Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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how do we feel when you ask for the number and they say they rather talk on the app until we meet? not a huge deal in the grand scheme but seems like a red flag, no?
lmao just had one ask if I had IG and I said no.

You can stay on this app while I coordinate a date with someone opened to better communication
 

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how do we feel when you ask for the number and they say they rather talk on the app until we meet? not a huge deal in the grand scheme but seems like a red flag, no?

I kind of get it. If it doesn't work out you just unmatch and person doesn't have your number.

Alot of weirdos on both sides out there
 

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lmao just had one ask if I had IG and I said no.

You can stay on this app while I coordinate a date with someone opened to better communication
I have an ig but don’t use it much. I always ask them if they are on social media so I can see more photos and learn more before we meet up.
 

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I kind of get it. If it doesn't work out you just unmatch and person doesn't have your number.

Alot of weirdos on both sides out there
I def get it from a women’s perspective. But it usually never works out with these types. I haven’t heard from her since lol. Meanwhile going on a second date Sunday with someone from Ivory Coast and she’s 10 years younger than me.
 

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I def get it from a women’s perspective. But it usually never works out with these types. I haven’t heard from her since lol. Meanwhile going on a second date Sunday with someone from Ivory Coast and she’s 10 years younger than me.

I went out on a date with a woman who never gave me her number

Right after the date before I even got to my car she unmatched me:russ:

Didn't even get to send the had a great evening
 

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there is nothing to get from the woman's perspective...at all. there are people getting beaten or murdered by partners they have been with for years. if a dude is really that much of a sicko you think waiting until date number 2 to give your number is gonna make a difference? a real psychopath can spend months, years manipulating you before they pounce.

if you are attractive enough to her she will give you her number. a woman who isnt willing to is operating from a place of fear. she will always be dangling carrots in front of you.

at the beginning she's dangling her number. then she will dangle the idea of coming over to your place. then she will dangle the idea of fukkin...and be the type to withold sex, affection and everything else that a man needs to function in a relationship. if a girl doesnt wanna give you her number just unmatch. fukk you look like spending time planning a date and possibly even paying for it/picking her up when she cant even do the bare minimum and give you her number so that yall can communicate properly. have some dignity.
 
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Yeah but I mean dude is 6'8 rich and in shape

He's literally in the 0.99 percent of men out there.
for sure. point is that if a woman is attracted enough to you she is doing the most

we not asking for women to fukk on the first date, we talking about a phone number lol. if she cant give you that then you shouldnt give her any consideration

to be honest you shouldnt even meet up with a girl before facetiming or talking on the phone. lotta these hoes be editing their pics, using old pics and have no convo skills when you meet em in person. its imperative you get the phone number before you invest any time or energy
 

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for sure. point is that if a woman is attracted enough to you she is doing the most

we not asking for women to fukk on the first date, we talking about a phone number lol. if she cant give you that then you shouldnt give her any consideration

to be honest you shouldnt even meet up with a girl before facetiming or talking on the phone. lotta these hoes be editing their pics, using old pics and have no convo skills when you meet em in person. its imperative you get the phone number before you invest any time or energy
But we got brehs in other threads arguing that online dating is better than cold approaching :pachaha:

It skips out on all this bullshyt and you already know who you meeting is attractive to you aint no surprises physically
 

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But we got brehs in other threads arguing that online dating is better than cold approaching :pachaha:

It skips out on all this bullshyt and you already know who you meeting is attractive to you aint no surprises physically
Yea you can catch the vibe and gauge interest too

If only women felt the same way. You’ll approach a women and have a great convo only to have her ghost you and then you see the same girl on hinge. It’s why i don’t blame dudes for not approaching anymore. Women don’t value it the way they say they do
 

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i even called a chick out for not saving my number recently. its something a lot of women do nowadays.

we had gone out on two dates when i noticed. she said saving numbers makes things feel too personal; mind you, this is the same chick who was acting like she wants something serious. i said how can you expect things to go anywhere if you aint tryna get personal? I deleted her number.

Dont waste time with women who are pessimistic and going into it looking/waiting for shyt to go wrong.
 
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