’s intrigued, but it's not necessarily lust.
Sexy – Big jump. You’ve got the physical and the vibe. Presence, style, body language all hit.
  • Talking: Low effort. She’s already thinking about it.
Fine – The peak. That jaw-drop, heart-rate spike. “He could ruin my life and I’d thank him.”
  • Talking: Minimal. Just don’t say anything dumb.
now lets do the same for men

Ugly - self explanatory

fukkable - Unattractive facially but has qualities that make her worth smashing (e.g., a fat ass)
  • He'd beat under the right circumstances but wont be seen in public with her
Cute - Decent looking face, possibly short or petite and a good temerament / attitude
  • He'd beat and probably take her out on some light, low investment dates. Might escalate to a relationship if the personality checks out.
Pretty - Facially attractive, pretty smile, nice hair, decent body, pleasant temerament / attitude
  • He'd beat and probably take her out on more thoughtful dates. Will escalate to a relationship if the personality checks out.
Sexy - Sexy attitude (humor, confidence, secure, revealing outfits), great body, decent face
  • He'd beat (maybe raw and regret), will take her out for drinks, friend with benefits, might simp/wife and regret it
Beautiful - Facially attractive, great body, nice hair, nice aura
  • He'd beat and be willing to invest more into attracting her through more thoughtful, planned out dates. If the personality checks out, he might find himself simping or tryna wife

TLDR: He'd beat if she isn't ugly, will wife if the personality is solid. men are simple
 
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Ranking how women see men: from “he’s sweet” to “he could ruin my life”

Cute
– Sweet, safe, "he's adorable."
  • Talking: High effort. Gotta build attraction.
Handsome – Polished, attractive, confident.
  • Talking: Moderate effort. You're appealing, but she still wants substance.
Beautiful – Rare but possible for men; usually means aesthetically striking in a softer, almost artistic way.
  • Talking: Depends. She’s intrigued, but it's not necessarily lust.
Sexy – Big jump. You’ve got the physical and the vibe. Presence, style, body language all hit.
  • Talking: Low effort. She’s already thinking about it.
Fine – The peak. That jaw-drop, heart-rate spike. “He could ruin my life and I’d thank him.”
  • Talking: Minimal. Just don’t say anything dumb.
This being The Coli i know I am talking to all individuals falling in the last category........ :troll:
 
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