Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I just think if you haven't lived In a place and just passing through you get the best of it.

I remember I used to eat like I was mandarin when I'd go to London. Yet every London dude id come across would complain about the women or dating scene and that ish was great to me.

Even here in Uganda men complain but like you mention when some of these women will spread their legs for a mzungu for a new wig. I get it
And what you said aint just about women either - applies to living in general. Jobs, housing, activities all that shyt

Ppl love romanticizing new places. If they stayed there for two yrs theyd be singing a diff tune
 
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Colombia has something like a 90% Single Mother Rate + its the literal Web Cam Capital of the world + A Narco State and the culture that comes with that. Colombian high society is fairly racist too so you aren't breaking into that just because you are American as the high society of every country operates on a global scale anyways. Colombia is a country with a rich history and cool ass people but not somewhere a man who is actually competitive in this world would take serious for a relationship but more so date and have your fun (I mean you can literal date not trick on prostitutes), but the women who would date a foreigner are not traditional what so ever (chances are you are not traditional coming from the west so it shouldn't be an issue), but like I said there are nuances where you wouldn't want to start a family there or legally get married).
Yea a proper colombian shorty is gonna want a colombian man she can take home to her family and relate to culturally more likely than not - and she will probably be wifed up by the time she 25. Same shyt as in africa like you said countless times

In colombia it felt like damn near any chick youd encounter while being out and about had a price even if they werent a sex worker
 

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I think its a bit more nuanced.

I dont flaunt any wealth whatsoever when I travel. I am sure a lot of the brehs here dont either cause whos tryna get robbed, but still women in a lot of other countries are kinda just easier to deal with. That being said, i think there could be two things at play. When you are a black, tall, handsome and fit dude you kinda gonna stand out in any country that you arent from - especially if it isnt one of the G7 countries. Thus, the perception might be a) that you are a tourist who they assume to have enough money to be able to travel to whereever youre at and b) because youre not from around there, you are somebody who they can have a good time with and face no repercussions. For instance, a nice restaurant in Cape Town might be nothing for us to go to financially, but for a local girl, the types of men into her who arent tourists prolly aint gonna spend that kinda money or take her there, they not making USD/CAD and are prolly earning far less on top of that.

Like you said its the same everywhere. If i go on youtube, its NY dudes complaining about NY women and vice versa. Those same dudes will come to Toronto and say Toronto girls are easy as hell. Conversely, Toronto women and men will complain about each other and then go to New York in the summer and laud how friendly and straightforward the people there are.

At the end of the day, people are just attracted to people not from their ends. And when people travel they are more free spirited, waste less time and put their best foot forward because theyre trying to maximize the experience. The Toronto woman whos giving the Toronto dude the run around will be much more open to linking the NY dude cause she know he only there for the wknd. The New Yorker will be down to take her to the nice restaurant and spend some bread cause fukk it, thats what ppl do on vacation and he tryna see whats up with her. So people will come back home or talk about tourists saying damn shyt is amazing out there or people from that city are dope, but if they had the same approach when meeting people (as the approacher or the approached) they would probably have similarly great experiences domestically.
Thats true you dont necessarily have to flaunt it they can tell you're not from there. But there's a huge difference in perceived status as an American in say London or Toronto where the wealth gap between the people there and the average American is very small vs someone who visits somewhere like Thailand where the dollar stretches much further. They're taking advantage of a power difference. They hate transactional relationships until it's a transaction that they can afford. Same dudes would be trickin on women here if they had that level of wealth to do so.

You're also speaking from the perspective of someone who can eat where they live at. A lot of passport bros cant eat at home so they dip out overseas to try and eat. And it's always the places where their money stretches further too. It's different if you took a trip to Paris and came back with with a wife vs if you went to Vietnam. But I definitely hear you. Sometimes I hear women tell my about their single friends and they stay complaining about the men in their area and calling em trash and put out of towners on a pedestal that is definitely inline with the nature of a lot of women.
It's a great eay to GET a top tier chick looks wise but bringing her back at some point she'll find a higher bidder in the US and dip. It's a story that's way too common.
 

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Yea a proper colombian shorty is gonna want a colombian man she can take home to her family and relate to culturally more likely than not - and she will probably be wifed up by the time she 25. Same shyt as in africa like you said countless times

In colombia it felt like damn near any chick youd encounter while being out and about had a price even if they werent a sex worker

A Proper women of any society wants a Man of her society unless y'all are two power players from different societies (more so her family has something of means and you marrying into this).

This is not to speak in absolutes of course. That said I`m more so talking about the chick with a super clean background which is rare in general. Often times dudes are messing with either feminist who are tolerable to an outsider since you are ignorant to the customs of the society of a chick with a suspect past who out grew it and got her sense together early enough where while she isn't desirable to a local a dude from the outside is fine with it because he is going to be clueless of said past lol.

Like I said before that lotta these chicks are great to date, but if you are marriage minded and come from a family that isn't dysfunctional some chicks you see why there are not married eve though they are "cool people".

Ultimately I`m saying is dudes need to have the same sense of urgency they have at home as many dudes turn their brains off when a chick behaves like a normal woman as they are starved of that energy of at home and thats how you get in trouble.
 

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Just a week ago, I hit someone up, to go to MASTROS, and she's very responsive. Very poised. She said oh I love Mastros, I haven't been to the SD one yet, have you? I'm in Vegas tomorrow.

That's the kind of thing I am describing.

I mean … any woman is gona jump at Mastros

:russ:

bytches want that butter cake
 

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Like I said before that lotta these chicks are great to date, but if you are marriage minded and come from a family that isn't dysfunctional some chicks you see why there are not married eve though they are "cool people".

Ultimately I`m saying is dudes need to have the same sense of urgency they have at home as many dudes turn their brains off when a chick behaves like a normal woman as they are starved of that energy of at home and thats how you get in trouble.
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Ultimately I`m saying is dudes need to have the same sense of urgency they have at home as many dudes turn their brains off when a chick behaves like a normal woman as they are starved of that energy of at home and thats how you get in trouble.
Yes and unfortunately majority of dudes traveling specifically for p*ssy are exactly that sort who are starved. Brehs be losing all sorts of reasoning skills. Oh she calling me handsome "papi que lindo" "te quiero papi 😘 " alright you an average dude aint never had chicks call you handsome or cute your whole life and you 35% bodyfat wit a double chin. Stop it you know she lying to you. Proceed accordingly. :russ:

Like yall said it's different if you speak the language, engage in the culture and understand it, and you got options where you come from. Still gotta be careful but this is where dudes get delusional too. Cuz a prostitute might find you attractive, enjoy your time, genuinely like you but she still gonna ask for her money before she leave
 

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Cuz a prostitute might find you attractive, enjoy your time, genuinely like you but she still gonna ask for her money before she leave

Change the time scale, a prostitute might marry you, but at the end she wants half of everything you make, the house, the car, and the retirement.

:troll:

The only way you win this game is if you bang the chick, get some kids and grand kids and die first.

At least then you won't know about the next man she shacks up with. :patrice:
 

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Yes and unfortunately majority of dudes traveling specifically for p*ssy are exactly that sort who are starved. Brehs be losing all sorts of reasoning skills. Oh she calling me handsome "papi que lindo" "te quiero papi 😘 " alright you an average dude aint never had chicks call you handsome or cute your whole life and you 35% bodyfat wit a double chin. Stop it you know she lying to you. Proceed accordingly. :russ:

Like yall said it's different if you speak the language, engage in the culture and understand it, and you got options where you come from. Still gotta be careful but this is where dudes get delusional too. Cuz a prostitute might find you attractive, enjoy your time, genuinely like you but she still gonna ask for her money before she leave

speaking the language helps but you still aren't from these cultures and especially in Latin America they do not view sex how we do and then dudes have to factor in many of these folks get off the porch at 14/15 which is why younger chicks in these countries are way more mature because 25 is old as fukk (if you been fukking and drinking since 14/15 10 yrs from then you burnt the fukk out). And then these countries legalize prostitution for a reason because aint nobody finna save anyone who makes a bad decision (its literally you better go sell drugs or go work at a brother but we aint finna put you on no welfare long term).

Dudes who get women understand this shyt is for fun/dating but I still see some dudes get too caught int he mix and may find the right girl but will then take a "blue pill" approach in how he handles comitment and end up fukked because all women are the same. I had a dude taking me on a tour in Colombia once and he was so depressed because his wife was taking him to the cleaners in their divorce lol

keep in mind this was a well established in shape older dude who looked like a Mark Anthony or some shyt so it wasn't a case of some flabby dude who was batting above his weight. In these countries if you want easy sex you can go to a brother and smash chicks who are literally on dudes IG timelines, legal marriage and not protecting your self is what fukks men
 

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speaking the language helps but you still aren't from these cultures and especially in Latin America they do not view sex how we do and then dudes have to factor in many of these folks get off the porch at 14/15 which is why younger chicks in these countries are way more mature because 25 is old as fukk (if you been fukking and drinking since 14/15 10 yrs from then you burnt the fukk out). And then these countries legalize prostitution for a reason because aint nobody finna save anyone who makes a bad decision (its literally you better go sell drugs or go work at a brother but we aint finna put you on no welfare long term).

Dudes who get women understand this shyt is for fun/dating but I still see some dudes get too caught int he mix and may find the right girl but will then take a "blue pill" approach in how he handles comitment and end up fukked because all women are the same. I had a dude taking me on a tour in Colombia once and he was so depressed because his wife was taking him to the cleaners in their divorce lol

keep in mind this was a well established in shape older dude who looked like a Mark Anthony or some shyt so it wasn't a case of some flabby dude who was batting above his weight. In these countries if you want easy sex you can go to a brother and smash chicks who are literally on dudes IG timelines, legal marriage and not protecting your self is what fukks men
All facts. That first paragraph is real important in context.
 

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I mean I think top 5 places to not get locked down would prob be Colombia, DR, Kenya, Cuba, Jamaica
Yall throwing extras on it

Ain’t say nothing about wives or. getting locked down. Yall can lodge a complaint about women in every corner of the planet.
 
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