Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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cyndaquil
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How long should I give someone to respond on dating apps before I unmatch? 
Two days is enough or too generous?
I'm experienced enough to notice the patterns when it's bout to be some bullshyt but I also know that things happen.
Two days is enough or too generous?
I'm experienced enough to notice the patterns when it's bout to be some bullshyt but I also know that things happen.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
if they see he is trying and not playing 2k all day why the fukk are they talking about divorce fantasies?And that one chick said "he says he is going to not get the job and he needs confidence"
he got laid off and then keeps getting rejected from job after job how does she think he's supposed to feel?Man if that woman had to date like men and go through rejection after rejection to succeed she'd be ready to kill herself smh
Respond to the initial contact or a running conversation?How long should I give someone to respond on dating apps before I unmatch?
Two days is enough or too generous?
I'm experienced enough to notice the patterns when it's bout to be some bullshyt but I also know that things happen.
Women only want to meet you after you win the race...and you have to keep racing....
Edit - This was why Lawrence on Insecure was such a fresh air...in the 1st season.
How long should I give someone to respond on dating apps before I unmatch?
Two days is enough or too generous?
I'm experienced enough to notice the patterns when it's bout to be some bullshyt but I also know that things happen.
Time of the week matters, but if the convo is just text tag "aka I reply when Im bored and open the app" you shouldn't even be taking it serious and unmatch if it becomes clutter lol. nobody is that busy unless they work a customer service or physically demanding job where they can't have their phone. They are responding slow because they dont care.
Don’t put yourself through mental gymnastics to make sense of a woman’s behavior
If she ain’t moving the way you expect, bush her. No more giving these women the benefit of the doubt, we know way too much and have way too much experience at this point to do that
If she ain’t moving the way you expect, bush her. No more giving these women the benefit of the doubt, we know way too much and have way too much experience at this point to do that
How long should I give someone to respond on dating apps before I unmatch?
Two days is enough or too generous?
I'm experienced enough to notice the patterns when it's bout to be some bullshyt but I also know that things happen.
It's good that you're realizing it. Depends on engagement levels and how much shes writing or investing into the convo.
High Investment: 30 min – 2 hrs (I know i'm a priority or at least in the top tier)
Medium: 4–10 hrs (This is more medium, not quiet HIM, but you're good)
Low: 24–48 hrs (Bush, low investment, just want attention, have other ppl they're entertaining)
Ghosting / Weak returns (one word answers or weak responses that don't keep the convo going (Ignore. unmatch)
But i usually bush around 24-48. Don't listen to those ppl talking about "i leave em there for a week" "its not that serious, no need to unmatch, they comeback" "i dont see a point in unmatching"
How you start is how you finish, you keep em there, you are entertaining disrespect and showing how much you value yourself.
If you think about it, women only really like the guy from the starting point and the finish line. The middle part is when they're trying to change you, your friends, your habits, your lifestyle, etc. basically trying to reconstruct you, and then when they succeed, they leave.
Starting point as in - "the whole dance back & forth, flirting, talking stage, etc"
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i once unmatched a chick for these reasons then found her IG when i was bored one day a month later. I put my acct on public, DM'ed her and we linked eventually to grab tacos. She came over the second time and I smashed.How long should I give someone to respond on dating apps before I unmatch?
Two days is enough or too generous?
I'm experienced enough to notice the patterns when it's bout to be some bullshyt but I also know that things happen.
Thats an exception to the rule though. A lot of these women turn off notifications from dating apps and only go into them when theyre bored or seeking attn. The juice aint worth the squeeze usually
And that one chick said "he says he is going to not get the job and he needs confidence"
Man if that woman had to date like men and go through rejection after rejection to succeed she'd be ready to kill herself smh
They thought he was the "safe guy" .. and well... he's not so safe or stable.
They pictured a safe haven / finish line and now their fantasy is crushed because his selling point was his .... "stability"
and those women in their mid 40s, im not sure how much nurturing those american women are doing.
All that scattered dialog is unnatural in general rather just have her follow me on IG and she can orbit there lol
cyndaquil
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Running conversation over the course of like a few days