Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[WIA20XX]

I was overseas for work last week and when I got back she hit me with the "times are so tough my ex offered to buy me groceries and I had no choice but to accept"

What made her tell you this?

 

[Digital Omen]

What made her tell you this?

I'm going with guilt. She knew she was wrong.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

“She had no choice but to accept it “

Lol

 

[papa pimp]

South African women can be a lot lol. They are not raised to be quiet, mild or meek like some other types of African women. They can be cool but can also be opportunists. This girl is espousing a common mindset that an older woman prob imparted to her.

Several of my male relatives are with South African women and they can be a real trip.

More SA news



You got SA “baddies” begging for R320 ($18 USD) but talking about travel content.



And dude is asking for permission to post with her



Meanwhile she look regular. Don’t be fooled by their IG feeds and the illusion.

The game

Spoiler: Her

Def can see the opportunist side with them. But they’re dating for survival.

there’s a lot of them there and not enough men/bosses to go around

That’s why Nigerians go there and clean up
West African genetics are top of the top in Africa plus they tend to be more educated, ambitious and this have more money

Only thing stopping SA from becoming what DR/Colombia is to Americans is how far out it is

Enlightening and makes sense.

I was told info to the contrary which didnt make sense to me so glad to know I'm not insane.

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[MikelArteta]

Enlightening and makes sense.

I was told info to the contrary which didnt make sense to me so glad to know I'm not insane.

Yup I actually knew this south african chick (dont talk to anymore as i'm married) that did africancasting. She'd act like she was all that but she didn't nkow that I know she was getting smutted out for 2000 rand

 

[Apollo Creed]

The game is the game

Been going with a chick for about 5 months now. We got along great, she's smart, we could talk about topics high and low, lots of laughs, sex was immaculate, she's close to her family including her dad, no social media thotting, only one small tattoo, no septum piercing. It's all good.
Of course being in her mid-40's she's divorced with 2 daughters. Oldest one a recent college grad, the other just grad HS. Cordial with the dad.

I was overseas for work last week and when I got back she hit me with the "times are so tough my ex offered to buy me groceries and I had no choice but to accept"

When she said that my mind immediately went to:

Spoiler

I stayed cool, didn't blow up the spot, no emo shyt. Calmly "We have a profound disagreement here. I'd rather go with a woman whose ex doesn't buy her groceries. I'm good on that. I consider it disrespectful to myself and my manhood. Thank you for your honesty in telling me. Best of luck in all your future Publix endeavors." She bucked a little on some "it's not like that, you're blowing it out of proportion, etc etc." That shyt we've all heard a million times.

Me:

Spoiler

Told her "Not gonna argue and go back and forth with you. We both know why homie pulled his wallet out. It is what it is." I took my L and skated. Cold world out here.

Just when I thought I was out...

I wouldnt have hit her with the passive aggressive shyt but would still check out, but the way im reading this seems yall were just FWB and not in a committed relationship, where that point its better he foots the bill not you (i feel at 5 months if you wanted a relationship youd be in one).

Ultimately for me it would just confirm we cant be anything more than FWB Which is fime

 

[Ohene]

Yup I actually knew this south african chick (dont talk to anymore as i'm married) that did africancasting. She'd act like she was all that but she didn't nkow that I know she was getting smutted out for 2000 rand

Damn
It’s not the one we both know is it
Who is it

 

[DA_LURKA]

I wouldnt have hit her with the passive aggressive shyt...

Maybe I'm missing it what was passive aggressive about his response?

 

[Apollo Creed]

Maybe I'm missing it what was passive aggressive about his response?

"We have a profound disagreement here. I'd rather go with a woman whose ex doesn't buy her groceries. I'm good on that. I consider it disrespectful to myself and my manhood. Thank you for your honesty in telling me. Best of luck in all your future Publix endeavors."

I may be missing something key, but what i took it as they are FWBs, unless they were working towards a real relationship or in one, what does it even matter? Especially being in their 40s and grown kids and stuff from the ladies end, baby daddies are forever lol.

For me id just pull back and keep the mental note, or if we really FWBs im like better him than me footing the bill

 

[Mastamimd]

I made the mistake of trying out Facebook dating. Probably the worst one yet. There's decent and good looking chicks on there but the chance of any of them taking it seriously is hovering right around 0

shyts unbelievably awful. I don't know why it exists

 

[WIA20XX]

shyts unbelievably awful. I don't know why it exists

Zuck is a trend hopper, much like Google.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Got like 350 likes on Tinder im 24 hours of setting to Nairobi. The prostitution really that bad? Lmfao @papa pimp @Malcolmxxx_23

 

[papa pimp]

Got like 350 likes on Tinder im 24 hours of setting to Nairobi. The prostitution really that bad? Lmfao @papa pimp @Malcolmxxx_23

Yes. Even the ones who aren't on that time have a high % of catfish.

If you use IG, hopping in a DM is a much better play and is a much better filter for quality.

 

[cyndaquil]

Today was a bad day for the general management office. Roster management falling apart. 2 free agent Chicks have not responded to the message. My main girl is sick . We might need to call up some G-Leaguers soon for the two way

just a week ago I was on the moon now the universe tryna respond in kind. But it won't. I won't beat my meat tonight and I will meditate instead

We holding strong. This morning is going well. Contract negotiations have continued. Free agents are showing interest. Can't sign everybody. A G Leaguer is pushing for a contract and I may give them a two way, I need to see game performance

Be prepared and remember brehs