Bought a new scarf?I might have pulled a @MikelArteta but in Colombia
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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No I agree with this
Met earlier this year and I was in Colombia for the past month. Got sick in bogota and she nursed me back to heath and looked out for me.
Nothing crazy
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
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What does she do? ... Do you speak Spanish? ..... amd not "dos cervezas por favor", but spanish at a level close to English.I might have pulled a @MikelArteta but in Colombia
Mans going to be moving soon
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
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Fall in love cause a broad could make Sopa de Mondongo brehs.....
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Aint even defending Colombia because we know what it is but where is the safe space?
aint you like 100% passport bro? I haven't said anything against it really but what is the expectation? Women in America can be uncooperative so you go to a 3rd world country to attract women who will cooperate due to your perceived status and resources. The nature of women hasn't changed but your status amongst them has so you're able to utilize that to attract them. Issue is just like if you were a multimillionaire here flaunting wealth to attract women they are still out to finesse you. Especially with the cultural barriers, it is much much harder to discern true attraction vs being finessed if that makes sense? So usually men go to these places to feel like a superstar then go back home. What makes you think this one is different and you've found a potential wife?
Aint even defending Colombia because we know what it is but where is the safe space?
I mean I think top 5 places to not get locked down would prob be Colombia, DR, Kenya, Cuba, Jamaica
I think its a bit more nuanced.
I dont flaunt any wealth whatsoever when I travel. I am sure a lot of the brehs here dont either cause whos tryna get robbed, but still women in a lot of other countries are kinda just easier to deal with. That being said, i think there could be two things at play. When you are a black, tall, handsome and fit dude you kinda gonna stand out in any country that you arent from - especially if it isnt one of the G7 countries. Thus, the perception might be a) that you are a tourist who they assume to have enough money to be able to travel to whereever youre at and b) because youre not from around there, you are somebody who they can have a good time with and face no repercussions. For instance, a nice restaurant in Cape Town might be nothing for us to go to financially, but for a local girl, the types of men into her who arent tourists prolly aint gonna spend that kinda money or take her there, they not making USD/CAD and are prolly earning far less on top of that.
Like you said its the same everywhere. If i go on youtube, its NY dudes complaining about NY women and vice versa. Those same dudes will come to Toronto and say Toronto girls are easy as hell. Conversely, Toronto women and men will complain about each other and then go to New York in the summer and laud how friendly and straightforward the people there are.
At the end of the day, people are just attracted to people not from their ends. And when people travel they are more free spirited, waste less time and put their best foot forward because theyre trying to maximize the experience. The Toronto woman whos giving the Toronto dude the run around will be much more open to linking the NY dude cause she know he only there for the wknd. The New Yorker will be down to take her to the nice restaurant and spend some bread cause fukk it, thats what ppl do on vacation and he tryna see whats up with her. So people will come back home or talk about tourists saying damn shyt is amazing out there or people from that city are dope, but if they had the same approach when meeting people (as the approacher or the approached) they would probably have similarly great experiences domestically.
Because of how big tourism is especially sex tourism alot of the guys and girls got a PhD in getting Cacs and brehs lockdd down . They will give you the best 1-2 weeks of your life and before you know it they got you.
I know of 3 women personally who went to Jamaica just on vacation and ended up marrying a dude they met at the resort.
Seen countless stories of Cacs getting caught up in Kenya .
I just think if you haven't lived In a place and just passing through you get the best of it.
I remember I used to eat like I was mandarin when I'd go to London. Yet every London dude id come across would complain about the women or dating scene and that ish was great to me.
Even here in Uganda men complain but like you mention when some of these women will spread their legs for a mzungu for a new wig. I get it
it dont even gotta be a wig or something material...its just a different vibe
and dont get it twisted, with how masculine women have been becoming, they wanna taste the rainbow the same way men do. the same way we used to go to our boys saying, "I fukked a girl from [insert exotic/foreign country] etc etc is how women are moving too lol
the same way a dude like me is lookin at a Bantu chick with a fat ass and thin waist like a piece of meat, she looking at a deezed, tall Ghanaian dude like me like a piece of meat wondering "whats that like?"
When you was in london, drake was probably at his height - had women wondering about toronto dudes
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Colombia has something like a 90% Single Mother Rate + its the literal Web Cam Capital of the world + A Narco State and the culture that comes with that. Colombian high society is fairly racist too so you aren't breaking into that just because you are American as the high society of every country operates on a global scale anyways. Colombia is a country with a rich history and cool ass people but not somewhere a man who is actually competitive in this world would take serious for a relationship but more so date and have your fun (I mean you can literal date not trick on prostitutes), but the women who would date a foreigner are not traditional what so ever (chances are you are not traditional coming from the west so it shouldn't be an issue), but like I said there are nuances where you wouldn't want to start a family there or legally get married).