Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Interesting insights on hinge. So it seems black women are adding “white/caucasian” to their ethnicity so they’re shown at the top with the white women.

Second, im noticing quite a bunch of young women looking for a “life partner”. As young as 21. Probably cap, but interesting if it’s true.

Single moms aren’t putting the have kids option on as well. I set my hinge to no kids then after a few conversations “ yeah I have two kids”
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Interesting insights on hinge. So it seems black women are adding “white/caucasian” to their ethnicity so they’re shown at the top with the white women.

Second, im noticing quite a bunch of young women looking for a “life partner”. As young as 21. Probably cap, but interesting if it’s true.

The white thing was discussed here a few years back, its mainly swirlers but they claim they so it cause they are hidden from better potential matches lol

And the life partner stuff is the fake tradcon soft life prostitutues
 

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Interesting insights on hinge. So it seems black women are adding “white/caucasian” to their ethnicity so they’re shown at the top with the white women.

Second, im noticing quite a bunch of young women looking for a “life partner”. As young as 21. Probably cap, but interesting if it’s true.
They want white Men to see their profile
 

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Interesting insights on hinge. So it seems black women are adding “white/caucasian” to their ethnicity so they’re shown at the top with the white women.

Second, im noticing quite a bunch of young women looking for a “life partner”. As young as 21. Probably cap, but interesting if it’s true.
I called this out on here before

I usually had my deal breaker set to black women only to start and then would turn it off if there were no more in my area. Once i turned it off new blk women would pop up

Theyre pathetic…want consideration from ppl who are actively filtering them out even if it means missing out on blk men who actually want them
 
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A lot of women may claim that they want a relationship because they think that’s what they’re supposed to want and because they don’t want to come across as a hoe.

Never listen to what they say and never be the first one to claim you want something serious. Even if that’s what you want and what she wants it’s liable to scare her away or think you were you easy to get. unfortunately you have to come across as indifferent and like you’re not putting her under any kind of pressure.

I’ve never gotten into a relationship while making that my intention or goal. I always just met a girl, thought she was cool, spent more time with her and let the feelings develop naturally - especially after seeing she was reciprocating and putting in effort. The focus early on needs to be just having a good time with multiple women on your terms. Over time the one who’s worth something serious will naturally be the last one standing
Every time the relationship was my goal because i liked the girl early on (lets say after a month) and i moved in such a manner she hit me with an okie doke
 

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Every time the relationship was my goal because i liked the girl early on (lets say after a month) and i moved in such a manner she hit me with an okie doke

Completely agree. What happens is you give them "The Ick" because you move to fast, they start to feel "pressured" and all of the sudden she'll feel like you're moving like the "woman". She needs to capture YOU.

She needs to BEG you for the relationship. Indifference, nonjudgmental, no pressure, will always win with today's women. Like you mentioned, as long as you're having a good time on YOUR terms, and doing what YOU want to do, you'll never feel like you wasted your time.
 
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Single moms aren’t putting the have kids option on as well. I set my hinge to no kids then after a few conversations “ yeah I have two kids”
:martin:
Yup. Happened to me too.
"Have kids"
+
"Life partner"
=
:camby:

They looking for a clean up man. Unfortunately when you have your shyt together you attract those types like flies. And a lot of them refuse to date a man who has kids too :mjlol:

Like nah I spent my 20s in school and progressing my career, not getting hoes pregnant, and being responsible. Why would yall expect me to want to throw my hard earned lifestyle away to play clean up man for you? The number of cream pies and raw sex i missed out on nah :dead:
 
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Yup. Happened to me too.
"Have kids"
+
"Life partner"
=
:camby:

They looking for a clean up man. Unfortunately when you have your shyt together you attract those types like flies. And a lot of them refuse to date a man who has kids too :mjlol:

Like nah I spent my 20s in school and progressing my career, not getting hoes pregnant, and being responsible. Why would yall expect me to want to throw my hard earned lifestyle away to play clean up man for you? The number of cream pies and raw sex i missed out on nah :dead:
They crashing out now that more and more men are saying no to this

Damn red pill :mjlol:
 

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Every time the relationship was my goal because i liked the girl early on (lets say after a month) and i moved in such a manner she hit me with an okie doke

Since 2021 that’s basically how it’s been for me. Thinking back to my relationships of the past I wasn’t even thinking about a relationship and it came so easy. It’s wild cause back then I just dated just to run up numbers and easily got into relationships but now that I’m legit wanting a relationship it seems difficult hahaha
 

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Since 2021 that’s basically how it’s been for me. Thinking back to my relationships of the past I wasn’t even thinking about a relationship and it came so easy. It’s wild cause back then I just dated just to run up numbers and easily got into relationships but now that I’m legit wanting a relationship it seems difficult hahaha
:francis:
 
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