A bit of background. If you feel the need to continuously compliment a woman, that is natural because you are a decent person. And even if you aren't a decent person, society tells us that by being kind to someone you are more likely to fall in their good graces. FORGET THIS BULshyt. Seriously, what you have to understand is that people in general respect POWER AND CONFIDENCE. An example I like is, take a look at the status of white and black folk in this world. White people raised hell on people all across the globes, while black folk did not raise a single finger towards them. Now look around you and tell me who is being disrespected? Who is being overlooked and overshadowed? Niceness does not work unless under circumstances in which you can afford to be. Once you have crushed the building with Power, then you can come through with the niceness to console. This is manipulation 101 but its the way of the world, Im just following proven results
I'm writing all this because you have to understand that being nice AT FIRST means very little when it comes to people. If you don't believe me, offer to buy a girl a drink and see if anything comes of it
Now, for the actual approach. I always do a complete up and down look of a woman's figure when i'm talking to her. Making sure she sees me do this counts for a lot because she will see that I'm judging her and will immediately put her slightly on the defensive and in a slightly inferior position. If you like what you see, give a little smirk, and compliment her on something specific about her outfit. What you have just done is taken her on an emotional rollercoaster. You have made her feel weary about her self esteem, but then are able to bring it up a second later. And this means even more because now she sees that you don't give a fukk so what you say has more substance.
The rest of the conversation will be a continuation of the above. You will constantly be giving her shyt, but at the same time making her feel good with your actions/words etc. If you can master this balance you will win most of the time. Thats the Young Buck guarantee
But most importantly you have to practice. You're going to feel uncomfortable moving against your nature of being nice because you are afraid how she will react. Once the fear of this is over and you begin to master the art of balancing shyt talk/flirtatious compliments you're in breh
i have enough gems on dealing with women which i need to start sharing with you youngins and i'm currently going through my bookmarks and seeing great advice which others need. Imma post a few pointers that hopefully gives you all clarity and advice.
